Ama-stereotypes ezimpilweni zethu kaningi abaluleke kakhulu. Enye yamaphethini ajwayelekile - umsebenzi we- nanny ungenziwa kuphela owesifazane. Eqinisweni, isimo samakhosikazi sithatha ukuba khona kwezimfanelo ezibalulekile njengokuphendula ngokomzwelo, intuition, contact contact. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, amadoda anenani elikhulu lokufaneleka, okuyizinto eziwusizo ekukhuliseni nasekufundiseni izingane: intando yeningi, ukuhamba, umsebenzi, ukukhuthazela, amandla omzimba nokucabanga kwengqondo.
Emakhulwini amaningana emindenini ehloniphekile neyenta kahle, abafundisi bamadodana baqasha abafundisi besilisa kuphela. Imisebenzi yabafundisi yayihlanganisa imisebenzi yokuqondisa izingane, ukuqaliswa koqeqesho lwabo. Ngezici eziningi ukusabalaliswa kwabafundisi besilisa kwakungenxa yezinga eliphezulu lemfundo uma kuqhathaniswa nabesifazane.
Okwamanje, kunenqubo yokubuyisela amadoda emsebenzini. Okuphawulekayo ikakhulukazi ukuthambekela kokuqasha ama-nannies abesilisa emazweni aseNtshonalanga, lapho okungaphezu kuka-4% "kwamadoda" asetshenziswa emkhakheni wemfundo ngayinye (ukuhlanganiswa kwamagama angamaNgisi - "indoda" nanyana "nanny").
Ngamaphi amacala ukhetha umfana wesilisa?
- Lapho ukhulisa ingane emndenini ongaphelele, umama ongashadile uqasha unina wesilisa ukuba akhokhele ukungabi nethonya lomuntu enganeni. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma umntwana engenawo omkhulu noma omalume abazohlanganyela ekukhulisweni. Ukumema umfundisi kumfana, umama uzama ukumnikeza indlela yokuziphatha yendoda, kanti intombazane kubalulekile ukwakha isithombe esihle salowo muntu.
- Ngokwemvelo umndeni ophelele, lapho ubaba enjengokuthi ngokusemthethweni: akusiyo ekhaya ngenxa yomsebenzi noma ezinye izizathu. Ngokukholelwa ukuthi ingane ayinayo imfundo eyanele yamadoda, abazali baqasha umfana kumuntu.
- Ngezinye izikhathi kunezimo lapho ingane iqashwa hhayi nje umfana, kodwa kusho ukuthi lo muntu uzoqinisekisa ukuvikelwa kwengane. Izimo ezinjalo ziphakama emindenini lapho kunengozi yokuthumba othile kumalungu omndeni ngenhloso yokungena noma ukufunwa kwezihlengo. Yiqiniso, kulokhu, izidingo ezikhethekile zifakwe kwi "mustached nanny" - kumele abe nelayisensi eyengeziwe yemisebenzi yokuphepha. Ngokungangabazeki, izinsizakalo zothisha onjalo zibiza kakhulu.
- Kwezinye izimo, indoda enhle njengenannyane ingcono kuphela ngoba amandla wesilisa ayadingeka. Abasebenzisi abakhubazekile abancane abancane banomkhawulo ekuhambeni. Umhlengikazi wesilisa akaqhubeki kuphela ukuqhuba inqubo yokufundisa nokufundisa, kodwa futhi wenza izenzo eziyinkimbinkimbi zokuphatha ingane, njll.
- Ngezinye izikhathi umfundisi-mema umenyiwe ukuba asebenzele isizathu esinqunyiwe ngokuphelele - umhawu wesifazane. Kwenzeka ukuthi amadrama langempela ayenzeka emndenini ngoba umlingani uzanywa ngumfana omncane. Owesifazane onokuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu, noma owesaba isimo esinjalo, kunalokho ukhethe ukukhetha ingane enomntwana ngokukhulisa ingane. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ukukhethwa komuntu wesilisa kunceda ukugwema izingxabano zomndeni.
Ngesikhathi sokuhlola, abazali abayisishiyagalolunye kwabayishumi baphendule ukuthi babheka ukuthi kuyamukeleka ukuba nenannyana njengenanny. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu abambalwa abaphendula bathi bangathanda izingane zabo zibe nomfundisi wesilisa. Abanye abathintekayo kulolu cwaningo bakholelwa ukuthi ukukhetha umntanakho wengane akufanele kusekelwe ebulili, ngoba labo abasebenzayo kubaluleke kakhulu. Mhlawumbe, umhlengikazi wesifazane unenzuzo engaphezu kwenhloso kuphela ekunakekeleni izingane ezincane kakhulu - izingane ze-thoracal kanye
Indoda-owesifazane noma indoda-indoda? Kukawe! Uma ufuna i-nanny yengane yakho, sebenzisa amasevisi e-ejenti eyaziwa kahle. Qinisekisa ukuthi ufunda izincomo ezisuka emsebenzini wakho wangaphambilini, thatha isikhathi sokukhuluma nabakhansela ngesimo sokubona i-diploma yezobuchwepheshe, ama-crusts mayelana nokuqedwa kwezifundo ezikhethekile. Buka ukuthi uthisha nomfundi ozayo bazohlangana kanjani. Izingane - into ebaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni, ngakho-ke, ukuphatha ukubonakala komuntu obalulekile empilweni yabo ngokugcwele.