Izizathu zokungafuni ukuya esikoleni
Yiqiniso, kuzo zonke izigaba zeqembu, izizathu zingase zihluke, kodwa ngokuvamile, eziyinhloko yizi:
- ukwesaba izenzakalo ezingaziwa - lokhu okujwayelekile kwabaqashi bokuqala, ikakhulukazi labo abangazange beze enkulisa, besaba ukuthi kuzodingeka babe ngaphandle komama, ukuthi kuzoba khona abantu abaningi abangabazi;
- izinkumbulo ezingafanele nesipiliyoni ngokuvamile ziholela eqinisweni lokuthi umfundi wesikole esiphakeme uthi "Angifuni ukuya esikoleni", ngoba banezinkumbulo ezimbi zekilasi langaphambilini noma ukulungiselela isikole, isibhedlela, isibonelo, ezinye ziphikisana noontanga , ukufunda ubunzima;
- ukungaqiniseki ngokwabo - kubonakala kunoma yikuphi ubudala, kodwa kaningi kulabo abaqala ukudoba abesaba ukuthi ngeke babe abangane nabangifunda nabo;
- ukungakwazi ukuqonda okushiwo ukuqeqeshwa, ukungabi nentshisekelo - okujwayelekile kwabasakhulayo abanamagugu ahlukene ngokuphila nokufunda esikoleni kubonakala sengathi bachitha isikhathi;
- izinkinga emndenini, isibonelo, isihlukaniso sabazali , ezinye izihlukumezo nezingxabano zingabangela ingane ukuthi ingafuni ukuya esikoleni, futhi lokhu kujwayelekile kuwo wonke amaqembu;
- ukuphikisana nabalingane nabo ekilasini , othisha, uthando olungenakulinganiswa yizizathu ezivamile zezifundo eziphakeme zezikole eziphakeme.
Ukuxazulula izinkinga
Uma ingane ithi: "Angifuni ukuya esikoleni" - ke lokhu kuyinkinga, futhi ukuthola isizathu, kudingeka siqale ukuxazulula. Kunezincomo eziyisisekelo:
- okunye ukuxhumana nengane, kungakhathaliseki ubudala, mtshele ngeminyaka yakhe yesikole, isipiliyoni sakhe, kodwa ngempela kuzo zonke izindaba kufanele kube nokuphela okujabulisayo;
- zama ukwenza umgomo ekuhloleni izinkinga, izingxabano;
- kufanelekile ukujabula nokudumisa;
- ungesabi;
- ukusungula ubudlelwane obuseduze, ukukhuluma ngenhliziyo ngenhliziyo;
- funda ukuxazulula izimo zokuxabana.
Abazali bama-first-graders kudingeka bazinakekele inqubo yokuzivumelanisa nesikole kwaba lula ngangokunokwenzeka. Yizinkinga kule nkathi ezingachaza ukuthi kungani izingane zingafuni ukufunda. Kubalulekile ukugcina ingane, ulalele ngokucophelela ukuthi yini ehluphayo. Ngezinye izikhathi kuyoba nengqondo ukubonisana nodokotela wezengqondo ukuze uthole usizo.