Abambalwa kuphela abakwazi ukukhuluma ngokufaneleka, ngakho-ke ezimweni eziningi kunzima ukuthi abantu baqonde. Ukuze ugweme izimo ezinjalo, kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde ukwenza kahle imicabango yakho futhi, ngokufanele, ukuyiveza.
Ikhwalithi yokuxhumana yenkulumo
Igama elithi "ukukhulumisana" lisho ukuhanjiswa kolwazi kusuka kusikhulumi kumlaleli. Ukuze lo wesithathu aqonde kahle inkulumo futhi ayiqonde, kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezimele zikhulunywe ngazo izikhulumi. Kunezimfanelo ezikhethekile ezithinta kakhulu umlaleli. Masifunde kangcono.
Izimpawu eziyisisekelo zokuxhumana zokukhuluma
- Ukuqondakala kwenkulumo . Iziphakamiso kumele zihambisane. Kuvame ukubhekana nezimo lapho umuntu ehlanganyela imicabango yakhe ngesihloko esithile, kodwa bese ekhumbula enye into, abuyele kwezinye izihloko futhi aqale ukukhuluma ngento ehluke ngokuphelele. Lokhu kuziphatha kuyisibonakaliso sokunambitheka okubi. Ukuqonda kwenkulumo njengekhwalithi yokuxhumana kubonisa ukuthi kubalulekile ukuletha isiphetho esinengqondo ngesihloko esisodwa, unikeze izwi ku-interlocutor yakho, bese uqala ukuthuthukisa okwesibili.
- Ukubaluleka kokukhuluma . Njalo uma indaba itshelwa ngento ethile, umuntu kufanele acabange ukuthi kulungile yini ngalesi sikhathi. Ngeshwa, abantu abakwazi njalo ukuhlola isimo ngesikhathi. Isibonelo, umuntu angase angazi ukuthi umxhumanisi wakhe wenza kanjani ekuphileni, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uveza ukugxekwa phambi kwakhe mayelana nokusebenza kwakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, phakathi nosuku lokusebenza, akudingekile ukutshela ama-anecdotes kubalingani bakho futhi ukuphazamise. Futhi, akufanele ukhulume ngesikhathi sokusebenza. Ukubheka njengekhwalithi yokukhulumisana yokukhuluma kubonisa ukuthi kufanele uhlaziye njalo amagama akho ngaphambi kokuthi usho lutho.
- Ukuvezwa kwenkulumo . Ukuze umlaleli ahlale enesithakazelo enkulumweni yesikhulumi, kubalulekile ukusebenza ngezwi, ukubiza, ukugcizelela, njll. Ukuzindla njengekhwalithi yokukhulumisana yokukhulumisana kugcinwa ngezindlela ezikhethekile - izibalo nezindlela ezilandelanayo. Basiza ukwenza umbhalo uzwakale, unembile futhi ungakhohlwa. Umzila ukusetshenziswa kwezwi ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso, futhi isibalo sabantu abathintekayo ukuqinisa umthelela womzwelo kulabo abalaleli.
- Ukufaneleka kwenkulumo . Le nto ihlanganisa ukubizwa okulungile kwezimpawu, ukwakhiwa kwemisho eyi-grammatically, ukugcinwa kwamacala. Ukufaneleka kwenkulumo njengekhwalithi yokukhulumisana kubhalwe kulokho okuhambisana nemigomo yesikhathi sokubhala. Ukuze ukhulume kahle futhi ngokufanele, kubalulekile ukwazi kahle imithetho ye-classic yolimi lapho umuntu ekhuluma khona njalo. Kulokhu, kunezichazamazwi, iziqondiso zolimi kanye nezinsiza ezihlukahlukene zokufundisa.
- Ingcebo yokukhuluma . Amazwi angaphezu komuntu angasebenza kuwo, kuzokuba lula ngaye ukuveza imicabango yakhe. Lokhu akusho ukuthi inkulumo kufanele igcwaliswe ngamazwi anzima futhi alula. Ukuze ufunde indlela yokuveza imicabango yakho ngokunembile, udinga ukufunda ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani ama-synonyms. Ngeke kube yinqaba futhi isifiso sokufunda izincwadi eziningi zohlobo lobuciko - amagama afanele azohlehliswa ngokwawo futhi akudingeki ukuba azikhanda ngekhanda. Ukunethezeka kwenkulumo, njengekhwalithi yayo yokuxhumana, kuzosiza ukufunda kahle futhi ngokuphumelelayo ukwenza imisho futhi ixoxe nabanye.
- Ukuhlanzeka kwenkulumo . Kunconywa ukubhala ingxoxo yakho nomunye umuntu kumrekhoda, bese uhlaziya imiphumela. Enkulumweni akufanele kube khona amagama, amazwi kanye namazwi aphikisayo. Kufanele uyikhulule kunoma yiliphi izakhi ezicolisayo, lalela, njengabantu abafundela nokubhala, bese uzama ukuxhumana okuningi nabo. Ukungcola kwenkulumo njengekhwalithi yokuxhumana kuzokusiza ukuba ufunde ukuba nabantu abanakho futhi uthole ngokushesha ulimi olufanayo nabo.
Izimfanelo zokukhulumisana zizosiza ukuhlela ukuxhumana nokukwenza kube ngempumelelo kakhulu. Ngalokhu kudingekile kuphela ukwenza zonke izimfanelo.