" Muva nje ngabona ukuthi angifuni ukushada, angifuni izingane, abangane bami bayamangala ukuthi kungani kwenzeka, kungani ngingathandi ukushada, ngoba bonke abangane sebevele beshade noma behlela umshado esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ," lezi zizathu cishe zijwayele abaningi. Kungani amantombazane efuna ukushada - bheka lokhu njengethuba lokuzizwa njengowesifazana noma ingabe nje besaba isizungu? Ake sibone.
Kungani abesifazane befuna ukushada?
- Intombazane ifuna ukushada lapho ibona ukuthi isikhathi sayo sesifikile. Iminyaka yakhe nemfundo yakhe ayikho indima. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, isifiso sokushada singase sibe ngenxa yentela, isivumelwane nesifiso sabazali noma nesifiso sokuthola isimo esisha somphakathi.
- Ukwesaba isizungu, ukwesaba ukukhula ngokweqile, ukwesaba ukufa kungabhekene nezingane kanye nabazukulu, futhi akekho odinga owesifazane omdala owehla.
- Kungani abesifazane befuna ukushada? Ngenxa yokuthi bakhathele ukuhlala bodwa, bakhathele konke okusemandleni abo ukuze banqume ngokwabo futhi bafuna ukwazi ukuthi awukwazi ukuzibala wena kuphela. Umndeni wabesifazane abanjalo uba yisiphephelo sangempela kuzo zonke izinkinga nezinkinga.
- Ucabanga ukuthi kungani amanye amantombazane efuna ukushada? Bacabanga ukuthi bangathola oligarch omuhle futhi onomusa oyobahlinzeka ngokuphila okunethezeka. Kulula nje, umkhawulo wamaphupho alaba besifazane ngumshado wokuba lula, isizathu esiyinhloko sesiphetho,
kuyinto inzuzo ebonakalayo. - Isimo sokukhiqiza, lapho ngaphandle kwayo? Ngesinye isikhathi owesifazane uyazi ukuthi ufuna ingane ngentshiseko kumuntu ohamba eduze naye empilweni. Kodwa ukubeletha cishe wonke umuntu uyathanda, ekubeni emshadweni womthetho. Ubeka inkolelo yokuvikela owesifazane, iningi lezitampu epasipoti libhekwa njengesiqinisekiso sokuthi lo muntu ngeke aphele noma kuphi.
- Kumantombazane amaningi akuvunyelwe ukuhlala nendoda futhi abelethe izingane zakhe ngaphandle komshado ngendlela yokuziphatha nenkolo.