Wonke owesifazane olandela impilo yakhe uyazi ukuthi kufanele ahambele umjozi wezifo zokwelapha okungenani kabili ngonyaka. Ngeshwa, akuyona yonke le mithetho elandelwayo, bese bayamangala kakhulu ngokuxilongwa kukadokotela. Kodwa kungenzeka ukugwema imiphumela eminingi lapho ukhuluma ngesigaba sokuqala sesifo.
Isibonelo, ngubani ongazwanga ngesifo " umdlavuza wesibeletho "? Lesi yisifo esivame kakhulu futhi esiyingozi esiyinkinga yokugula ngokwemvelo. Kodwa yona, kanye nabanye abaningi, ingelashwa, ngakho-ke igweme ukususwa komlomo wesibeletho.
Ukususwa komlomo wesibeletho akukwenziwa nje kuphela ezifweni ezimbi, kepha nakwezinye izifo, uma ukwelashwa okulondolozayo akusizi. Futhi, ukususwa okuncane kwamathambo omlomo wesibeletho kubonakala.
Ingabe ukuhlinzwa kuyadingeka ukususa umlomo wesibeletho?
Lapho ukhuluma ngalolu daba, isici sengqondo siphinde sicabange. Ngokuvamile, ngemva kokususwa ngokuphelele kwesibeletho, owesifazane akakwazi ukuzala owesifazane onentamo. Ngokuvamile, ukuqaphela lokhu kunoma yikuphi owesifazane kuyingozi. Kodwa uma kuziwa ekulondolozeni impilo yesiguli, inkinga yokukhipha umlomo wesibeletho, njengomthetho, inqunywa ngokungaqondile ukuze kusebenze.
Kuye ngokuxilongwa, akunakwenzeka ukuba ususe umlomo wesibeletho, kodwa ususe kuphela ingxenye yomlomo wesibeletho. Lokhu kwenziwa ukuze kulondolozwe ikhono lomama wokubeletha.
Ingabe kuyadingeka ukususa umlomo wesibeletho lapho ususa isisu?
Ngokugcina izivivinyo ezivamile, ukutholakala kwezinyathelo zokuqala zesifo akusikho embelethweni, kodwa emzimbeni wesibeletho, ungasusa isisu, futhi ushiye umlomo wesibeletho (ukuphuma kwesikhumba). Isinqumo sokususa isisu somlomo wesibeletho noma silondoloze sithathwa kuphela emva kokuhlaziywa okuningi futhi kucabangela ingozi yokuthuthukisa lesi sifo. Ukususwa kwenziwa ngokuhlinzwa.
Le nkinga ixazululwa kuphela kanye nodokotela. Kwamanye amazwe, ukususwa okuyisandulela (prophylactic) yomlomo wesibeletho wabesifazane emva kweminyaka engama-50 kwenziwa ukunciphisa amathuba okuba nomdlavuza wezinsikazi zesisu. Lokhu kwenziwa kaningi uma kunezici zofuzo noma ukubekwa komzimba ekuthuthukiseni izifo zofuba kunoma yiziphi izitho.