Ngesikhathi siphila futhi kanjani?
Ukuhlukumeza ubuqotho bale phanga, ezimweni eziningi kwenzeka ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi. Kodwa ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuqubuka kwe-hymen (noma ukuhlunga) kungenzeka kwezinye izimo:
- ngesikhathi se-caresses esondelene besebenzisa amathoyizi wezocansi noma iminwe;
- ngokufaka ngokungalungile kwamatampu;
- lapho ukushaya indlwabu;
- ngokuhlolwa kwe-gynecological (le nsizwa kufanele yazise udokotela ukuthi akalalanga ngokobulili);
- ukuguguleka kwamantombazane ekukhuliseni okukhulu ekubuntwaneni.
Uma uqhuba umdanso, ukuhlaziya kwezemidlalo akunakwenzeka.
Emva kokuphuka kwesiteji, kungase kube nokuphuma okuncane. Ngokujwayelekile akubalulekile, futhi kwabanye besifazane kungase kungabi khona ngokuphelele. Izitsha zinciphisa ngokushesha, futhi lokhu akubandakanyi ukuphuma kwegazi okukhulu.
Yona kanye inqubo yokuhlunga ihambisana nosizi. Idijithi yayo ixhomeke kulowo mfanelo. Kwenzeka ukuthi ukulala ngokobulili akunakwenzeka ngenxa yobuhlungu obunzima. Kulolu cala, kufanelekile ukubonisana nomjozi wezifo zezinzwa, njengoba ngezinye izikhathi isakhiwo se-spit sinjengokuthi ukuchithwa kudinga ukungenelela kwezokwelapha.
Ngemuva kokuphuka kwe-hymen izinsuku eziningana kuyaphulukisa. Ngalesi sikhathi, ukuzwa okungajabulisi ku-perineum kunokwenzeka. Lokhu kungenxa yokuvuvukala okuncane kwamanxeba, okwakhiwa ngenxa yokuhlukumeza.
Ukulimaza ngokweqile ubuqotho bamakhoba kwenzeka ezindaweni eziningana. Emaphethelweni aphulukisa kancane kancane, kanti ezindaweni zokulimala kukhona izinhlamvu.
Ukuphila ngokobulili kuhle ukuqala ngemuva kweminyaka engaba ngu-18, lapho umzimba usuvele usungulwe futhi ulungele izinguquko ezizayo. Kukholelwa ukuthi uma uneminyaka yobukhulu be-spittle cishe ulahlekelwe ukuqina kwawo futhi kungabangela ukunyuka okuthile ebuhlungu. Nokho, lokhu akubalulekile, kanti odokotela abafaki imingcele yobudala.