Kunzima ukuthola intombazane engeke ifune ukuhlangana nomlingani wayo womshado futhi ishade ngempumelelo. Ngeshwa, kodwa umuntu angaziqhayisa ngokuphila komuntu siqu. Yingakho amantombazane efuna izindlela ezahlukene zokuheha uthando . Abaningi banesithakazelo ukuthi yisiphi isithonjana sokuthandazela umshado kanye nokuhlangana nomuntu omuhle. Kukholelwa ukuthi kuyisikhalo esiqotho kuMandla aphezulu okusiza ukushintsha isimo sibe ngcono.
Ubani okufanele athandazele umshado nokuphila komuntu siqu?
Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo abantu babefuna imithandazo kaNkulunkulu ekufuneni umhlatshelo. Kukhona ngisho namaholide amaningi esonto ahlukene ahlotshaniswa nomshado nokufanisa, isibonelo, isihlahla sikaKhisimusi, usuku lukaPetrov, njll.
Ukukhuluma ngukuphi u-Saint okuthandazela umshado, okokuqala kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngoMama kaNkulunkulu, ngoba kuye kwabesifazane abangaphezu kweminyaka eyishumi bebebhekene nezinkinga zabo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, bathola usizo. Indlela enamandla kunayo yonke, esiza ukuthola injabulo, yiyona "Umbala ongapheli". Ngaphambi kwalesi sithonjana, amantombazane acelwa ukuba abasize benze ukhetho oluhle ekusesheni kwabo ingxenye yesibili. Amakholwa athi uMama kaNkulunkulu osiza ekuxazululeni ngisho nezinkinga zomkhaya ezimbi kakhulu.
Uma unesithakazelo kunoma yisiphi esinye isithonjana ongathandazela umshado, kufanele uqaphele isithombe sika Xenia wasePetersburg. Kuneziqinisekiso eziningi ezibonisa ukuthi imithandazo ngaphambi kwesithonjana salesi saint usizo ukuthola uthando. UNicholas Wonderworker, ozwa bonke abadinga usizo, angasiza ekuhleleni impilo yomuntu siqu. Abaphathi bomndeni injabulo nomshado yi-Saint Febronia noPeter, ngoba ubuhlobo babo bubhekwa njengesibonelo sothando nokubekezela. Amakholwa ase-Orthodox nawo aphendukela
Ungathandazela kanjani umshado ukuze uNkulunkulu azwe?
Okokuqala, kunconywa ukuba uye esontweni bese uphendukela Emandleni Amandla ngokuthandaza ukuze uqinise ukholo lwakho, usule imicabango yakho futhi ususe izono zakho. Ukushiya, uma kungekho isithonjana sasekhaya, bese ungena esitolo sesonto. Ungabhekisela kumuntu ongcwele ngamazwi akho, into eyinhloko ukuthi kufanele abeqotho futhi ahambe enhliziyweni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukukholelwa ukuthi ngokuqinisekile lokho okufunayo kuyoba ngokoqobo. Ungasebenzisa futhi imiyalezo ekhethekile yomthandazo. Kubalulekile ukucela usizo, kodwa hhayi ukulifuna.