Ukuqala konyaka wesikole, ngokwemvelo ngenjabulo hhayi abafundi kuphela kodwa futhi abazali balindile, ikakhulukazi labo labo ingane yabo eya ekilasini lokuqala. USepthemba 1 ubonisa ukuqala kwesigaba esisha ngokuyisisekelo empilweni yazo zonke izingane. Manje uhlobo oluhamba phambili lomsebenzi wakhe lukufunda, okusho ukuvela komthwalo wemfanelo nokuzimela. Okubaluleke kakhulu, lo mcimbi ubuye wabazali, ngoba izinsuku zokuqala zengane esikoleni zibaluleke kakhulu - zibeka ithoni yonke imfundo eqhubekayo kanye nokugqugquzela ingane encane esikoleni kuncike ekuhleleni kahle nokuhlelwa kahle.
Iningi lezingane liphupha mayelana nosuku lapho lihlakaniphile, nephothifoliyo entsha kanye nezincwadi ezinhle kuzo kuzoya esikoleni. Njengomthetho, izifundo zidonsa emcabangweni ngesithombe esingavamile, ezikhathini eziningi azikho ukwesaba okungajwayelekile, ikakhulukazi uma ingane ihambele inkulisa, futhi engesabi umthwalo wemfundo, ngoba nje akasazi ukuthi kuyini. Ingozi eyinhloko yezinsuku zokuqala zomuntu ohamba phambili esikoleni ukuthi ayikufanelekeli amathemba akhe futhi, ngenxa yalokho, isisusa somntwana, esiqinile kangaka ekuqaleni, sizosheshe siphume futhi silahleke. Yingakho kubalulekile ukusetha kahle nokulungiselela ingane ekuqaleni konyaka wesikole.
Indlela yokulungisa kahle ingane, ukuze ugweme izinkinga zokujwayela esikoleni ?
- Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, chaza ingane ukuthi kwenziwe kanjani imisebenzi yesikole ukuze aqonde konke ukungathí sina nokuzibophezela. Akudingekile ukugcoba, kodwa futhi ukwesaba ngemithwalo esabekayo futhi "othisha abanonya" akunakwenzeka. Vumela izindaba zakho mayelana nesikole zibe njengengqondo ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukuze uhlele imibono ecacile, izinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuqala konyaka wesikole, unganciphisa ingane esikoleni ekuphumeni;
- ukunakekelwa okukhulu kumele kuhokhwe enkonzweni yokulungiselela usuku lokuqala esikoleni esikoleni - ukuthola imfashini yesikole, ukubhala, ukufaka izincwadi zokufunda nokunye nokunye. Ingane kumele ithathe ingxenye ekhuthele kulokhu, umbono wakhe kufanele ucatshangelwe. Izesekeli zezikole nezesekeli okufanele azithande, ukuze angabangeli ukunganeliseki futhi angakha izinkinga ezengeziwe ngesikhathi sokuzivumelanisa;
- kusengaphambili, qalisa ingane ukuba ijwayele ukubusa isikole, ikakhulukazi ukubeka ugcizelele ekulaleni nokuvusa ukuze kungabikho ukucindezeleka okungeziwe;
- ngosuku lokuqala lwesikole, kufanele udale imvelo yokungenisa izihambi nezokuthula ekhaya - umntwana uzonikezwa ukwesaba kancane nokukhathazeka;
- Ungahlali ingane ngokufunda ngokushesha ngemuva kokubuya esikoleni - umuntu oqala kuqala udinga ukuphumula okugcwele futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nokuphupha. Ekuqaleni, ungazami ukuqeda usizo ngomsebenzi wesikole - kufanele uthathe okungenani inyanga ukuba ingane iqonde ukuthi lo msebenzi wakhe kuphela;
- Ungafaki amathemba ngokweqile kumntanami futhi ungabukeli izifiso ezingenampilo kuye,
ukuthi kufanele abe umfundi ongcono kakhulu ekilasini, kungenjalo ingane izohlale ihlala ngokwesaba ukuhlangabezana nezilindelo zakho; - Ungaqhathanisi impumelelo yengane yakho ngamanothi wabangane bakhe nabalingane nabo ekilasini, ungaxoxisani nokuhluleka kwakhe ngokuzwakalayo nguthisha nasemndenini - lokhu kungaba nomthelela omubi ekuzithekeni kwengane. Uma unenkinga - ungasheshi ukusola umlingisi wakho wokuqala ngesikhathi esisodwa - okokuqala, uzoyiqonda isimo;
- Nika umntwana ukuthi aqonde ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uphumelela kanjani nokuphumelela esikoleni, angakwazi njalo ukubekezela, usizo nokusekela kwakho;
- Ungathathi ukuhluleka kokuqala kwengane njengokuhluleka komuntu siqu nokuwa kwazo zonke izifiso. Ingane kumele izwe ukuthi indlu yakhe iyathandwa futhi yamukelwa njengoba injalo.