Ngokumangalisa, kodwa lo mbuzo awuthandani kuphela abesifazane bokubeletha kokuqala. Ngisho noma ukukhulelwa kungowesibili noma ngisho nesithathu, ngokuvamile owesifazane usazokhathazeka. Futhi ingabe isisu sakhe asizange siphume ekuqaleni? Kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukulinda ukulethwa? Noma kungani isisu singenalo, nakuba sekuyisikhathi sokubeletha?
Kungani isisu siwela kwabesifazane abakhulelwe?
Ake siqale kancane kusuka kude. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi lesi sibeletho ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa sishintsha isimo sezitho esiswini somzimba wesifazane. Lokhu kuyinto evamile futhi, futhi, akunakugwema. Kule nkinga, isisu sowesifazane singase sibe ngaphansi kwezimbambo (okuyinto, ngendlela, imbangela yokushaya, okuyinto evame ukuhamba nabesifazane abakhulelwe). Ngaphezu kwalokho, isisu esisakhula kakhulu singacindezela emaphashini, okucindezela kakhulu ukuphefumula ekukhulelweni kwesikhathi eside. Kodwa-ke, kusukela emavikini angu-33-34 okukhulelwa, isisu singase sehlele. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ingane isendaweni ethile, ilungiselela ukubeletha, okuthiwa i-previa. Ngokuvamile, ukuhanjiswa kwezingane kuyinhloko yamakhanda (kodwa amanye akhiyiwe). Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ikhanda lomntwana liwela emphethweni wesifazane. Futhi uma ingakafiki ngqo emgodini wesisu, khona-ke emavikini okugcina okukhulelwa ikhanda livame ukuhlala ekhanda.
Ngemuva kokuba isisu sesinciphise, owesifazane okhulelwe uzizwa ekhululekile. Kwenza kube lula ukuphefumula, kungavamile ukuba ubuhlungu buhlungu. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngemuva kokuba ingane iwele ngaphakathi kwesikhumba, umthwalo ezingxenyeni zangaphakathi zowesifazane uba kancane. Futhi isisu, isibindi, isisu sithatha isikhala esishiyiwe.
Ngabe isisu sithatha nini kubesifazane abakhulelwe abakhulu?
Njengoba sekushiwo kakade, isisu singasuka phakathi kwe-trimester yesithathu. Kodwa ngokwenza, kunezimo ezihlukahlukene. Kwenzeka ukuthi isisu siwa futhi emavikini angu-29, kanti ngesikhathi esifanayo kunabesifazane abangakaze balahlekelwe isisu sabo emasontweni angama-39 okukhulelwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngezinye izikhathi odokotela baba izifakazi zeqiniso lokuthi kuze kube sekubelethweni isisu sisale endaweni yaso.
Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi isikhathi lapho isisu sesinciphisa kwabesifazane abakhulelwe ngaso sonke isikhathi asikhombisi indlela yokubeletha. Emadodeni amakhulu, isisu singase siphume kanye namaviki amane ngaphambi kokuzalwa, nezinsuku ezimbili. Futhi akunakwenzeka ukusho ukuthi ngakanani isikhathi esisele ngaphambi kokubonakala kwemvuthu ezweni, akekho ongakwazi.
Kodwa-ke, sinikeza idatha ethile yezibalo mayelana nale nqubo.
Ngokuvamile, isisu sithatha amasonto angama-36 ukhulelwe. Kodwa uma uneminyaka engu-35 kuphela (noma usuvele usu-37) ngesonto lokukhulelwa nesisu sehlile, awudingi ukwesaba. Ikakhulukazi ngoba awunakho indlela yokuthonya le nqubo.
Okulandelayo, ake sikhulume ngesilinganiso esilinganisiwe esiphelile kusukela lapho umama ewela ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kuze kube sekuzalweni ngokwaso. Isikhathi esivamile kakhulu amaviki angu-2-3. Kodwa-ke, akekho okwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uma isisu sakho sehle
Ngabe isisu sithatha nini ukukhulelwa kwesisu kwabesifazane abakhulelwe?
Futhi, sinikeza izinkomba ezilinganiselwe zezibalo. Abaningi besifazane bathi lapho bekhulelwe okwesibili, isisu sabo sehla emavikini angu-38. Futhi, ngokusho kwedatha ewusizo, ngokubeletha kwesibili nokubeletha okwengeziwe, isisu sishaya ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, futhi nokuthi ukulethwa kwenzeka ngaphambi kwamaviki angu 2-3 (ngokuvamile kungengaphezulu kwezinsuku ezingu-7).
Uyazi kanjani ukuthi isisu sakho sehla?
Kulula kakhulu. Uma isundu sakho senziwa phakathi kwamabele akho nesisu, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esicacile sokuthi isisu sakho sesivele sisehla. Futhi, ungakhohlwa ukuthi uzoba lula ukuphefumula, ukushaya kwenhliziyo kancane kuzokuzwa, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kuyoba nengcindezi eyengeziwe ekuvezweni kwesibindi nokungajabulisi ku-perineum.