Ukuzwa okunengqondo nangokwengqondo ngesikhathi socansi ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene zamadoda nabesifazane kuhlukile. Ukunquma ukuthi yikuphi okuthandwa ngabantu abalala embhedeni, kuxoxwa inani elikhulu lezingxoxo, lapho abantu abaneminyaka yobudala kanye nesimo senhlalakahle babambe iqhaza. Kumele kuthiwa ukuthanda okuningi emabhedeni amadoda nabesifazane bavumelana, okungenakujabula kodwa.
Yini eyenza amadoda afane?
Abacansi bezocansi bathi abantu bathanda ukuhamba phambili kwezinhliziyo zabo ezihambisana nabo ngokomzimba. Ithinta ukukhetha kanye nemvelo, isibonelo, uma umuntu ephethe kakhulu empilweni, bese elala ocansini ufuna ukulawula. Ngenxa yocwaningo, kwakungenzeka ukukhomba izimo ezithandwayo kakhulu.
Iziphi izikhundla abantu abathanda kakhulu:
- Isikhundla esithandwa kakhulu yisitayela se-doggy . Kulesi sikhundla owesifazane ukhona kuzo zonke ezine, futhi lo muntu ukhona ngemuva. Lesi sikhundla sikuvumela ukuthi ulawule ukuphakama nokuvinjelwa kokuhamba. Abacansi bezocansi bakholelwa ukuthi uthando lwalesi sikhundla lubangelwa ukuthi indoda ithanda ukulawula abesifazane.
- Mhlawumbe, abaningi bayomangala ukuthi ohlwini olumayelana namadoda afana embhedeni, ukuthunywa kwezithunywa zevangeli , okuyinto abaningi abayibheka njengento ebangele, kuyoshiwo. Kule nkinga, le ndoda ibuye ikhulu, kodwa bobabili abalingani bangasetha ijubane. Abacansi be-sexologists bathi amadoda akhetha lokhu, ngoba angabonisa imizwa yabo nothando , ngoba uvumela abalingani ukuba babone imizwelo nomunye.
- Ukuthola ukuthi yini efana namadoda ngesikhathi socansi, awukwazi ukuhluleka ukunaka esinye isikhundla esidumile - owesifazane ophezulu . Amadoda kubantu lokhu okuthunyelwe ukuthi bangakwazi ukuphumula futhi bajabule ukubuka ukuhamba komuntu wesifazane. Ngokwebulili obuhle, lesi sikhundla sithatha indawo yokuqala ohlwini lwezinto ezizithandayo. Kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula enye inguqulo ethandwayo yalokhu kuthunyelwa - ehlezi. Owesifazane uphezulu, kodwa izidumbu zitholakala eduze komunye nomunye, okukuvumela ukuthi ubange futhi ucindezeleke.
- Isikhundla se-Lateral , futhi kufakwe ohlwini lwezinto ezithinta ubulili, abantu abathandayo. Okokuqala, lokhu kusho ukuthi ukucindezelwa kwabalingani kuqedwe komunye nomunye, ngakho ungafaki umzamo omkhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhishwa izandla, owesilisa nowesifazane, ngakho-ke bangakwazi ukucindezeleka.
Ungesabi ukukhuluma nomakhethi wakho ezihlokweni ezithandanayo, ukuthola ukuthi uyakuthanda yini futhi ubenze embhedeni.