Cishe bonke babe nezimo, lapho befuna ngempela ukuya ocansini, kodwa akukho ndawo. Khona-ke kule nkambo kukhona izingxenyana ezithule zamapaki, imigqa yangemuva kumabhayisikobho, iziphakamisi kanye neminyango. Kodwa kubantu abathile, ubukhulu bezocansi ezingenasisekelo buhlala nokuthola indawo yokuhlala.
Ubulili ezindaweni zomphakathi kuvamile?
Futhi yini engavamile ukuba nobulili ezindaweni ezingezona ezivamile? Ukuhlaselwa kwesithakazelo kungakwazi ukumboza noma ubani, akukho lutho olukhethekile ngalokhu. Futhi akufanelekile ukukhohlwa ngabathandi bendlu-busuku. Abantu abaningi benza ubulili ezindaweni zomphakathi ukuze bahlukanise impilo yabo ebuseduze futhi bavuselele ukufutheka kwe-pent-up. Kodwa abanye babo benza le ndlela yokuzilibazisa, manje inhlangano ye-Doggers iyathuthuka. Abantu bajwayele inethiwekhi futhi bavumelana endaweni nesikhathi sesenzo somphakathi, kodwa akufanele babe nemihlangano yokuqala. Lapha, akuyona indaba yokuzijabulisa okukhulu, okwenzeka lapho kungenzeka ukuba ibanjwe, kodwa ngesifiso sokubonisa izwe ngokwalo ngendlela enhle kangaka.
Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungani umuntu eqhubekela phambili ocansini endaweni yomphakathi, abakwa-sexologists banombono wabo ngalolu daba. Bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kubonakaliswa kokuthambekela kokubukisa, okuyinto ngayinye ichazwa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Injabulo yomuntu oyedwa ikhula uma eyazi ukuthi uyabuka (noma kungenzeka), kanti abanye abantu abakwazi ukutholana nomunye nomlingani, bamane badinga ababukeli. Esikhathini esilandelayo, kusobala ukuthi sidinga usizo lochwepheshe, ngakho ngeke sikubheke, kepha ake sikhulume ngalezo zindawo lapho abantu bafuna ukuzama okuthile okusha ngocansi.
Ngingahlala kuphi ucansi?
Njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, ungaba nobulili lapho ufuna khona: ku-cinema, etekisini, ezokuthutha zomphakathi - abantu bathola izindawo eziningi namathuba okuthatha umhlalaphansi.
- Ibhishi cishe yindawo ethandwa kakhulu phakathi kwezindawo zomphakathi zezocansi. Kungcono ukukwenza ekuseni noma kusihlwa. Futhi kukhona abambalwa abafakaza, futhi umkhathi uthanda kakhulu, futhi ngeke uthole ilanga. Kodwa uma ukhetha ibhishi lomuzi ukwenza uthando, khumbula ukuthi kungcono ukungadlulisi izivivinyo zakho ukuze uphuze amanzi - ngamanzi angcolile lapho, kuma-microbes nokudonswa kwempilo yabantu akukho ukusweleka.
- Esinye indawo esithandwayo yizitolo kanye namakhonksi amancane emapaki. Konke akukubi - ekubambeni nasezikhunjini zabathandi abaluhlaza abazokhipha lokho kuveza okukhanyayo kwemizwelo. Akukhona njengokuthandana njengoba kungase kubonakale (imithi, udoti, izintuthwane) ngqo otshanini, ngakho-ke khetha ukuhlala okuhleliwe (ibhentshi) noma ukuma (ngomuthi).
- Akunakwenzeka ukuthi ungasho ngama-nightclub - izindlu zangasese zabo zikhethwa ngamabhangqwana amaningi angapheli. Ayikho into engasizwa, amafilimu aseWesternation acindezela ukusetshenziswa kwamathoyilethi ngenjabulo yemnandi.
- Ubulili emakethe kuyintandokazi eyintandokazi kubantu abaningi abedlulele. Ufuna ukungena kwinombolo yabo, khetha iminyango ngezingubo, ezigcwele abathengi. Khona-ke ukunakwa kwabadayisi emakamelweni afanele ngeke kukhishwe.
- I-cinema, imigqa yokugcina, izindawo zokuzingeza - konke njengokungathi kudalwe kubathandi. Izikhathi ezinhle kakhulu zisesimini, hhayi izibukeli eziningi kangaka. Ukuhamba okuhle kakhulu kuhlezi ubuso bakho noma emuva kumngane wakho. I-caresses yomlomo nayo iyamukelwa. Kodwa awukwazi ukuhlala umhlalaphansi ehholo. Amatholethi, ifasitela egcwala ngamakhethini anzima, isikhala ngemuva kwesikrini singakusiza futhi ukuba ufeze iphutha lakho.
- Eminye imiphefumulo enesibindi inquma ngokulala ngokobulili emgwaqweni. Omunye ufihle emagcekeni nasezintweni ezimnyama, nomunye emotweni yakhe.
- Okuvamile futhi ukhetho emgwaqeni - ukuhamba ngesitimela isikhathi eside, akukho lutho okufanele uyenze, kodwa uma uthola inzuzo
izingubo zokulala, bese uhlala esihlalweni esilondoloziwe ungakwazi ukudonga wena kumakhelwane futhi ufunde umsebenzi ojabulisayo kunokuba ubukele indawo ngaphandle kwewindi.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma ubanjwa?
Kunezinketho ezimbili lapha: ukuqhubeka noma ukuthatha umhlalaphansi. Uma uphawula, kodwa, uma usumomotheka, udlulisiwe, akukho lutho lokukhathazeka ngalo. Kodwa lapha, uma abahola impesheni abaqaphele noma amaphoyisa ebeka amazwi, khona-ke kuzodingeka ume. Izihloko ezivimbela ukuba ocansini endaweni yomphakathi, cha, kodwa abalindi bemigomo bangakudonsela ubuchopho obuncane. Futhi lokhu kukusongela ngokuboshwa noma izinsuku ezingu-15. Ngakho qaphela.