Cishe uzokhumbula lesi simo lapho uzitshela ukuthi: "Ngiyakwazi!" Futhi ngempela wakwazi ukunqoba isithiyo esivela phambi kwakho. Ingabe lokhu kwakuwumphumela wezinkolelo zakho, kuphela ongakusho, kodwa, ukuthi usebenza, ungangabazi ngisho nakanjani. Ngeshwa, abantu bavame, ngisho nokungazi, ngemicabango yabo namagama abo ababi badonsela imicimbi engadingeki. Ngaphambi komunye wethu njalo emva kwesibili kukhona ukukhetha: ukudala noma ukubhubhisa.
Ukuqinisekiswa yizitatimende ezinhle. Babeka ingqondo yethu enganaki ukufeza izifiso zabo siqu futhi kumele baqinisekise ukuthi iziphi izenzakalo noma izenzakalo ozama ukuziheha zona njengoba sezifezile kakade. Ungabhala okuhle okuthunyelwe ngakho ngesihloko. Kodwa-ke, udinga ukucabangela ukuthi isifiso sakho akufanele silimaze abanye abantu.
Imithetho yokwakha iziqiniseko
Ukuze imicabango yakho ibe yinto ebonakalayo kubalulekile ukuyihlela ngendlela efanele. Kunezimiso eziningana zokwenza lokhu:
- Ukuqinisekiswa kufanele kube okuhle.
- Awukwazi ukusebenzisa i-"NOT" i-particle.
- Ezimqinisweni ezifanele, le nkulumo ibhalwe njengokungathi leli phupho seligcwalisekile kakade.
Ngokuvamile abantu benza amaphutha amakhulu ekwakhiweni kwezitatimende zabo ngakho-ke abatholi umphumela. Nazi ezinye zazo:
- Ukusetshenziswa kwegama elithi "Ngiyakwazi." Isibonelo, "ngingathola imali."
- Akuyona into ejwayelekile yokusebenza nezitatimende.
- Ukusetshenziswa kwesikhathi esizayo.
- Sebenzisa imishwana eyenza ukuphikiswa kwangaphakathi.
- Inkulumo yamaMechanical.
Zama ukukhuluma ukuze usebenze ngaphansi kokuqondisisa. Lapho isitatimende siphendulwa, ngcono isenzo. Ukuphindaphinda kudlulisa okubi.
Ngokuvamile umkhuba ovamile uvinjelwa ubuvila. Ngolunye usuku umuntu ukhumbula mayelana nezitatimende, okulandelayo - okukhohlwayo, bese kuthi, akatholi isikhathi kubo. Ukuvimbela lokhu kungenzeki, hlela ingqondo yakho engqondweni. Funda izibonelo zokuqinisekiswa bese ubhala owakho, ngokuba izingxenye eziyinhloko zokuphila komuntu: impilo, imizwa, umsebenzi, ezezimali kanye nokuxhumana.
Izibonelo zokuqinisekisa usuku ngalunye
Uma ungeke ukwazi ukwakha imicabango yakho emihle ngokwakho, ungasebenzisa izifanekiso ezenziwe ngomumo:
Ukuqinisekiswa kwezempilo:
- Ngiyethemba ukuthi amandla aphakeme nempumelelo ihlale nami;
- Nginempilo enhle;
- umzimba wami ungishukumisela ukuba ngizikhandle;
- Ngizinakekela mina ngokwami.
Ukuqinisekiswa kosuku ngalunye:
- impumelelo ihlala nami njalo;
- Nginamandla angenamkhawulo namathuba;
- Ngithuthukisa amakhono ami;
- Indawo yonke yembula kimi imithombo yolwazi.
Ukuqinisekiswa okuhle:
- Ngibheka okukhulu;
- imali engenayo iyanda njalo;
- Ngiziqhenya ngami;
- indoda yami iyona engcono kakhulu.
Ukuqinisekiswa kwenhlanhla:
- Ngiyingxenye yangaphambili ngaphandle kokuzisola;
- Ngifanele ukwandisa izinkokhelo;
- Ngithola okuhle kakhulu;
- Ngithanda futhi ngibahlonipha abazali bami.
Ukuqinisekiswa kothando:
- Ngiyazisa mina;
- Ngivumela abanye ukuba bathande ngokwabo;
- Inhliziyo yami ivulekile uthando;
- Nginika uthando, ukufudumala, injabulo kwabanye.
Yenza ushintsho oluhle empilweni yakho. Ukusebenzisa lezi zindlela ezilula, uhlelo lokuthola izinzuzo zokuphila luzokwenziwa ngokuzenzekelayo, futhi maduze uzobona izinguquko.
Izindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokusebenzisa ukuqinisekiswa
- Bhala phansi izitatimende ezibhaliwe ephepheni, kufanele zibonakale ibanga lamamitha ambalwa. Kubalulekile ukwenza amakhophi amabili.
- Omunye wamashidi abekwe ekamelweni lapho amehlo akho ayeka ngokushesha ngemva kokuvusa. Ngemuva kokulala, ingqondo engaqondakali isilungele ukuthola ulwazi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyazi izinkulumo ezibhaliwe. Ngokubheka, uhlela ulwazi ekuphumeleleni kwezenzo zabo usuku lonke.
- Elinye ishidi elinamaqiniso afanele lifakwa ekhishini elibhekene netafula ukuze ngesikhathi sokudla ubona okulotshiwe
kuvunyelwe. Lapho behlezi etafuleni kufanele bahlelwe ngokumelene namehlo. Ukwaziswa enqubo yokudla kunomphumela omuhle kumuntu. Lesi simo sabonakala yiShayina lasendulo. Babambelela kakhulu ekudleni, kwakuhlanganisa umculo oyingoma ngaleso sikhathi, futhi babheka izimpawu eziheha inhlanhla.
Uma kamuva ufuna ukuthuthukisa izilungiselelo zakho ezinhle, khona-ke udinga ukufaka esikhundleni samashidi. Le nqubo izofeza kalula imiphumela efunayo kunoma iyiphi indawo yokuphila kwakho.