Kwabazali abasebasha, usuku lokuqala lokuzalwa komntwana liholide elibalulekile futhi ngezinye izikhathi ligujwa ngumndeni wonke. Mema izihlobo eziningi nabangane, lungiselela ukuphatha futhi wenze iholidi lijabule ngempela akulula. Kuyafaneleka ukunakekela lolu suku kusengaphambili.
Kuphi ukugubha ingane ngonyaka?
Enye yezingqinamba eziyinhloko ukukhetha indawo yokugubha. Abazali abasebasha, njengomthetho, abanaso isikhathi sokulungiselela nokuhlobisa igumbi. Ngakho-ke, indlela elula kunazo zonke, ukuthi ungagubha kanjani usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lokuqala - yiya enkampanini ekhethekile, lapho wonke umuntu azokuhlela khona. Ungakhetha nje i-cafe noma yokudlela encane bese uhlobisa ihholo ngokwakho. Kunezimo ezimbili eziyinhloko, njengoba umuntu angabhala ingane engu-1 ubudala. Abanye abazali bakhetha umkhosi ojabulisayo nomnandi ngehlelo lokuzijabulisa kanye nazo zonke izinhlobo zemincintiswano. Kodwa iningi likhetha idili lomndeni elithokozile, lapho wonke umuntu eyokhululeka khona. Uma ungahle uhlele ukuqoqa inani elikhulu lezivakashi, khona-ke kuyamukeleka ukuphawula ekhaya.
Ukwenza usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lokuqala
Manje kancane mayelana nendlela yokuhlela kahle kusihlwa, ukuthi wonke umuntu wayejabule futhi iholide yayiyimpumelelo.
- Izitsha zokuzalwa kokuqala kwesiqingatha esidala sezivakashi kungaba yinto. Khumbula ukuthi leli yiholide lomntwana futhi kungcono ukulungiselela imidlalo nemincintiswano yezingane kunokuma ngesitofu. Uma umeme izimenywa nezingane, kuzo bona ithebula lokugcoba kufanele libe lula ngangokunokwenzeka. Izingane akuzona abantu abadala, futhi imibuthano yabo iyinkimbinkimbi. Kungcono ukubeka amapulethi ahlukene ngezithelo, ama-juice, ama-biscuits, ama-saladi , ukudla okulula , ama-sandwich kanye nekhekhe elimibalabala lokuzalwa kokuqala. Izingane zingenza, uma kudingeka, zize ukhethe ukwelashwa ukunambitha.
- Indlela yokuhlobisa usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lokuqala? Kuyafaneleka futhi ukuqala kusuka kulowo omenyiwe. Izingane zifana nokuningi kwamabhola, zonke izingoma kanye ne-buzz. Amachibi angenawo amandla, amabhola nezinkumanga eziningi - yilokho okuyojabulisa izingane. Namuhla ingane yakho ineminyaka engu-1 ubudala futhi kufanele iphawulwe ngendlela yasekuqaleni, njengoba esikhathini esizayo uzokwazi ukukhuluma ngalolu suku kumuntu omdala osekhulile kakade. Hamba ukuma okukhulu ngezithombe ezihlekisayo bese umeme izivakashi ukuba ubhale izifiso, umeme umthwebuli wezithombe bese ujabulisa wonke umuntu onenithombe.
- Ukuzalwa kokuqala komntwana kungaba nomsindo futhi kumnandi kubantu abadala kanye nabancane. Lungiselela imincintiswano nemidlalo ehlukahlukene lapho abazali nezingane bazobamba khona iqhaza. Qiniseka ukuthi ulungiselela imiklomelo nezipho ezincane. Nakekela futhi umculo. Ukuze ujabule ukugubha umntwana oneminyaka eyisikhombisa, thatha izingoma eziningi zezingane ngangokunokwenzeka, phuma izithombe zezinhlamvu ze-cartoon.
Amasiko ngosuku lokuzalwa kokuqala
Emazweni amaningi, kwenziwa izindlela eziningi, ukugubha umnyaka owodwa kwengane, kodwa kunezinkolelo ezihlala zingashintshi nanamuhla. Ngosuku lokuzalwa lokuqala lwendodakazi yakho, beka izinto phambi kwakhe bese umvumela ukuba akhethe okuncane okuthandayo. I-tangle isho ukuphila okude, le ncwadi ibhekwa njengophawu lolwazi nesayensi, ibhola lifanekisela impumelelo emkhakheni wezemidlalo, imbali isho ukuphila komndeni ojabulisayo, kanti imali isinotho.
Abanye abantu beza ngendlela yabo, ukubhala unyaka wokuqala njengengane, futhi bathule amasiko abo. Isibonelo, unga
Ngokuvamile usuku lokuzalwa lwendodana noma indodakazi luhambisana nezipho eziyigugu. Ugogo bazimisele ukwethula ubucwebe obuncane kumakhosana amancane, futhi kubafana, ungakhetha umkhumbulo obalulekile okhulayo.
Indlela efanele, ukugubha umntwana oneminyaka engu-1 ubudala futhi uthole izithombe eziningi ezingakhohlwa, unikele ingane ipuleti eneqanda elikhulu lekhekhe. Bese nje umbuke futhi uthathe izithombe. Izingane zivame ukugijima wonke isandla zibe mnandi futhi zikhohlise iminwe. Akunjalo njalo, futhi ingane yonke ihlanganiswe nengqimba yekhilimu ekutadisheni.