Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi "Hlangana nezingubo", kodwa kungcono ukuwuqedela njengokuthi "uhambisane nendlela yokuxhumana", hhayi ngomqondo. Ngenxa yalokhu, akudingeki ufunde izincwadi eziningana ngosuku, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuzithoba kahle.
Indlela yokuxhumana nabantu
Imikhuba ingahlukaniswa okuhle nokubi. Lezi zinsuku azithandi, ngakho-ke siyaqhubeka nokuhlolwa okuningiliziwe. Ngakho-ke, imikhuba emihle ibonisana nesimo sakho sengqondo emhlabeni, kwabanye futhi ubonakalise ngendlela yokuvimbela, ubuhle.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ekukhulumisaneni nabantu yilulwimi lomzimba. Ngokungangabazeki, indlela yakho yokukhuluma nayo ithonya elithile ku-interlocutor, kodwa ukukhulumisana okungaqondile kungaletha kumngane wakho ulwazi oluthe xaxa kunanoma yini enye. Ngakho-ke, ukuze wenze umqondo omuhle, qinisa amakhono okuba nomzimba wakho. Funda izinto eziyisisekelo zokuhlanganisa umzimba. Isibonelo, lokhu kuyatholakala ezincwadini zika-Alan Pisa.
Isici esibalulekile semikhuba emihle futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ukukhulumisana nokungabambisani nabantu - ikhono lokukhetha kahle izingubo. Phela, isithombe sakho ngenye indlela sibonakalisa umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi. Ngakho, indlela yokuxhumana yebhizinisi kusho ukugqoka isimo esifanele sokugqoka. Vumelana, izingubo zokusebenza noma ukwamukela kunemithetho eqinile kunokugqokisa izingubo zansuku zonke.
Imikhuba nesitayela sokuxhumana
Uma indlela yokuxhumana inqunywa ithoni yokukhulumisana kwakho, ukuziphatha kanye nebanga phakathi kwakho ne-interlocutor, isitayela sinethonya elikhulu embala womzwelo womkhathi wokuxhumana. Isungulwa kuye ngokuthi isimo sengqondo sokuziphatha somuntu ngamunye.
Ngakho, okuvame kakhulu yizindlela ezilandelayo zokuxhumana:
- ukudlala ngothando (ngezinye izikhathi ngezingxenye zothando);
- ukufuna;
- ivaliwe;
- umbhali (onobudlova);
- ibhizinisi.