Ngeshwa, kodwa okungajwayelekile ukuthi kukhona abantu abanelisekile ngabaphathi babo. Kwezinye izimo, kumane kudingekile ukwazi ukuthi ungabeka kanjani isikhundla esiphakeme uma engalungile. Lokhu akuwona umsebenzi olula, ngoba esimweni esinjalo kubalulekile ukwazi umzila, njengoba amagama nezenzo ezingacatshangelwayo kungaholela ekuxosheni.
Indlela yokubeka ekhanda lekhanda - izifundo ze-psychology
Ngenxa yokuhlaziywa kolwazi olukhona kanye nokuhlolwa okwenziwe, kwakungenzeka ukukhomba izinhlobo eziningana zezikhulu ezithinta izinkinga eziningi. Ukwazi ukuthi yisiphi isigaba u-boss angokwalabo, ungakwazi ukunquma ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezimo ezingathandeki.
Umphathi oswelekezelayo . Kulokhu, umuntu ophethe ubuholi unikeza iziyalezo futhi ngokoqobo kudinga ukubulawa ngokushesha. Awunasithakazelo kuzizathu kanye neminye imininingwane. Izazi zengqondo zincoma ngesikhathi sesitatimende sezicelo zokubuza imibuzo ephakamisayo noma imishwana yokuqinisekisa, isibonelo, "Ngizokwenza, kodwa uchaze ukuthi" noma "Ngibhala phansi zonke izidingo futhi ngeke ngikhohlwe lutho". Lokhu kuzobhekwa njengendlela yokuhlonipha .
Boss enezinkimbinkimbi . Uma umholi engena kulolu chungechunge, kuzomele udinga ukuthi ungabeka kanjani u-boss-tyrant endaweni, ukuze ungamthukutheli ngisho nangaphezulu. Abantu abanjalo bathanda ukuhlazisa futhi baziphakamise ngokwezimali zabanye. Uma ungumsebenzi obalulekile futhi uqiniseka ngamakhono akho, khona-ke utshele umphathi ukuthi uhlela ukuhamba kwenye indawo. Ulwazi olunjalo luzokwenza inhloko ukuba icabange ngamazwi akhe futhi ingabonakali. Izenzo ezinjalo zizosiza uma kwenzeka inhloko ingenandaba.
Amathiphu wokuthi ungabeka kanjani inhloko:
- Unganaki izikhalazo kanye nezimangalo zika-boss. Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ngalesi sikhathi ukuba zimmelele esithweni esingenangqondo noma ngaphansi kwezingubo zangaphansi.
- Ukwehla kufanele kuphendulwe ngokuzithoba, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ngokuzethemba. Ezimweni eziningi lokhu kusebenza, ngoba isebenza ngokungalindelekile. Kumele umcele ukuba anciphise izwi lakhe futhi achaze konke ngokuthula.
- Ungabonisi, njengoba lokhu kungakuvumeli ukuba uthole inhlonipho futhi ulahle ukukhwabanisa.