Phakathi naleso sikhathi, abazali abanothando kusukela ekuqaleni kokufundisa izingane esikoleni banzima ukubasiza bafunde kahle. Phela, uma ingane ifunda "okuhle" futhi "ihle kakhulu", ithola ukuzethemba futhi izama ukufeza imiphumela engcono kakhulu. Usizo nokusekelwa komama nobaba kule ndaba elukhuni kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana abancane nabantwana abadala.
Kulesi sihloko, sizoxoxa ngalokho abazali abangakwenza ukuze basize ingane yanoma iyiphi indala ukuthi ifunde kahle, kokubili njengengane yentsha kanye nomuntu wokuqala.
Yini esiza izingane ukuba zifunde kahle?
Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi isikhathi sokufunda esikoleni sasilula futhi sinokuthula kokubili wena nomntanakho, izincomo ezilandelayo kufanele zigcinwe:
- Kusukela esemncane, khuluma nengane yakho ngangokunokwenzeka. Inkulumo yokubhala ibaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni okulungile nokugcwele kwanoma yimuphi umuntu, ngakho-ke, nokufunda okuphumelelayo. Kusukela ekubelethweni kwengane, kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa amakhono emoto amnandi eminwe yakhe, okufaka ekwakheni inkulumo efanele. Lapho usukhulile, khuluma nomntanakho konke okwenzekayo, futhi ungamphuli ithuba lokuveza umbono wakhe. Lapho usakhula, zama futhi ukuletha umntwana ukuba akhulume, abuze ukuthi yiziphi izinkinga azithintekayo, okwenzeka esikoleni sakhe. Ngezingane ezinzima kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuthola ulimi oluvamile, ngakho-ke abazali kudingeka benze konke okusemandleni abo.
- Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukukhulisa umbono womfundi kanye nesilulumagama sakhe. Yiya kumamyuziyamu, emidlalweni yaseshashalazini, i-cinema, ukuvakashela imibukiso nezinye izenzakalo zamasiko ezihlukahlukene. Faka ingane ekufundeni kwangempela, hhayi izincwadi ze-elektroniki. Uma kukhona isifiso esivela emvutheni - funda kuye ngokuzwakalayo fiction. Emva kokufunda le ncwadi, unganikeza ingane ukuthi iphinde ibuyele okuqukethwe ngokuklasini ekwakheni.
- Isici esibalulekile sokuphumelela esikoleni nasemsebenzini wesikole yindawo yokusebenzela ehleliwe kahle ekhaya. Thola idesksi elikhethekile,
okungaguqulelwa ukuphakama kuye ngokuthi ukukhula kwengane, futhi futhi ukufaka isibani setafula, lapho itafula lizokhanya khona. - Ungakhohlwa ngokudla okunomsoco. Ukuze ufunde kahle, ingane kufanele imamukele zonke izakhi ezidingekayo, amaminerali namavithamini. Esikhathini sasebusika, kungase kudingeke ukuphuza inkambo yama-multivitamin amalungiselelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane kunoma yikuphi ubudala idinga ukuhamba kwansuku zonke. Zama ngempelasonto wonke umndeni ukuphuma emaphandleni bese uchitha isikhathi emoyeni omusha.