I-spell ethandwayo yothando ihlose ukwandisa ukukhanga komuntu othile. Umthelela onamandla kakhulu wemilingo wenziwa ngosizo lomlingo omnyama . Ukubhekana nalokhu, kufanele ulandelele ngokungazelelwe zonke izincomo futhi ukholwe emphumela omuhle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, udinga ukuvikela, ukuze ungazitholi inhlekelele.
Okubaluleke kakhulu kwezinhlamvu eziqinile zothando
Ama-Rites angenziwa nje kuphela ukuthi aseduze komuntu, kodwa nakude. I-spell ethandwayo yothando ingenziwa kuphela kumuntu obenebudlelwane obuseduze naye. Ngokuyinhloko, ukwenza isipele esinamandla kunazo zonke udinga ukusebenzisa igazi, izipikili noma izinwele. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi noma yimaphi amaphutha angabangela izinkinga ezinkulu. Uma umuntu enomlingani oqinile, khona-ke uzomelana nesipelingi, ekugcineni kungabangela ukuhlukunyezwa okungenangqondo, amahlazo, ukushaya, utshwala, njll. Amanye ama-privoroty angashintsha kakhulu uhlamvu lomuntu futhi amenze "udonsa" ongenandaba.
Privorot Strong kumuntu emathuneni
Imikhosi enjalo ibhekwa njengendlela ephumelela kakhulu futhi ephumelelayo. Kuyadingeka endlini yento yokudumisa ukukhetha utshani kanye nayo ukuya emathuneni. Thola lapho ithuna elinamagama omuntu wakho. Beka utshani lapho bese uthi icebo elinjalo:
"Njengoba ngikulethele igama lomuntu oshonile (igama) kusukela endlini kuze kube ngotshani, lapho (igama) ehlala khona, uzolala lapha futhi uzoyilinda. Futhi isigqila (igama) sizongithanda futhi sivikele kuphela. Amen! ".
Bese uhamba ekhaya futhi kungabi nhlobo ukuphenduka futhi ungakhulumi nanoma ubani.
Uthando olunamandla kakhulu ukupela ngegazi
Lokhu kubophezela kusebenza kuphela kuze kube sekuzalweni kokuqala komuntu wesifazane, njengoba ehlanzwa yigazi lomntwana. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi imikhosi enjalo ishintsha umlingiswa womuntu, okwenza abe nolaka. I-spell ngokuzimela eyenzayo yokwenza inyanga ekhulayo. Kuyadingeka ukuba ube newayini elibomvu lohlelo. Phonsa umunwe wesandla sakho sokunene bese ucindezela ukuze uqale ukubhoboza igazi. Faka umunwe wakho phezu kwengilazi yewayini, ucabange okhethiweyo wakho bese uthi isakhiwo esinjalo:
"Uma nje wena (igama) uthatha leli phuzo lewayini lemilingo, wena ngothando olubi uzongilwela, kuphela ngami kuyoba yikho yonke imicabango yakho, kuphela mina manje
Kubalulekile ukuthi inani lamaconsi egazi eliwela iwayini alinqabile. Ngemva kwalokho, khanyisa ikhandlela elibomvu bese ucabanga ngento yakho yokudumisa. Iwayini kufanele lidakwa indoda.
Ingxenye elandelayo yomkhuba - uphonsa umunwe wakho, cindezela ihlazi legazi bese uthi kuye:
"Yeka ukuthi ngithandeka kangakanani kimi lokhu kwehla kwegazi ngakho-ke umgwaqo ujabule ngoNkulunkulu (igama) encekwini kaNkulunkulu (igama). Yiba njalo. "
Bese, uyiphonsa ushukela, ucabange ukuthi lokhu kuyincenye yakho. Phinda ukuxhaphaza kathathu. Shiya lelikhandlela elivuthayo, bese ufaka ushukela ekudleni noma ekuphuzeni into yokudumisa. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ungabona ukuthi isimo sengqondo sishintshile kanjani.