Intsha iyindlela yokuguqula umuntu ngamunye. Isifiso sokufakazela ukuzimela kwabo nokudala, i-maximimalism yezingane ezishukumisa ingane ukuba isenze izenzo eziphambene, kuhlanganise nobugebengu. Inkinga yokuhlukumezwa kwabafana ingenye yephuthumayo kunazo zonke emphakathini wanamuhla, ngoba kuthatha isilinganiso esabekayo.
Izimbangela zokuhlukumeza izingane
Lapho usukhulile, abantu bavame ukuqeda ukugcinwa nokulawulwa ngabantu abadala futhi bazizwe bekhulile. Izinsana zibonisa lokhu ngokulingisa ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle - ukubhema, ukuphuza utshwala, ukulandela imfashini nokukhetha izindlela ezingekho izingane zokuzilibazisa.
Izizathu zokwenza ubugebengu ziyizici zengqondo zentsha efuna ukuzizwa ilinganisela futhi ixabiseke. Futhi uma engaphumeleli emidlalweni, ekutadisheni noma empilweni yomphakathi, noma ekhula emndenini ongathandeki, ingane iyayazi ngokuphila komgwaqo, lapho ithola khona ukukhulumisana "okulahliwe" okufanayo. Kukhona lapho kubusa khona, i-psychology ekhethekile, eqhubekela phambili ebugebengu beselula. Phakathi kwazo kukhona imithetho yabo, ngokusho ukuthi yiziphi ezinamandla kunazo zonke ezisinda, futhi ukuphikiswa komphakathi ononya kuyisitayela sokuphila.
Abaningi abahlukumezekile babenza ubugebengu ngenxa yelukuluku kanye nokulimala, esimweni sokudakwa ngokweqile noma ngokweqile, ukuzibeka phambi kwontanga yabo, ukukhombisa amandla abo nokuphakama kwabo. Omunye uphonsela igunya kanye nesibonelo somdala endodeni ukungaziphathi kahle. Kodwa intsha iyathinteka kakhulu futhi iwela kalula ithonya elibi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izisusa zobugovu, umona kanye nenzuzo kufakwa phambili, futhi ubugebengu buhlelwe. Izinsana zizwa zingenacala, futhi lokhu kubangele ukuziphatha kabi. Ngeshwa, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi isimo sibi kakhulu. Futhi izizathu zokukhula kobugebengu bentombazane ziwukuhlaselwa kwesimo sezomnotho, ukufakwa kwesibindi sokungabi nabezindaba emithonjeni yezindaba, inkohlakalo emidlalweni yekhompyutha kanye nesifiso sokuthola "inzuzo" elula.
Ukuvimbela ukuhlukumeza kwentsha
Izinyathelo zokuvimbela kufanele zenziwe ezingeni likahulumeni. Kubalulekile ukuvikela isizukulwane esincane ethonyeni elimazayo emidlalweni yemidiya kanye nekhompyutheni, ekhuthaza ubudlova, ubuhlukumezi, ukungabi nabulungisa, nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukudala izingxenye eziningi zezemidlalo kanye namaqembu njengoba kungenzeka, ukuze intsha ihlanganyele emsebenzini owusizo, futhi ingashiywanga yodwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukudala imisebenzi kwabantwana. Kubantu ababuya ezindaweni zokuboshwa kufanele kwenziwe ukuvuselelwa emphakathini ukuvimbela ukuphindaphinda.
Ukuvimbela ubugebengu phakathi kwentsha, kuyadingeka ukwandisa inethiwekhi yezikhungo zokuvikela umphakathi ezinikeza usizo lwezingqondo.
Futhi-ke, kubalulekile ukukhuthaza amanani abantu, igunya lomndeni kanye nobulungiswa bezenhlalakahle ngendlela ephumelelayo.