Umqondo wesipho somngane kufanele ube ngowokuqala, ongavamile futhi omangalisayo kuye. Ubudala beningi lentombazane kufana nesinyathelo esikhathini esisha sokuphila. Babona ukuthi lolu suku lukhulu kakhulu futhi lukhulu kakhulu. Into esemqoka kulolu suku ukusekelwa kwabathandekayo, ubuso obumnandi bomngane kanye nokuhleka kwabantu abaseduze.
Isipho intombazane ekukhuleni akufanele kube yinto emangalisa nje kuphela, kodwa futhi ayikhohlwa. Kumele kugcinwe futhi kukhunjulwe ngalolu suku isikhathi eside. Mhlawumbe ngeke kube into ebonakalayo, kodwa iyathakazelisa kakhulu. Futhi-ke lokho okuvela kuminyaka engu-18 kuyokhunjulwa.
Yini engafanele ukunikeza?
Ukukhetha umngane iminyaka engu-18, kufanelekile ukulahla ngokushesha izikhumbuzo, banal postcards, imvilophu enemali , umdlali. Futhi, ungacabangi ukuthi intombi yakho izothanda ukubhalisa kwi-gym noma massage. Ngisho noma ucabanga ukuthi udinga okuthile okumele alungise ekubukeni kwakhe, akufanele ugcizelele ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa. Kungcono ukwenza lokhu kamuva, ukubhala, isibonelo, naye ehholo.
Ungathathi kahle ngemibono yamafilimu aseNtshonalanga, lapho umuntu omdala ehlelwa ukuba umuntu omdala. Intombi yakho ingase ingabi nandaba, ngeke ifune ukushiya indlu futhi ingase isabele ngokungalungile ngokumangala .
Khetha isipho sokuzilibazisa
Yiqiniso, uma sekuyisikhathi eside ube umngane nomuntu, khona-ke uyazi ukuthi uyakuzilibazisa, izinto zokuzilibazisa nezithandwayo. Futhi, ukukhetha isipho senjazana engu-18 ubudala, kufanelekile ukucabangela umlingisi wezintombi zokuzalwa. Ukuze ummangele futhi wenze usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lunikeze okungcono kakhulu, kufanelekile ukunaka ngokukhethekile isipho esizohlangana nomlingiswa wentombazane.
Uma ethandana ngokweqile, cabanga ngokushayela ibhaluni, ukuxhuma ebhuloho (u-roup-jumping) noma umshini wokuhlola emotweni yamanje. Umqondo othakazelisayo wesipho ungabhayela emoyeni womoya. Kusengenzeka ukuthi ususe futhi ukhumbule ikhamera ngemuva kweminyaka eminingi, njengasekusheni wena ujabule.
Uma intombi yakho ikhetha ukuphila okuzolile nokulinganisiwe, bese unikeza okuthandayo okuthile okuzolile, okuvamile, kodwa okungavamile. Ukugibela amahhashi, ukubhaliselwa kwi-salon ebiza kakhulu yokusikhipha, ukusika izinwele noma enye inqubo engamthakazelisa yona (mhlawumbe yena ngokwakhe ekutshele ngalokhu, khumbula).
Isipho esiphelele kumngane othanda ukufunda yisitifiketi sokuthengwa kwenani elithile lezincwadi esitolo esikhulu. Noma, uma wazi kahle ukuthi awunayo yini kuqoqo, ungathenga ikhophi wena. Mhlawumbe kuyoba ivolumu engavamile ye-encyclopedia noma umphenyi osanda kushicilelwa womlobi wakhe ozithandayo.
Lowo othanda umculo angathenga ithuluzi elibiza kakhulu adlala ngalo, akhokhe izifundo ezimbalwa zokufunda ukucula noma ukudlala insimbi oyintandokazi (uma intombazane iphupha kakhulu, kodwa ayikwazanga ukunquma).
Uma kwenzeka umngane wakho, ogubha abantu abadala, uthanda ukudansa, bese unikeza isigqebhezana ekilasini elihle emidlalweni yangempela.
Imibono eyithakazelisayo yesoka lesipho ingafihla ezitolo zetfashini. Kuyoba lula kuwe ukukhetha isipho se-fashionista yangempela. Namuhla, izitolo eziningi zinikeza izitifiketi ngenani elithile, elikuvumela ukuthi uthenge okuthandayo ku-boutique. Ungenza okufanayo namafutha nezimonyo. Isethulo sesipho sangempela singaba kanje: uthenge isikhwama, bese ubeka amakhadi ambalwa ezitolo.
Into eyinhloko iminyaka engu-18 ukumangala intombi, sicela futhi ujabule. Uma isipho sikhethwe ngomphefumulo futhi sicabangela okuthandayo kwentombazane yokuzalwa, uzothola u-100% endaweni.