Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi inqubo yokwehlisela ubaba wamalungelo omzali ngokungakhokhwa kwe-alimony e-Ukraine naseRussia kwenzeka, nokuthi ngabe upapa onjalo ugcina isibopho sokuhlinzeka ngokusekela izingane zakhe esikhathini esizayo.
Umyalo wokulahla ubaba wamalungelo omzali wokungakhokhi ukukhokhelwa kokunye
ERussia, e-Ukraine nakwezinye izinhlangano zomthetho, ukuqaliswa kwalenqubo kwenziwa kuphela ngokusebenzisa amacala omthetho. Kulokhu, izimo lapho umama wengane azocela khona ekusekeleni isikhundla sakhe ngokugwema okubi ngokukhokhwa kwe-alimony kumele kuzo zonke izimo ziqinisekiswe yimibhalo efanele.
Esimweni esinjalo, ummangali kufanele abe nesinqumo senkantolo sokuthi ummeli afune ukukhokha imali yokukhokha futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, iziqinisekiso ezihlukahlukene ukuthi uyise wengane wenqaba ukuhambisana nale mfuneko. Ngokuyinhloko, indoda ingabonakala njengephutha elibi uma yenza ngamabomu izenzo ezilandelayo:
- ukubambezeleka ukukhokha isikhathi esingaphansi, hhayi ngaphansi kwezinyanga ezine ezilandelanayo;
- kushintsha ngokuhlelekile indawo yokuhlala futhi angazise umama wengane yakhe, kanye nensizakalo yomsizi wesikhonzi senkantolo;
- Ungatholi umsebenzi ngokusemthethweni;
- uyakwazisa izixwayiso ezivela eziphathimandla zomphakathi;
- wenqabe ukukhokha isikweletu esiqoqiwe;
- ifihla imali yayo yangempela.
Ngemva kokulungiselela iphakheji lezincwadi ezidingekile, umama wengane kufanele afake icala futhi alifake enkantolo esikhundleni sokubhaliswa okusemthethweni kukayise weziqu. Isitatimende esinjalo kakhulu asihambisani nomama wezinto eziphilayo, kodwa ngummeli womthetho wezingane. Yiqiniso, ezimweni eziningi kakhulu, abesifazane abakulesi simo abakwazi ukukwenza ngaphandle kosizo lwabameli bezobuchwepheshe, kodwa empeleni, akunzima ukulungisa ubufakazi obudingekayo futhi bachaze isimo samanje esicaleni.
Ingabe i-alimony ikhokhelwa uma ubaba enqatshelwe amalungelo omzali?
Ngokuvamile enkonzweni yokulungiselela amacala, bobabili umama noyise wengane bayazibuza ukuthi ukulahlwa kwamalungelo omzali kukhululeka yini ngokulandelana. Eqinisweni, umthetho awusizi abazali abangenandaba negunya lokuhlinzeka ingane ngendlela ebonakalayo futhi bakhokhele umama wakhe, ngisho nalapho inkantolo ithatha isinqumo esifanele.
Ngemuva kokulahlwa kwamalungelo omzali, ubaba uzophinde akhokhe i-alimony kuze kube yilapho eseyinzalo yakhe, kodwa le nqubo ibeka imingcele eminingi. Ngokuyinhloko, kusukela kulo mzuzu uPapa uzolahlekelwa amanye amalungelo anikezwe ngumthetho, okungukuthi:
- ukukhulisa ingane;
- ngokufuna ingane evela kwabanye abantu;
- ukuthola isondlo kusuka ezinganeni eziye zafinyelela kubantu abadala;
ukwamukela noma iyiphi impahla yengane, ngokudluliswa kwefa; - ukubamba iqhaza ekwamukelweni kwezingane ngabesithathu;
- ukuvuma ukukhululwa kwenzalo yakhe;
- ukuthola izinzuzo zomphakathi nezinye izinzuzo ezinikezwe imindeni enezingane;
- ukwamukela impesheni uma sekufa ingane.