Abesifazane abaningi abakhulelwe, emva kokulalela noma ukufunda izindaba mayelana nokuzalwa okulula, baqala ukulangazelela indlela efanayo yokudlulisa inqubo yokuzalwa kwengane yabo. Ukufuna nje ukubhuka ukuthi ukubeletha okungenakubuhlungu ngokuphelele akunakwenzeka ukuthi, uma owesifazane "engagxiliwe" ngemithi ehlukahlukene yobuhlungu futhi konke kuzodlula njengephupho. Kodwa izimfihlo ezimbalwa zokuzalwa okukhanya zikhona. Nokho, umuntu akufanele acabange ukuthi ulwazi lwabo nokugcwaliseka kuzosiza esimweni ngasinye. Lokhu kunenhlanhla.
Lisho ukuthini igama elithi "ukuzalwa okukhanyayo"?
Lo mqondo ukhona indawo, kodwa okushiwo okuyinhloko kungabikho kokungenelela kwezokwelapha nokwelashwa lapho kuzalwa khona ingane. Futhi kufanele kwenzeke isikhathi esithile esinqunyiwe, ulethe ubuncane bokubuhlungu futhi uqede ngokuzalwa komntwana onempilo. Umama uvame ukuthakazelisa indlela yokwenza ukubeletha kube lula futhi angabheki ukukhathala nobuhlungu. Kodwa-ke udinga futhi ukwazi ukuthi umlenze wobuhlungu wesifazane ngamunye ungumuntu ngamunye. Yingakho wonke umuntu ekhona imithetho yokulungiselela ukubeletha okulula. Ngezansi zithandwa kakhulu kubo.
Ukuqoqwa kolwazi mayelana nendlela yokudlulisa umsebenzi ngokulula
Ukuqeda ngokuphelele ukwesaba kokuzalwa okuzayo, owesifazane kufanele asebenzise isikhathi sokufunda ngendlela efanayo. Kubalulekile ukuqoqa ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nokuthi yiziphi izigaba inqubo yokuzalwa kwengane, ukuthi uhlala isikhathi eside kangakanani, kanjani ukuziphatha esiteji esithile, njalonjalo. Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthi uMama uzoba yipropro, kodwa ukwazi ikusasa kuyakhuthaza kakhulu.
Ukuvocavoca kokuzalwa okukhanya
Ezinsukwini zokugcina zokukhulelwa, abesifazane abaningi bakhetha ukulala phansi noma ukuhlala, bashukumise ngokuqoqa amandla. Noma kunjalo, njengoba kuvela, lokhu kuyiphutha ngempela. Kukhona konke okuyinkimbinkimbi yokuzivocavoca komsebenzi omnene, futhi uma uzenza ngokwesaba noma ubuvila, khona-ke thola umqeqeshi omuhle onolwazi olufanele.
Ukuphefumula okuhle - ukulethwa okulula futhi okusheshayo
Ochwepheshe batusa ukuhambisana nokulwa ngalunye ngokuphefumula kancane futhi okujulile. Emaphakathini, kufanelekile ukuphefumula ngendlela engokwemvelo futhi ejwayelekile. Uma uqhuba ingcindezi, kuvame ukudingeka ukuba uhumushe futhi uphume umoya, okuvimbela ukuqhuma.
Izici zokuziphatha nezomoya zokukhulelwa okuncane nokuzalwa okulula
Lo magazini kufanele unikezwe ukunakekelwa okukhulu. Futhi hhayi nje umama wesikhathi esizayo, kodwa konke okukuyo. Inendima ebaluleke kakhulu idlala ngumzwelo womsebenzi omnene, ohambisana nokuzethemba, amandla akho kanye nokusekelwa kwezihlobo. Kanti futhi, ukwazi nokuqonda okubaluleke kakhulu kwenqubo yokulethwa kwezidingo , ukuqaphela ukungaqiniseki kwayo nokuthi iqiniso lokuthi umntwana kuzodingeka kube nzima nakakhulu, kufanele amise umama ngendlela enhle.
Abantu abakholwayo bathola amandla nokuzethemba ekukhulekeleni ukuzalwa okulula, ukuvakashela umeluleki wabo ongokomoya, nokucabanga okude nokuhle mayelana nezingane zabo ezizayo. Abantu ikakhulukazi abesabayo bazama ukuqina ngokwamaqhinga ahlukene okuzalwa okulula okuzosetshenzwa ngokuzimela noma ngosizo lwabangaphandle.
Kanti futhi abesifazane abaningi abakhulelwe baqala ukuzibheka ekukhanyeni kokubeletha. Lona umsebenzi ongekho ngokuphelele, okhuthazwa yizindaba zebesifazane "abanolwazi" ekubelethweni. Kungcono ukumane uthola izifiso zokuzalwa okuvela ezihlotsheni zakho nabangane, uzilungiselele ngokuziphatha nangokomzimba, ngaphandle kokuchitha isikhathi.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ukuze abasebenzi bakwazi ukudlula kalula, kwanele nje ukukhuluma nomntanakho ongakazalwa futhi umcele ukuthi angahlukumezi umama isikhathi eside. Abanye besifazane ekubelethweni lokhu nje kushukumisa umphumela wabo wokukhulelwa okulula. Kunoma yikuphi, ukuzalwa kwesibili kungcono kuneyokuqala , okuyinto enhle kakhulu!