I-syndrome ye-psychopathy (evela esiGreek "ukugula komphefumulo") ibonakala ngokuziphatha okungenangqondo, okungazenzisi nokukhohlisa kwabanye. Ubani abangama-psypaths abanjalo abangakwazi ukuxhumana nabanye abantu futhi nakuba leli gama lizwa, akukho ukuxilongwa okunjalo kwengqondo. Izingxabano mayelana nalesi sifo azipheli.
Kungani beba psychopaths?
Imibono yokuqala mayelana nokuzizwa kwengqondo yenziwa ngo-1941 ngumhlengikazi waseMelika uHervey Cleckley. Esikhathini esidlule, izimpawu ngabanye zachazwa ngaphansi kwamanye amagama, isibonelo, ukungcola okukhanya noma kokuziphatha. Uma umuntu engekho ngokomzwelo, engacabangeli - akusho ukuthi uyagula. Ngokwezibalo, u-10% wabo bonke abantu banezici ze-psychopathic. I-1-2% kuphela yabantu - iziguli zokwelapha, ikakhulukazi zazo eziningi zitholakala ezindaweni ezimbi (25%).
Ukuhlukaniswa, izibalo kanye nokuhlukaniswa kwe-syndrome kungokwemvelo. Kuze kube manje, aziwa ukuthi bangaba kanjani ama-psychopath nokuthi yini eyenza ukuthuthukiswa kwe-syndrome. I-Anomaly yobuntu ingaba yindlala noma izuzwe - ezimweni zendawo yangaphandle engalungile, enomonakalo ebuchosheni bebuchopho nemikhiqizo enobuthi. Izinkinga zobuntu azikwenzeki, futhi ukukhathazeka kwengqondo kunzima ukuphatha, nakuba esemncane i-syndrome ilula ukulawula nokulungisa ukuziphatha komphakathi.
Indlela yokuqaphela i-psychopath?
I-psychopath ayinakho ikhono lokuzwela, isipiliyoni, kodwa izimpawu ngabanye azibonisi ukuxilongwa kwemitholampilo. Njengoba izici ze-psychopathic azibonakali ukuthi kukhona khona i-syndrome, uma zingaphansi kwezintathu. Ngezinye izikhathi, bobabili abazungezile nesiguli abazi kahle ngokuxilongwa, futhi izimpawu zithathwa ngenxa yezimfanelo zomuntu siqu. Abacwaningi babiza izimpawu ezilandelayo ze-psychopath:
- ukulawulwa kokuziphatha okubuthakathaka, ukucasula;
- i-charm engavamile, ubuciko nokukhuluma;
- isidingo senjabulo, ukuxhomekeka kwe-adrenaline - abantu abanjalo abakwazi ukuhlala bengenzi lutho isikhathi eside;
- ukungabi nandaba ngaphambi kwezenzo zabo;
- ukungabi nozwela;
- ukuzethemba okukhulu.
Yiziphi izingqondo eziyingozi?
Ngisho noma sicabanga ukuthi akuwona wonke ama-psypaths abhekana nobudlova, abeka ingozi emphakathini, ikakhulukazi abantu abaneziphambeko zobugebengu. Izenzo zabo ziyabhubhisa, ikakhulukazi maqondana nemvelo yabantu. Ubuntu obuthakathaka be-psychopathic budlulisa izimfuno kwabanye. Abantu abanjalo baphikisana, bawela kalula ekufutheni ngisho nokukwazi ukubulala. I-Psychopath yizilwane zenhlalo, okuvezwa ezenzweni zabo ezilandelayo:
- bazizwa ubuhlungu bomunye umuntu, kodwa musa ukuphindaphinda;
- bayi-manipulators, amaqhinga kanye ne-quirky;
- ngokuvamile abantu abanjalo bavilapha, bahola indlela yokuphila yokuphila, abasebenzi futhi abafuni ukusebenza.
I-Psychopath ne-sociopath - umehluko
Abanye abantu bahlanganisa ngokungaqondani imiqondo emibili - i-psychopath ne-sociopath. Bobabili imibhalo ichaza ukukhathazeka komuntu okungafani nobuntu futhi babe nezici ezivamile. Ukufana kwalezi zinhlobo ukuthi:
- Abantu abanjalo abanandaba futhi banenkohliso;
- badlala imizwelo yabanye abantu, kodwa bengabi nomuzwa wokuzisola nozwela;
- Zombili izinhlobo zinganaki ukuphepha kwabanye;
- bayayinaki imithetho yomphakathi.
Indlela yokuhlukanisa i-psychopath emphakathini - ngokungafani nalokhu okugcina, akakwazi ukuzisola ngokuphelele, kodwa angahlela. Abantu abaningi abangenangqondo abangakwazi ukuhlala isikhathi eside endaweni eyodwa (umndeni, indawo engobuchwepheshe), basuke bengacindezeli, bengavinjelwe. Abanye ochwepheshe bathi ukukhathazeka kwengqondo kungukudabuka kwangasese, futhi ukuhlalisana kwabantu kubangelwa ukuhlukunyezwa noma okuhlangenwe nakho.
Izinhlobo ze-psychopaths
Abantu abane-psychopathic syndrome bangahle bahlukaniswe ngokomzimba babe izinhlobo eziningana.
- Ukuqhuma (okulungile) - abe nezinga eliphakeme lokucasula nokuhlukunyezwa.
- I- psychopaths ye- paranoid iyasolisa, abantu abanomhawu lapho bonke bebona izifiso ezimbi.
- I-Psychoatric - eyesabekayo, engaphephile, ethathelwe ekuzikhunjweni nokuziqhenya .
- Ama-psypical psychopaths abathanda ukunakwa futhi alwela ukuqaphela ukuphela kwabo. I-pathologically amanga, ehle kakhulu.
- I-Schizoid - inganiselwe ngokomzwelo, iphosa, kepha ngesikhathi esisodwa isengozini. Bazonda inhlalo yomphakathi.
Indlela yokuziphatha nge-psychopath?
Ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi izingqondo zengqondo nokuthi zingabani ingozi abangayibonisa, kubalulekile ukuthi usebenze ngendlela efanele yokuziphatha nalaba bantu. Ngokushesha noma kamuva, ukukhubazeka komlingiswa kuzozibonakalisa. Ubudlelwane ne-psychopath buhlala bunzima kakhulu, ngoba abantu abanenkinga yobuntu babangela ukuhlupheka ukuvala abantu. Ama-psychopaths asebesifazane ajwayelekile, kepha lesi sifo singahambisana nezinkinga ezifana ne-kleptomania, utshwala, ukuziphatha okubi ngokocansi, njll. Ama-Muzhiny-psychopaths ayenobungqingili, aziphatha okubi, akakwazi ukuzwa imizwa. Ubuhlobo obunothando nabo bulimaza abesifazane.
Indlela yokuxhumana ne-psychopath?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izimpawu, uhlobo lokugula nokuziphatha, abantu abane-psychopathic badinga ukwelashwa okukhethekile. Ukuziphatha kwe-psychopath kuyabikezelwa uma ukuxilongwa kufakazelwa. Futhi nakuba kungekho ndlela yokuziphatha yendawo yonke, ekukhulumisaneni nesifo sengqondo, le mithetho elandelayo kufanele ilandelwe:
- Nciphisa izinga lakho lokuhlukunyezwa. Gwema ukuxabana.
- Gcina amandla angaphakathi.
- Ukuze ukwazi ukuphazamisa ukunakwa.
- Uma kwenzeka isiguli esivela esigulini, ungahlanganyeli empini, kodwa zama ukubalekela futhi ushayele usizo.
Ungazivikela kanjani kumphathi we-psychopathic?
Ukuzivikela okungcono kakhulu nge-psychopath kuphula ubuhlobo naye. Kodwa uma lokhu kungenakwenzeka (isibonelo, ngubaba noma umama wengane evamile noma umphathi) futhi uhlala edlala nemizwa, kubalulekile ukuziphatha kahle ngokuxhumana. I-Psychology ye-psychopaths yilapho idinga ukuzwa ukubaluleka kwayo, isidingo, idlala idrama. Indlela engcono kakhulu kuleli cala ukuvusa ukulahlekelwa kwesithakazelo. Lokhu kusho ukunikeza ukusabela okubuhlungu kwisenzo somlondolozi: ukuphendula ukukhohlisa, ukukhuluma ngokuthula, ukuzibonakalisa njenge-interlocutor engalindelekile. Okubi kakhulu ukuthi i-psychopath ayikwazi.
Ungasusa kanjani i-psychopath?
Ngomuntu ongaqiniseki, kubalulekile ukuphumula oxhumana nabo ngokufanele: qala ngebanga elincane (ukunciphisa isikhathi sokuxhumana, ukufihla ngaphansi komsebenzi), bese ubeka iphuzu lokugcina ebuhlotsheni obungenakuzenzela, okungukuthi, ukusebenzisa ukuxhumana kocingo noma i-intanethi. Abanye abantu, abangazi ukuthi bangabelana kanjani ne-psychopath, baziphathe ngokungalungile futhi bahlele amadrama. Lokhu kuphela kuphazamisa i-interlocutor ukuxabana nokuqhubeka nokushushiswa. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukubandakanya abantu besithathu abazokwazi isimo ngaphakathi futhi basekele ekukhethweni okunzima.
Indlela yokwelapha ingqondo?
Abantu abanemikhuba ye-psychopathic baphikisana nokukhona kwabanye, kodwa kunezinhliziyo ezinjalo ezingakwazi ukuphuma ekuphileni: izingane, abazali, izihlobo. Umbuzo uvela - kanjani ukusiza i-psychopath ekwakheni ubudlelwano obuvamile nabantu? Kungenzeka lezi zindlela zokwelashwa nezindlela zokusiza ezilandelayo:
- imithi (izidakamizwa zokunciphisa ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, ukuhlukunyezwa, njll);
- psychotherapy, ikakhulukazi ukwelapha iqembu;
- usize ekunqumeni indlela yokuphila.
Ama-psychopath awaziwayo
Njengomthetho, uma kubuzwa ukuthi lezi zingqondo zengqondo, masinyane zikhumbule amaqhawe adumile ezincwadi namabhayisikobho: uHannibal Lecter, i-Iago kaShakespeare ka-Iago, u-Annie Wilks noCarrie Stephen King, "i-American psycho" uPatrick Bateman, "Clockwork Orange" u-Alex. Ekuphileni, izimpawu azisho kanjalo. Ama-psypaths ahloniphekile: akubanga nje kuphela aba ngabahlukumezi nezigebengu, kodwa babonakaliswa yimpumelelo engavamile. Lezi, isibonelo, ziyiziqu ezifana nalezi:
- U-Abraham Lincoln - umongameli-u-melancholic
- UVincent Van Gogh ungumculi ohlakaniphile.
- U-Edgar Allan Poe ungumbhali odumile wezinto ezimbi.
- U-Tennessee Williams ungumlobi wezokudlala.
- U-Isaac Newton uyisayensi ye-physics evelele.
Abraham Lincoln
UVincent van Gogh
U-Edgar Allan Poe
Tennessee Williams
U-Isaac Newton
Laba bantu babengabososayensi abakhulu, abalobi, abaculi kanye nezombangazwe. Namuhla, ukucabanga kwengqondo kuyaqhubeka kuyinkinga enkulu engazange iqondwe ngokugcwele, kodwa okungenzeka futhi kuyadingeka ukulwa nayo. Abantu abane-pathology banethuba elihle lokuba amalungu agcwele omphakathi uma bebazi ubuthakathaka babo futhi bekwazi ukuqondisa amandla amabi ngendlela efanele.