Kungani sidinga izingane?

"Kungani sidinga izingane?" Ingabe umbuzo oyingqayizivele futhi oyingqayizivele umbuzo oshadile abambisana ngaso sonke isikhathi. Iningi labazali besikhathi esizayo babeletha izingane, ngokuphelele ngaphandle kokucabanga ukuthi kungani beyidinga. Noma kunjalo, amanye amabhangqa aqhutshwa yizinhloso ezithile, esizokutshela ngakho esihlokweni sethu.

Kungani kufanele nginezingane?

Okulandelayo, sinikeza izimpendulo ezithandwa kakhulu kulo mbuzo, ongazwakala kusuka kwabesifazane nabesilisa abasha:

1. Ngokuvamile, lo mbhangqwana, lapho ebuzwa ukuthi kungani badinga izingane emndenini wabo, bathi: "Awu, hlobo luni lomndeni ongenabantwana?" Abazali abanjalo banquma ukuba nomntwana ngoba nje kudingekile ukuthi akukho muntu olahlayo, kanye nezinye izizathu ezifanayo. Ngeshwa, ngezinye izikhathi amama namantombazane abasha abalungele ukuzalwa kokuqhubeka kwawo, futhi ungathathi ngokubeletha kwengane ngokwanele. Ngokuvamile esimweni esinjalo, ingane ikhuliswa ngogogo, futhi abazali ababonisi kahle ingane yabo.
2. Phakathi nokucwaninga kombuzo, kungani izingane zidinga indoda, impendulo ethandwa kakhulu yilezi: "Njalo umfazi". Abazali abanjalo bathatha ukubeletha kwengane kalula, ungaboni ukuthi kuyadingeka ukubhekana nengane futhi ususe ngokuphelele ukunakekelwa kwemvuthuluka kumlingani wabo. Esikhathini esizayo, imindeni enjalo ivame ukuphulwa ngenxa yokuntuleka kokubamba iqhaza kukababa ekukhulisweni kwengane.
3. Okokugcina, umbuzo wokuthi kungani izingane zidinga owesifazane, ungathola inombolo enkulu yezimpendulo ezahlukene. Ngokuvamile, intombazane encane inquma ukuzala ingane, ukuze kube khona umuntu okumelwe anakekele, ukusiza othile osekhulile nokunye. Enye yezinto ezivame kakhulu futhi, ngesikhathi esifanayo, izizathu zobuwula kuyisifiso sokusindisa umndeni futhi ugcine umyeni. Ezimweni eziningi, imindeni ihlukana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi inani labantwana, futhi lona wesifazane uqala ukucindezeleka ngokuzalwa komunye umntwana.

Impendulo yalo mbuzo onzima ingaba ngokuhlukile. Wonke umuntu omdala uyazikhethela ukuthi ngabe izingane ziyamdinga noma cha, futhi uma kunjalo, kungani. Kodwa ingabe kudingekile ngempela ukuphawula isidingo sokuzala? Akekho owazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi kukhona ukuphila ngemva kokuphila, ngakho kubalulekile ukushiya ukuqhubeka - izingane zakho. Phela, noma yiziphi izimiso ezibonakalayo azikho lutho uma kuqhathaniswa nokuphila okusha.

Futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane idinga ukwabelana naye impilo yakhe ende futhi ejabulisayo. Ukuhlanganyela naye injabulo encane nenkulu, ukukhombisa izwe azohlala kulo. Ukumfundisa ukuhamba, ukukhuluma, ukufunda, ukubala, ukuzwelana nabathandekayo bakhe. Futhi, ekugcineni, ukuzwa okuyigugu: "Umama nobaba, ngiyakuthanda!", Ngoba akukho lutho oluyobe lusethatha indawo yale njabulo.