Amaviki angu-40 ukubeletha - ukuzalwa kwesibili

Ukuze ubelethe umntwana wesibili ngesikhathi esifanele, ukuba abe ngokuqondile esontweni lama-40, abesifazane abaningi kubonakala sengathi akuyona into engokoqobo. Ngenxa yokuthi umbono womphakathi uqinile ngokuqinile emphakathini, ukuthi ukubeletha kwesibili nokulandelako kulula futhi kuyashesha, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ngaphambi kosuku oludingekayo.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukucabangela leli sitatimende liyiqiniso, nokuthi ngabe izinhlobo zesibili zingenzeka noma kungenzeka emasontweni angu-40 okukhulelwa, sizozama ukuyiqonda.

Izici zokuzalwa kwesibili

Akukwesabeki kakhulu, futhi kubonakala sengathi akulimazi kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, ngakho, ukusho "izikhathi ezingathandeki", masinyane ukhohliwe, futhi isipiliyoni esibalulekile nolwazi luhlala. Kuloluhlelo, ukuzalwa kwesibili, ngisho noma kwenzeka ngaphambi kosuku olufanele, kulula kakhulu. Ngenxa yokuthi owesifazane ulungele umcimbi ozayo, ukhumbula ukuthi yini, kanjani nokuthi kungani kufanele uyenze.

Okuqhubekayo mayelana nesikhathi. Izifo zokuzivikela-izifo zezinkinga zokubeletha ekubalweni kwe- PDR azicabangi ukuthi owesifazane ubeletha noma cha. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukukhulelwa kokuqala noma kwesibili, ngosuku lokuphela kwenyanga, amaviki angu-40 ayengeziwe. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi kukhona ukwakheka okuphelele nokuvuthwa kwezingxenye nezinhlelo zomntwana.

Ngokweqile, isikhathi sokubeletha asincike ekutheni ukukhulelwa ku-akhawunti, kokubili ukuzalwa kokuqala nokwesibili kungenzeka, njengangaphambi kwesonto lama-40, nangemva kwalokho. Nakuba, amathuba okubeletha ngaphambi kosuku olulindeleke kakhulu kakhulu kwabesifazane bezakhi zofuzo ezahlukene, ngoba esinye sezici zokubeletha kwesibili ukuthi umlomo wesibeletho usulele kakhulu futhi ugcina umntanakho ebi kakhulu.

Ezimweni eziningi, ingane yesibili izalwa lapho ilungele ngokuphelele. Uma isikhathi sokukhulelwa kwesibili sibalwa ngokunembile, umntwana uzozalwa ngeviki le-39 noma lama-40, uma kukhona amaphutha ambalwa ekubalweni noma ngezikhathi zomzimba, umhlangano othandekayo uhlehliselwa esikhathini esizayo noma ngaphambili.

Noma kunjalo, ungakhohlwa ngesici sengqondo. Omama abaningi basungulwa ngaphambi kokuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, njengomphumela - futhi kwenzeka. Kubuye kwenzeke ukuthi abesifazane bakhathele kakhulu ngenxa yesisu sabo kuzo zonke izindlela ezinokwenzeka zama ukuletha umcimbi osalindelwe isikhathi eside.

Ngokuphathelene nenqubo yenqubo eningi kakhulu: kuncishisiwe kuzo zonke izigaba ezintathu zokulethwa. Umlomo wesibeletho ulula futhi ufushane, izilonda zangaphakathi nezivela ngaphandle zivuliwe kanyekanye, ngakho-ke ukuvula okugcwele kwenzeka okukhulu kakhulu. Imizamo ikhulu kakhulu, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi umzimba wokubeletha "ukhumbula" okudingekayo kuwo. Ngenxa yalokho, isithathu, isigaba sokugcina sokuthunjwa sifike kakhulu ekuqaleni. Kuphelele, ukuzalwa kwesibili kuthatha amahora angaba ngu-8, kanti owokuqala ngo-12.