Yebo, ngubani phakathi kwethu ophelelwe yithemba engazange enze izithembiso, njengokuthi "ngosuku lokuzalwa olulandelayo ngizobe ngilinganisa u-50kg" noma "Ngizoshada nomuntu wokuqala engihlangana naye, uma ngingatholi ingxenye engama-30?" Kodwa into eyodwa - ukuphonsa imizwelo nokuzola, futhi okunye-ukuthatha nokufeza okuthembisiwe!
Uyomangala, kepha abantu abanomthwalo wemfanelo balapho, futhi omunye wabo usanda kudumile emhlabeni wonke. Hlangana - leli gama libizwa ngokuthi nguLaura Messe, usebenza njengomqeqeshi wokuzivocavoca futhi ngenyanga edlule washada ... yena ngokwakhe!
Kuvela ukuthi eminyakeni emibili eyedlule wahlukana nendoda emva kweminyaka engu-12 esetshenziswa ndawonye. Wabe esethukuthele kakhulu ngenxa yobuhlobo obuhlulekile kanye nekhefu, futhi wamtshela yena nomndeni wakhe ukuthi uma engakaze ahlangane neminyaka engama-40 lowo amthandayo futhi omholela emqhele, uzophambanisa konke futhi ashade ngokwayo!
Njengoba kungenzeka ukuthi ucabange, iminyaka emibili yadlula ngokushesha kakhulu, kodwa uLaura akatholanga umlandeli. Futhi ucabanga ukuthi unesiphephelo? Futhi akekho ...
"Ungaphila inganekwane futhi ungenakho isikhulu," kusho le ntombazane. "Futhi ngiyaqiniseka ngokuqinile ukuthi, kuqala, ngamunye wethu kufanele azithande!"
Ngakho-ke, ngokuqaphela ukuthi ngosuku lokuzalwa oluzayo lwama-40 akanalo muntu ongasho ukuthi "yebo" ngaphambi kwe-altare, uLaura waqala ukugcwalisa isithembiso.
Wamisa usuku lomshado yena ngokwakhe futhi waqala nokuhlela umkhosi wangempela. Ngelinye ilanga, ngosuku lwakhe olukhethekile, uLaura akazange alahlekelwe imininingwane eyodwa yomkhosi wendabuko wendabuko: wayegqoke izingubo ezimhlophe, wamema izivakashi ezingu-70, wazungezile nabesifazane abashadile, wayenakekela izindandatho, idili lomshado kanye nekhekhe lomshado, futhi wahlela iqembu elijabulisayo.
Into eyodwa eyayingeyanele kulo mshado - umkhwenyana!
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, kusukela embonweni wezomthetho, lowo mkhosi awusho lutho. Kodwa-ke, njalo ngonyaka lo mkhuba obizwa ngokuthi "sologamiya" uqala ukukhula. Kuhlekwa amanga ukuthi abasekeli be-"sologamy" nemishado enjalo bawugubha uthando lwabo ngokwabo, bazibheka njengabo, futhi babala ukuvunywa komphakathi. Yebo, okokuqala imibiko ngabantu abashadile nabo, bavela ngo-1993.
Ebhekene nezithombe uLaura Messe ayehlanganyela enkundleni yezokuxhumana, waphula isikhathi eside eholidini lakhe, wayenesikhathi sokuthokoza zonke izivakashi, waqeda ikhekhe lomshado ngokwakhe, futhi ngemva kwayo yonke enye into waya enyangeni ...
Kulungile! Futhi nakuba yilokho kanye uLaura engazange abe nakho - ukumanga!