Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, abantu babezi ukuthi kukhona khona iso lesithathu, okungukuthi, mayelana nekhono lobuchopho babantu. Abaningi kakhulu, abafisa ukuba nezimfanelo eziyingqayizivele, bafuna ukwazi ukuvula iso lesithathu nokuthi kungenzeka yini ngempela ukukwenza.
Indlela yokuvula iso lesithathu lomuntu?
Iningi labantu lifuna ukudalula amakhono angaphezu kwalokho okuthakazelisayo noma okuthandayo, kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi lokhu akuyona ihlaya. Ngaphambi kokuba unqume ukuvula iso lesithathu, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi uyayidinga ngempela, ngoba inqubo yinde kakhulu futhi iyinkimbinkimbi.
Uma ulawula ukuthuthukisa amakhono angavamile, khona-ke amathuba amaningi azovulela lowo muntu, lokhu kungukuphulukisa ezifweni ezihlukahlukene, ukubonelela phambili nokunye okuningi, noma kunjalo, uma umuntu engalungiselelanga ngokomoya, angenza umonakalo omkhulu hhayi kwabanye kuphela, kodwa yena ngokwakhe. Ngaphambi kokutadisha indlela yokuthuthukisa iso lesithathu kulandela:
- Thola ukuthi yiziphi ngempela amakhono adingekayo, zama ukuphendula lo mbuzo ngokweqiniso, khona-ke kuyoba lula ukuvula nokuthuthukisa iso lakho lesithathu .
- Thuthukisa izimfanelo ezidingekayo ngenqubo yokudalula amakhono angqondo, njengokuthembeka, ukungesabi, ukholo, umusa, njll.
Kanjani masinyane ukuvula iso lesithathu?
Uma usulungele ukuqala inqubo yokuvula iso lesithathu, kufanele uqale ngezivivinyo ezilandelayo:
- Kudingekile ukuba uhlale endaweni yokuzindla, uxhuma izithupha zezandla, uphinde uwele imilenze emagqatsheni. Zama ukuphefumula kahle nangokuthula.
- Vala amehlo akho, uphumule futhi ubheke ukuze "ubone" iso lesithathu. Kumele uzizwe ukushisa kwamandla, mhlawumbe uzobona ukugqama kwemibala ehlukene, kodwa kufanele uhlale uzolile futhi ugcine ukuphefumula.
- Ukugxila okuqhubekayo futhi
uthi izikhathi eziningana ngokuqiniseka: "Iso lesithathu, vula." Ukuphinda le nkulumo, kufanele umelele lokho ofuna ukukwazi. - Gxila konke okuphakathi kwesikhumba, zama ukucabanga ukuthi kukhona ukuvula imbali. Uma kwenzeka, uzoba nokuzwa okuvuthayo noma okukhipha endaweni phakathi kwamashiya.
Ukwenza njalo, uzoqala ukuqaphela ukuthi unemibono yezenzakalo ezithile, uzoqala ukubona izithombe zabantu. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzofunda ukuqonda, ukwamukela nokuphatha isipho sakho esisha.