Abantu abaningi ezimpilweni zabo babhekene nezinkinga ezihlukene, ukukhwabanisa, ukuhlazeka kanye nezinye izimo ezimbi ezithinta isimo sengqondo. Ngenxa yalokho, kungaholela ekuthuthukiseni ukucindezeleka nezinye izinkinga. Yingakho isihloko - "ukuthi yini okufanele ngiyenze uma ngizizwa kabi kakhulu" sihlala sisebenza iminyaka eminingi. Izazi zengqondo zinikeza izincomo eziphumelelayo ezisiza ukubhekana nesimo sengqondo futhi ubuyele ekuphileni okuvamile.
Kuyingozi kimi ukuthi ngenzeni - iseluleko somqondo wezengqondo
Ukuxazulula le nkinga, okokuqala udinga ukuqonda ukuthi yini eyabangela. Umuntu ngamunye angaba nendaba, isibonelo, othandekayo waphonswa, izinkinga zavela emsebenzini, isihlobo sishiya impilo yakhe, njll.
Amathiphu, yini okufanele uyenze uma imicabango emibi ingena ekhanda lakho:
- Izazi zengqondo zithi noma ngabe kunjalo, awukwazi ukuhlala wedwa. Njengoba sekuyisikhathi lapho umuntu eqala ukuzihlola, ukuhlaziya isimo, ngokujwayelekile, ngisho nangaphezulu ukuba angene ezinkingeni.
- Ungaxoshi abantu abaseduze abafuna ngobuqotho ukusiza. Ukuxhumana nabangani nomndeni kuzokusiza ukuphazamisa izinkinga futhi ujabule. Ukuncoma okuphumelelayo, okubhekene nalokho okufanele ukwenze, uma kubi kabi - qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma futhi utshele mayelana nemizwelo yakho kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Udinga ukwenza lokhu kanye kanye nangokomzwelo kakhulu.
- Ukuze ukhohlwe mayelana esidlule futhi uqhubeke phambili, setha imigomo emisha. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokuqaphela iphupho elibalulekile. Isibonelo, uma ufuna ukuhamba, ungaqala ukufunda ulimi lwangaphandle, gcina imali bese ubheka uhambo olufanele. Konke lokhu kuzosiza ukuphazamisa nokuqonda ukuthi empilweni eningi enhle futhi ejabule.
- Izazi zengqondo zinikeza iseluleko esisodwa esilusizo, esiza ukuqonda ukuthi yini okufanele siyenze, lapho kunesimo sengqondo esibi kakhulu - lalela umculo. Izingoma kuphela kufanele zijabulise futhi zibe namandla. Khetha izingoma kuhlu lwadlalwayo ezihlotshaniswa nemicimbi ejabulisayo.