Umbuzo wokuthi ngabe ukukhulelwa kungenzeka yini emva kokuya esikhathini kunabesifazane. Odokotela namazinyo ababelethayo, baqaphele ukuthi abanye abasha nabesifazane abanolwazi ngokukhohlisa bakholelwa ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukukhulelwa izinsuku ezimbili ngaphambi kwezinsuku ezintathu emva kokuya esikhathini. Le myth namanje idukisa ubulili obuhle. Futhi lokhu kuchazwa ukuthi phakathi nenkathi yamaSoviet "kwakungekho ubulili ezweni" futhi imibuzo ehlobene nokuphila okuthandanayo yayidlwengulwe. Izingane zalezo zikhathi zitholakala iklabishi hhayi bonke abantu ababefuna ukwazi ukuthi izingane ezingenakudliwa zamamemoni zashiywe ezindlini zengane. Kodwa uma laba besifazane bekwaziswa ngazo zonke izici zokuphila ngokocansi, kuhlanganise nokukhulelwa komzimba kanye nezici zomzimba wesifazane, izingane ezingadingeki ziyobe zingaphansi, futhi inganekwane engekho yokuthi ngokushesha ngemva kokukhulelwa kwenyanga kungazange kuphele ezikhathini zaseSoviet .
Kunesinye isingane esithokozisa izinhloko zabesifazane abaningi abaphupha ngokuvela kwengane yezocansi ezithile. Kodwa uphikisa inkolelo yokuqala, ekhuluma ngokungakwazi ukukhulelwa ngokushesha ngemva kokuya esikhathini. Abantu bathi uma ukhulelwa umntwana ngemuva kwenyanga, kuyisiqinisekiso sokuzalwa kwentombazane. Mayelana nalokhu, odokotela basabela ngokungaqondile ukuthi lokhu kuyisisombululo. Ubulili bomntwana abubikezeli kusengaphambili. Kumuntu wesifazane akadli, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zingaki izinsuku zokuziyeka, akunandaba ukuthi zithini izinsuku abazoya ocansini, ngokufanayo ubulili bomntwana abuxhomeki kulezi zici. Ungasho ngokuphepha ukuthi impoqo eyimpoqo yokukhulelwa kwentombazane emva kwenyanga ingumhubhe nje.
Kungenzeka ukukhulelwa kwengane ngemuva kokuya esikhathini
Ukuze uphendule umbuzo wokukhulelwa emva kokuya esikhathini, kubalulekile ukukhumbula izici zokujikeleza kokuya esikhathini kwabesifazane. Ukukhulelwa kungenakwenzeka ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini ngenxa yokuphuma kwegazi. Kodwa abesifazane kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi phakathi nalesi sikhathi umzimba unengozini kakhulu futhi usengozini yezifo. Yingakho kufanelekile ukugwema oxhumana nabo abangavikelekile.
Ezinsukwini zokugcina, lapho izimfihlo zingenabuningi futhi zinomlingisi othungayo, amathuba okukhulelwa ngemva kokuya esikhathini ahamba. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini kwabesifazane ungavamile, kanti i-spermatozoa iyasebenza kakhulu.
Yiqiniso, wonke owesifazane unomzimba wakhe siqu. Kodwa uma le ntombazane inomjikelezo ojwayelekile futhi ubude benyanga incane, ungazama ukuthatha izingozi. Kodwa-ke, kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi kukhona njalo kungenzeka ukuthi ukwehluleka kumjikelezo.
Kumele uqaphele ukuthi indlela ikhalenda yokuvikela ayisebenzisi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kunezizathu eziningi ezingashintsha umjikelezo. Phakathi kwabo, indlela yokuphila ehlala phansi, impilo engavamile yocansi, ukungondleki, ukubhema, ukuphuza utshwala, ukuhamba, ukucindezeleka noma isifo sofuba.
Kungaphetha ngokuthi izinsuku zokuqala emva kokukhulelwa kwenyanga kungenzeka. Imithi iye yafakazela ukuthi ulwazi olungenakwenzeka lokukhulelwa ezinsukwini zokuqala emva kokuya esikhathini, lokhu kungomunye umlando. Abesifazane abaningi abakholwa kuye, manje ngekhefu lokubeletha. Yiqiniso, ithuba lokukhulelwa
Nokho, khumbula ukuthi naphezu kwakho konke, ukukhulelwa nokuzalwa komntwana kuyisimangaliso. Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ingane ibelwe umbhangqwana ngamunye ezulwini, ngakho-ke singasho ngokuphepha ukuthi lesi yisipho sokuphela. Uma ungakakulungeli ukugcwalisa umndeni noma ngesizathu esithile unqume ukuhlehlisa ukuvela kwengane - zivikele, futhi ungakholelwa ezinkolelweni!