Ngezinye izikhathi omama nabazali bayaqaphela ukuthi ingane yabo ikhala ephusheni, hhayi ngisho nokuvuka. Esimweni esinjalo, abazali abaqondi ukuthi kwenzekani kumntwana, futhi baqale ukukhathazeka. Abanye babo bavuke phakathi kwamabili, kanti abanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, bayesaba futhi bazame ukungathinti. Kulesi sihloko sizokutshela ukuthi kungani ngezinye izikhathi umntwana ekhala ephusheni futhi engavuki, nokuthi yini okumele yenziwe kulokhu.
Kungani umntwana ekhala ephusheni, engavuki?
Ososayensi baye bafakazela isikhathi eside ukuthi izingane ezincane ziqala ukubona amaphupho ngemva kokuzigcwalisa izinyanga ezintathu. Ezimweni eziningi, imbangela yobusuku ekhala, lapho ingane ingavumi khona, yiba amaphupho athile . Lesi simo sijwayelekile futhi sibonakala kuwo wonke umntwana wesibili. Kukhona ngisho negama elikhethekile - "ubusuku bokuphila obukhalayo", obonisa umcimbi onjalo nje.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ngosuku ingane ithola izinto eziningi ezintsha, ungamangali ukuthi ebusuku uzogwinya. Kusebusuku lapho ubuchopho bomntwana osanda kuzalwa buhlanganisa wonke amakhono nolwazi alutholile. Zama ukungavumeli lokho engxenyeni yesibili yosuku imvuthu ibhekene nemimoya engadingekile, vakashela izindawo ezinabantu abaningi kuphela ngaphambi kokudla kwasemini, kusihlwa, uchithe isikhathi esithile ngokuthula ngangokunokwenzeka.
Esinye isizathu esenza umntwana ngezinye izikhathi akhale ephusheni, engavuki, kungaba uhlobo lokuhlola, ukhona umama oseduzane.
Noma kunjalo, noma kunjalo, uma uqaphela ukuthi ingane iyaxosha ephusheni futhi ingavuki, musa ukugijima ngokushesha embhedeni - ezimweni eziningi, umntwana uzokwazi ukuzola ngokushesha ngokwanele. Uma lokhu kungenzeki, zama okungenani isikhathi sokulala nengane, cishe, ingane ingakakwazi ukulala eceleni kombhede wayo.