Impendulo evamile yombuzo, ukuthi ukulahlekelwa komuntu ngamunye , yisiphi isayensi esisemthethweni, kunciphisa ukulahlekelwa kwamakhono ayisisekelo omuntu ekucabangeni okukhuthele, ukwehla ngokujwayelekile ezinkomba eziyisisekelo zokuxhumana nomphakathi kanye nokusebenza kahle, kanye nokuhluleka ukwenza ukuhlolwa okwanele kokuziphatha komuntu ngokuqondene nokuziphatha, ukuziphatha nokuziphatha izimiso zokuziphatha. Ngamanye amazwi, inqubo yokuthuthukiswa kobuntu iguqulwa futhi umuntu obhekene nalokhu kuhloswe kakhulu kunomthelela wokulandela ukushaywa kwezingqalasizinda eziyisisekelo kunokuba aphile ngokuvumelana nemigodi engasungulwa emphakathini okuhloswe ukuyekethisa ukuhlangana kwabantu ngabanye futhi iphikisana nesifiso sokuthola ukuphila okujabulisayo kuphela, ubugovu.
Izimpawu zokukhohlakala zibonakala ikakhulu lapho sezikhulile, ngokuvamile zikhona ezinye zezibonakaliso zesifo sokuwohloka komqondo okuncane, kodwa ngokuvamile kuvame ukubonwa kubantu asebekhulile abaye babhekana nokucindezeleka okukhulu noma abaye bangaphansi kwejoka lezimo zengqondo ezimbi zabanye isikhathi eside. Ezimweni ezinjalo, umuntu, ekholelwa ekungabaluleki kwakhe, elahlekelwa isifiso sokuqhubeka nokuqonda ngokomoya nangokomoya, kanye nokucindezeleka okuhambisana nalokhu, ngokuvamile kuvusa isimo. Kufika isigaba esibucayi sokuchithwa kwezenhlalakahle, lapho ummeleli womphakathi oyedwa ezwa sengathi uhlaselwe futhi unenkinga yokuhlala yedwa, angangena kalula isimo sokuzibulala kwengqondo nomuntu siqu.
Izimbangela eziyinhloko zokudangala
Kodwa-ke, izizathu ezithinta ukuziphatha kabi komuntu noma ukuziphatha komuntu kungabonakali kuphela ebuhlotsheni bakhe bezenhlalakahle nezenhlalakahle. Ukulutha utshwala nokudakwa kwezidakamizwa kuyindlela eqondile, eyenziwe yi-slabs ebanzi, okungaholela ekungeneni emnyango ngencwadi ethi "Izitebhisi phansi". Abantu abanezinkinga ezifanayo ngokuvamile balahlekelwa umuzwa wecala futhi bakwazi ukuhlola ngokwanele isimo sabo, futhi esigabeni esithile sesifo, kunciphisa izinga lokuphendula ngokomzwelo okwenzekayo, okwenza kube nokukhubazeka okukhulayo kokuziqaphela. Futhi ukulahlekelwa phansi kokuziphatha komuntu ezimweni ezinjalo kungafinyelela kuleso sigaba esiyingozi uma lo mmele womphakathi angaqala ukubeka usongo ngokuqondile kuwo wonke amalungu ayo. Ngomthamo olandelayo waleso sidakamizwa, uyakwazi ukwenza ubugebengu, kufaka phakathi ngisho nezinkinga ezinkulu, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ingqondo yakhe izobheka ukuthi lokhu kulungile. Ekhiqizwa, okuthiwa, ukuguqulwa kwamagugu, lapho insika yesigqila inikezwa khona injabulo, kanye nokwesaba ukuzwa okungenakugwemeka okungenakugwema okuphakama uma utshwala noma izidakamizwa ngesikhathi esifanele nangokwenyama okudingekile kungangeni emzimbeni, kuphazamise ngokuphelele ingqondo , okwenza kube nzima ukuhlola ngokwanele izenzo zabo.
Uphi indlela yokuphuma?
Indlela kuphela yokugwema ukuguquka ekuziphendukeni komuntu ukuziphendulela njalo, kokubili ngokwengqondo nangokomoya. Ngomunye umuntu, ngomqondo wangempela wezwi, umbuthano ogcina ukuphila ungase ube inkolo ephendula imibuzo eminingi futhi ikwazi ukukhombisa indlela eqhubekayo nezindlela zokuzithuthukisa njengomuntu. Kwabanye, isisusa esinamandla sokungabuyeli emuva yisifiso senselelo yomphakathi futhi sikhuphukele emazingeni aphakeme esitelekeni sezenhlalakahle. Kodwa noma kunjalo, ukucabangela okucacile, okuqaphelayo, okusiyala ukuba siqhubekele phambili, ingqondo yethu izobona ngokuzenzekelayo ukuthi into engavumi ukuphikisana nayo yonke imikhakha ekwazi ukuvimbela ukuchithwa kwengqondo nokomoya komuntu kuyoba ngokushesha ukusebenza.
Ngeshwa, sonke singamaconsi ahlukene emanzini amakhulu omphakathi wanamuhla,