Abantu abaningi okungenani kanye empilweni yabo, kodwa bazibuza ukuthi kukhona yini ukuphila emva kokufa nokuthi kuyini. Abanye bashiye le mibuzo engaphenduliwe, futhi abaningi bafuna ukufunda ulwazi oluphakeme ngalokhu. Izikhathi ezingokomoya , ezitholakalayo cishe kuwo wonke umuntu, zisiza ukugcina ukuxhumana nemimoya yomshonile. Basiza ukuthola ukuthi lowo muntu uthathwe ethuneni.
Ake sicabangele ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi singasusa kanjani umoya womuntu oshonile nokuthi yini edingekayo kulokhu.
Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi yonke imimoya inesimo sengqondo esingashintsha njalo ngomzuzwana. Ngakho-ke, lapho usebenzelana nemimoya, khumbula ukuthi bathanda ukudukisa abantu, ngenkathi benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuwakhohlisa. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi ziziphatha njengezingane eziphangiwe.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ungangeni emoyeni oyilindele, kodwa imimoya evela ezingxenyeni ezingezansi. Umgomo wabo oyinhloko: ukudidanisa wena, ukukhohlisa nokwesaba.
Ngaphambi kokuba uphakamise umoya wesihlobo esifikile, cabanga ngokucophelela ukuthi uke wabangela ubuhlungu noma ukuthuka kuye noma othile okhona esikhaleni.
Kuyafaneleka ukuthi izikhathi ezinjalo ziphumelela kakhulu, ngoba unesixhumanisi esisodwa sehlobo nesihlobo sakho esifikile.
Indlela yokuvusa umoya womuntu oshonile?
Ukuze uhlanganyele esimisweni esingokomoya, udinga ukuthola amathuluzi adingekayo, ngenkathi igumbi kufanele libe semnyama nomnyango noma iwindi elincane. Lo wesifazane unikeza ithuba lokufaka umoya womuntu oshonile egumbini lapho kulindeleke khona.
Amathuluzi amakhandlela ahlukaniswe esontweni. Kumelwe kube pink, omnyama futhi ophuzi. Amakhandlela amathathu kufanele ahambelane nombala ngamunye. Futhi gcwalisa i-willow nempepho, ungakhohlwa ngendandatho engokomoya kanye nebhodi lemilingo ongakwenza (lokhu kuyindlela engcono kakhulu), noma ukuthenga ezitolo ezikhethekile.
Ngaphambi kokubiza umoya womuntu oshonile, iqembu lonke labantu (futhi lokhu kufanele kube kubantu ababili kuya kwesithupha) kumele bakholwe ngokuqinile empumelelweni yeseshini. Kubalulekile ukuthatha bonke abakhona ngezandla. Ngakho, uzogxila amandla ngaphakathi kwendilinga. Uzosetshenziswa ngumoya wokufaka izinto ezibonakalayo.
Khumbula ukuthi kubalulekile ukuvusa umoya, ngokuqaphelisisa isikhathi, lesi yisikhathi kusukela ekuqaleni kokuphakathi kwamabili kuze kufike amahora okusa. (Kuze ku-4 ekuseni). Gcina ukuthula, kokubili ngaphambi kokubiza umoya womuntu, futhi ngesikhathi sokufika kwakhe. Ikamelo kufanele libe semnyama, livunyelwe kuphela ukukhanyisa amakhandlela.
Lungiselela imibuzo yokuqala. Udinga ukuqala nge-monosyllabic. Emzimbeni womhlanganyeli ngamunye akumele kube khona izinto zensimbi. Uma kwenzeka, susa kuqala.
Ngaphambi kokuqala kweseshini, sebenzisa impepho, ufaka igumbi. Ngakho-ke, uzosindisa igumbi lokuvakashela "izivakashi" ezivela ezingxenyeni eziphansi ze-astral.
Ungalokothi ubize ngaphezulu kwemimoya emithathu ngeseshini ngayinye. Ukusebenzelana nemimoya kufanele futhi kuzinikezelwe ihora elilodwa ngosuku. Ngaphambi kokuqala ukuxhumana komlingo, ungadli utshwala futhi ungadli ukudla okuningi.
Indlela ethandwa kakhulu yokubiza imimoya yindlela yokukhanga. Kuleli sigaba, kubalulekile abantu ababili kuphela, incwadi (okuqukethwe ngokomoya), izikhali kanye nebhebheni elibomvu. Okulandelayo, udinga ukubeka izikhali phakathi kwamakhasi ale ncwadi.
Futhi, esimisweni esingokomoya, ibhodi lomlingo lisetshenziswa. Lapho umoya ufika, isikhombisi sezinkuni sizoqala ukuhamba. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi udinga ukuhlala uhloniphekile ekusebenzelaneni nemimoya futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi isikhathi esingokomoya singakulimaza uma ungahambisani nemithetho.