Uninazala nomkhwenyana bangabantu ababili ababumbene nomuntu ozalwa kubo bobabili, kodwa mhlawumbe konke lokhu okufana nabo. Ukuthi laba bantu bakuthola kunzima ukuhambisana nomuntu wonke uyazi konke futhi kwaziwa amashumi ambalwa eminyaka. Ezweni lamahlaya, kunamahlaya amaningi mayelana noninazala njengama-blondes. Yiqiniso, kunabantu abanenhlanhla abakwazi ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nonina lomkabo okokuqala, kodwa kukhona labo abangakwazi ukubeka ubuhlobo naye.
Umndeni omusha unemingcele ejulile kakhulu. Futhi amafutha amaningi angenezela emlilweni ngabantu abakuzungezile, labo abasanda kushada banethuba elincane lokuphila ngezinkinga zomndeni wokuqala, beba namandla ngesikhathi esifanayo. Kuwo wonke umuntu, noma ngabe ubuhlobo bakhe nabazali bakhe, badlala indima ebalulekile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izingane zingakanani, abazali bazozama ukuletha izeluleko zabo ekuphileni kwabo, naphezu kokuba ingane yabo inenhloko yakhe emahlombe, futhi uyazi ngokuthatha izinqumo ezibalulekile.
Ubudlelwano phakathi komamazala nomalokazana
Amadoda abe nomuzwa wokuthi umkhwekazi wakhe othandekayo ujabule ngokukhetha komyeni wakhe indodakazi yakhe nokuthi ngubani ongakwazi ukuhambisana nomama wakhe umama kancane kakhulu. Kodwa labo abazwa usuku nosuku ukuthi wenza njalo into engalungile, okuningi kakhulu. Cabanga ngezimbangela zezingxabano phakathi komamazala nomalokazana bese uzama ukuqonda ukuthi kungani umamazala esesimweni esiningi ephikisana nomkhwenyana.
- Ezimweni eziningi, imbangela enkulu yezingxabano yindodakazi encane yomamazala. Akakwazi ukuxazulula noma yiziphi izinkinga zokuqala ngaphandle kweseluleko sikaMama. Umkhwenyana usanda kuba nombuzo: ngubani oshade naye - intombazanyana noma owesifazane omdala? Ngenxa yalokho, konke ukungathokozi kwakhe nomkakhe, usebenza noninazala futhi ngokuphambene nalokho.
Isinqumo: umkhwenyana kufanele akhombise ukuthi nguye umuntu omele futhi ozimele ongathembeka indodakazi yakhe.
- Isizathu sesibili ekuphikisana noninazala kungenzeka ukuthi sifihle ebuhlotsheni obuyinkinga, izingxabano ezingaphendululwa, izikhalazo ezinganeni kanye nokudumazeka komkhwenyana wakhe nonina. Ngenxa yalokho, ngokungazi uyadlulisela lobu buhlobo obunzima ebuhlotsheni nomamazala. Ithukusa yonke into encane ezenzweni zikamama wakhe. Naphezu kokuthi umamazala angaba ngumuntu omuhle kakhulu, kepha kulezi zimo uzokhokha ngamanye ama-akhawunti.
Isinqumo: umamazala kuleso simo kubalulekile ukuqedwa futhi hhayi ukubeka imibono mayelana nanoma yiziphi izinkinga zomndeni, kodwa ngaleyo ndlela ukuphendula izicelo, hhayi ukucela ukubonga empendulo
. - Futhi isizathu esilandelayo sokungqubuzana kufihliwe esimweni sokuthanda amandla uninazala, intshiseko yakhe yokulawula konke. Uzolile futhi uqukethe kuphela lapho wonke umuntu evuma naye futhi enza lokho akushoyo. Futhi uma umama engathandi umkhwenyana wakhe, ugxile ngokuphelele emandleni akhe ekunqobeni ukulwa nomkhwenyana wakhe kusukela ngosuku lokuqala lomshado.
Isixazululo: indlela okuwukuphela kwayo yokuqinisa umamazala ukuthi umenze abe nomuzwa wokuthi uyindoda engakwazi ukuzivikela futhi, ekugcineni, njengesibonakaliso sokubonga, uzoshiya isidleke sakho somndeni wedwa.
- Uma umamazala kuphela ekhulisa indodakazi, kungenzeka ukuthi uzokwenzela ingane yakhe impilo embi kakhulu. Futhi kulokhu, isinyathelo ngasinye somkhwenyana uzogxekwa. umamazala ufanisa nomyeni wakhe.
Isixazululo: kubalulekile ukunikeza owesifazane onesizungu umuzwa, njengokungathi unomuntu ongazizethemba, kokubili ekuphileni kwansuku zonke nasemphefumulweni wakhe.
- Ubuhlobo phakathi komamazala nomalokazana buyandisa isikhala esiphelele sokuphila
nokuphila. Okubi nakakhulu isimo uma umkhwenyana exhomeke ngokweqile kumama womakoti. Isixazululo: inketho engcono kakhulu ukuhlukanisa nomamazala wakho, uthole indawo yakho yokuphila kanye nemali oyikhokhelayo.
- Uma okwamanje, lokhu kungukuphela kwephupho, umkhwenyana uyadingeka ukuze alondoloze ubuhlobo obuhle nomamazala wakhe:
- ungakhohlwa ukusho ngokuncoma kuye;
- Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuyibiza ngokuthi umama. lokhu kunciphisa ibanga elingokwengqondo futhi kuthuthukisa ubuhlobo
- akukho futhi ngaphansi kwezimo ezingafaneleki ukugxeka uninazala njengoba kungenalusizo.