Kusukela ngesikhatsi esikoleni, ingane kancane kancane isetshenziselwa ukuzimela. Yena ngokwakhe uya esikoleni nasesikoleni, uhamba egcekeni nabangani, ehamba emakilasini angaphandle-ekilasini namagundane, futhi ngezinye izikhathi uhlala ekhaya eyedwa. Ekuqaleni, kwenzeka ngenxa yesidingo, lapho abazali bethi, sebephuzile emsebenzini. Kodwa omdala umfundi uba, ukuthula kungashiywe ekhaya kuphela. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ingane ehlala endlini iphephile, ingesabi ukuhlala yedwa futhi yazi imithetho ethile.
Ukuphepha kwekhaya lezingane kufanele kufundiswe ngangokunokwenzeka, ukutshela ulimi lomntwana olutholakalayo mayelana nemithetho yokuziphatha ekhaya nokubeka ukuvinjelwa kwezinye izenzo ezizimele.
Amasu okuphepha ezinganeni angaboniswa njengeqoqo lemithetho ehlobene nalokhu:
- ukusetshenziswa kwemishini kagesi yasendlini;
- ukufinyeleleka kwezihloko ezethula ingozi enganeni (computer kanye ne-intanethi, i-medical aid lokuqala lokuqala, imimese kanye nezikhali, njll);
- ukuziphatha ezimweni eziphuthumayo;
- ukuxhumana nabantu abangabazi uma kwenzeka ukuhambela kanye nokushaya ucingo.
Imithetho yokuphepha yokuhlala ekhaya izingane
- Ungawuvuli igesi noma isitofu kagesi ngokwakho (uma ingane engazi ukupheka noma ukufudumala ukudla), izifudumezi, izinsimbi, izinsimbi zensimbi, njll.
- Ungadlali ngemidlalo nokukhanya. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi lezi zinto ngokujwayelekile azitholakali kwengane eshiyiwe ekhaya.
- Ungazitholi emanzini, ungazishiyi ukugeza.
- Ezimweni eziphuthumayo (umlilo, ukuzamazama komhlaba, njll), yenza ngokuvumelana nemithetho yokuphepha ingane okufanele ijwayele ngayo.
- Ungavuli umnyango kubantu abangabazi, ungaphenduli ucingo, ukuthi indlu ayikho abantu abadala. Abazali kufanele babe nezinkinobho zabo siqu endlini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane kufanele ikwazi ukuthi umama nobaba bayaphi manje nokuthi sebezobuya nini.
Isixazululo esihle kakhulu ukunikeza ingane umsebenzi (ukufunda, ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole noma umsebenzi wendlu) isikhathi sokungabikho kwabo. Kumele uthathe phezulu, ngakho-ke akanaso isikhathi nesilingo sokuziphendulela. Ukubuya, qiniseka ukuhlola ukuthi ugcwalise kanjani umsebenzi nokudumisa ngokuziphatha okuhle.
Ukuphepha ekhaya ekhaya kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba izingozi eziningi nezingane zenzeka ngokungafanele lapho kungekho muntu omdala. Zama ukungashiyi izingane zasenkulisa ezingalindelekile, futhi izingane ezindala kumele zifunde ukuthi zenzeni kulokhu noma kuleso simo.