Abazali babaluleke kakhulu empilweni yabo bonke abantu, ngoba yizona ezisemqoka futhi zisekelwa kunoma yisiphi isimo. Abazali bafundisa izifundo zokuphila zokuqala, bafundise ukuthanda nokuqonda izwe elibazungezile.
Bobabili abazali babalulekile kumntwana, njengoba ngamunye wabo edlala indima ekuphileni. Umama uzama ukumboza ingane yakhe ngothando nangokunakekelwa. Umgomo oyinhloko empilweni yakhe ukubona ingane yakhe ijabule ngokuphelele. Ubaba udlala indima ebaluleke ekubunjweni kobuntu . Uzohlala emdumisa ngempumelelo futhi anikeze iseluleko esimweni esinzima. Umphumela wothando lwabazali ngumqondo wengane wokuzethemba, ukuhlangana komndeni, isifiso sokwakha umndeni ojabulayo.
Umthandazo ngabazali
Izingane, zikhula, zama ukuhlinzeka abazali bazo futhi, njengokungathi, ukubuyisela "isikweletu". Ungaphendukela kwamandla aphezulu futhi ucele usizo. Noma nini ungafunda lo mthandazo:
"Nkosi Jesu Kristu, thola lo mthandazo kubazali bami. Banike ubunye bengqondo futhi bathande zonke izinsuku zokuphila kwabo. Qinisekisa imizimba yabo impilo, futhi bayakhonza kini ngemisebenzi yevangeli ivangeli. Ngifundise ukulalela njalo izwi lomzali. Ngikhulule ebuzenziseni nasebubini ekusebenzelaneni nabo, futhi ungasilahli konke ukulungiswa ekwahluleleni kwakho kokugcina. Amen. "
La mazwi angase abe njengokuthandaza impilo yabazali. Siyabonga ezulwini ukuthi unomndeni onjalo omuhle, ukuthi abazali bakuvikela zonke izimpilo zabo futhi basize kukho konke.
Imithandazo yama-Orthodox yabazali
Wonke umuntu uyisono, kodwa wonke umuntu unolwazi lwakhe olubi ngemuva kwakhe. Kukhona inkulumo enjalo: "Izingane zibhekene nezono zabazali bazo." Ngezinye izikhathi isizukulwane esilandelayo sibhekene nezenzo ezimbi nezesono. Ukugwema imiphumela emibi, ungasebenzisa umthandazo ngezono zabazali, kubonakala sengathi:
Yiba umgcini wezingelosi kubazali, cela amaForces aphakeme ukuwavikela kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi. Njalo ufunde icebo loqhinga:
Umthandazo wokuxolelwa kwezono zabazali
Isonto lithi konke okwenziwa ngabazali kuya ezinganeni zabo. Ingane njengoba ithola "i-backpack", ehlala njalo nayo. Ukuze siphume kancane kancane "amatshe amatshe" agcwalisa umthwalo wethu, kudingeka sifunde amazwi omthandazo kuTheotokos Engcwelengcwele. Kuzwakala kanje:
Umthandazo ngabazali
Igama elithi "ukuthethelela" linezincazelo ezilandelayo: ukuxolela, ukusula ngokuhlanzekile, ukuqeda izikweletu. Uma abantu benza into embi udinga ukucela intethelelo, kukuvumela ukuba ubuyisele ubuhlobo kanye nokwethembela kwangaphambili. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi amazwi okuthethelela avela enhliziyweni futhi aqotho. Uma umuntu enza isono, ubonakala ephikisana neNkosi uNkulunkulu, uma engaphenduki, uzojeziswa.
Uma abazali bakho bebengakwazi noma bengenaso isikhathi sokucela izono zabo, ungabenzela yona. Thatha umthandazo kuNkulunkulu, uthethelele abazali bakho futhi ucele intethelelo kubo futhi wena ngokwakho ngaphambi kwamandla aphezulu.
