Naphezu kokuthi cishe bonke abesifazane besuka ngokukhipha isisu ngamabomu, abaningi ngokungangabazeki banendaba nombuzo wokuthi yiziphi amathuba okukhulelwa emva kokukhipha isisu, nokuthi lokhu kungashesha kanjani. Izizathu zentshisekelo enjalo ziyimvelo, abanye abafuni ukuphinda le nqubo, kanti abanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, bahlela ukuba nezingane esikhathini esizayo futhi bakhathazeke ngemiphumela engenzeka.
Kulesi sihloko, sizoxoxa ngesikhatsi ungakhulelwa emva kokukhipha isisu, nokuthi ngabe kungenzeka yini.
Amathuba okukhulelwa emva kokukhipha isisu
Yiqiniso, ukukhipha isisu kuyindlela enobungozi, ehambisana nokuhlukumezeka okuhlukahlukene komsebenzi wokuzala, kuhlanganise nokungasebenzi. Kodwa-ke, amathuba okuba nemiphumela emibi nokuhluleka ukuba nezingane esikhathini esizayo ngokuyinhloko kuxhomeke ezintweni ezinjalo:
- indlela yokwenza inqubo;
- imibandela lapho ukukhulelwa kwaphazamiseka khona;
- ubuchwepheshe bodokotela;
- izifo ezihambisana nezifo kanye nempilo ejwayelekile yowesifazane.
Ukukhulelwa emva kwezinhlobo ezahlukene zokukhipha isisu
Ngesokudla, into ephazamisayo kakhulu yisisu sokukhipha isisu esidala , esenziwa ngokushaya isisu esiswini kanye nombungu. Nokho, ngisho nangemva kokukhipha isisu, ungakhulelwa masinyane (emavikini amabili). Lokhu kwenzeka lapho kwenzeka ukuthi inqubo ingahambi ngaphandle kwezinkinga, umsebenzi wokuzala uphinde waqala.
Kodwa odokotela abaphakamisi ngokuqinile ukufakwa kwesimo esinjalo ngezizathu eziningi:
- Okokuqala, uma owesifazane ephinde abelethwe ngenyanga ngemuva kokukhipha isisu, akusho ukuthi umzimba wakhe ubuyiselwe ngokuphelele ngemuva kokuhlangenwe nakho kokucindezeleka.
- Okwesibili, ukukhulelwa okulandelayo kungaba yinkinga enkulu, ngoba kukhona uhlu lonke lwezifo ezingase zihlangane uma owesifazane ekhulelwa ngokushesha ngemuva kokukhipha isisu.
Ngakho-ke, izazi zezinzwa zikholelwa ukuthi isikhathi esincane lapho ungakhulelwa emva kokukhipha isisu akufanele sibe ngaphansi kwezinyanga ezintathu. Amathuba okukhulelwa emva kokuphazamiseka kwezokwelapha azange ancishiswe, kodwa kuphela uma isisu singenakho imiphumela.