Ukunyakaza , naphezu kokuthi inqubo yobudala yemvelo, ukwesabisa nokukhathazeka kakhulu abesifazane abaningi. Ukusondela kokumisa esikhathini kuyabangela imibuzo eminingi, okuyinhloko yayo ukuthi ngabe ukukhishwa kwesikhashana kuthinta kanjani impilo yocansi.
Ingabe kukhona ucansi ngemuva kokumisa esikhathini sokuya esikhathini?
Ngokuqinisekile, impendulo yalo mbuzo nguyebo. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwalesi sihloko kaningi kungenasisekelo. Njengoba izibalo zibonisa, amaphesenti amancane kuphela abesifazane emva kokuqala kokuya esikhathini ayanciphisa i-libido, kuyilapho iningi lokukhangwa ngokocansi landa kuphela.
Ufuna ucansi emva kokuya esikhathini sokuya esikhathini?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi impilo yocansi emva kokuya esikhathini isisindo esinamandla futhi inamandla, ngokuyinhloko ithomeke kowesifazane yena nomlingani wakhe. Njengoba wazi, ukushayela ucansi akuyona into engokwenyama, kuyisimo sengqondo. Ngakho-ke, uma owesifazane engabhekana nanoma yiziphi izithiyo zangaphakathi ezingenakunqotshwa, ubulili ngemuva kokuqeda ukuphuma esikhathini kwabesifazane kuzohlala ezingeni eliphakeme, naphezu kokuqala kokuya esikhathini.
Indlela yokunqoba isithiyo sengqondo?
Ngeshwa, iningi labesifazane bacabanga ukuthi lesi sivunguvungu singummemezeli wokuguga, okuvame ukubangela izithiyo ezingokwengqondo. Owesifazane uyeka ukuzwa ubulili bakhe, uqaphele izimpawu zokuqala zokubukeka kobuhle. Lokhu kubangela izinkimbinkimbi kulo, kuqiniswa kakhulu othandweni. Ukubhekana nesimo esinjalo kuzosiza ukubheka izinto kusuka ekubukeni okuhle. Ukuya ocansini emva kokuphuma esikhathini sokuzalwa kunama-pluses, njengokunciphisa ingozi yokukhulelwa okungadingeki. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubulili obuvamile bungasusa izinqwaba zempawu ezibonisa ukuphela kwesikhathi: ukushintsha kwemizwelo, ukucindezeleka kwegazi, ukuguquka kwamagciwane.
Ukunqamuka kwesikhashana kwabesifazane nabesifazane - imiqondo iyahambisana.
Into esemqoka ukuthi ube nomoya wangaphakathi ongaphakathi nokuqonda okuhlangene nomlingani wakho. Uma ubuhlobo buqinile, ukuyeka esikhathini sokumisa ngeke kuthinte impilo yakho yobulili nganoma iyiphi indlela!