Amaphupho ethu, izazi ze-psychologists zithi, kuyisithombe esinqabile sokubonakaliswa kokungaqondakali kwethu, futhi abantu bebelokhu bezama ukuqonda ukuthi kwenzekani kuye ephusheni, nokuthi ahumushe kanjani amaphupho. Abaningi bathi isibhakabhaka sivame ukubonakala ephusheni, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuqonda ukuthi amafu nesibhakabhaka baphupha ngani.
Ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho, isibhakabhaka ephusheni sibonisa isimo sengqondo somuntu nemiklamo yemfihlo, ukungabaza, izenzakalo ezizayo. Kukholelwa ukuthi izenzakalo ezilandelayo zokuphila kwethu kuxhomeke endleleni esibona ngayo isibhakabhaka ephusheni:
Yini isibhakabhaka sasebusuku esikuphuphayo?
Abahumushi bamaphupho bakholelwa ukuthi lobo busuku bubonisa ukuthi yini okwamanje ngaphandle kokubona komuntu okwamanje futhi igcwele imfihlakalo, imfihlakalo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kunokuqonda okuhlukile nokuchazwa kokulala, lapho umuntu ebona isibhakabhaka esinezinkanyezi. Ngokombiko owodwa, iphupho elinjalo lifaka izinkinga eziningi ekuphileni komuntu; ngakolunye uhlangothi - kuyiphupho elijabulisayo, elifanekisela inhlanhla kanye nengcebo
Kungani isibhakabhaka esimnyama siphupha?
Kukholelwa ukuthi iphupho elinjalo lithatha ulwazi olubi kakhulu, lwazi mayelana nokufa okuseduze noma okungenani kokugula okubi kwesinye sezihlobo noma abangane abaseduze.
Kungani isibhakabhaka esibumnyama siphupha?
Kwenzeka ukuthi ephusheni umuntu obuthongo akabona ubumnyama obumnyama, kodwa isibhakabhaka esibhakabhaka, futhi uzama ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi amaphupho amnyama asezulwini. Abaphuphile bathi akukho lutho oluhle kulephupho noma. Yiqiniso, lapha akukho ukubulawa komnyama, kodwa iphupho liqinisekisa ukuthi empilweni yakho kunezinkinga eziningi lapho ukhishwa khona, futhi ukuphuma kuzo kunzima kakhulu.
Kungani isibhakabhaka esibhakabhaka siphupha?
Abahumushi bathi leli phupho elihle kakhulu. Uveza uthando olujabulisayo, ngisho noma kungengamashumi eminyaka. Kodwa i-hues ebomvu nge-sunset evuthayo ayithembisi okuhle.