Kusukela empilweni yokuzala ekukhuleni, impilo ezayo egcwele yezingane zethu incike kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ngesikhathi esiphawulayo futhi ephulukisa inkinga iyoyiphatha izinkinga ngokubeletha lapho esemdala.
Futhi ukuvikeleka kwempilo yokuzala kwentsha kufanele kuqale ngokuvikelwa kwempilo yabantwana besikole ngisho nezingane ezincane. Okokuqala, ukunakekela impilo yokuzala yezingane nentsha ilala nabazali babo.
Asikho isidingo sokulinda iminyaka ethile, isibonelo, iminyaka engu-14, ukukhombisa indodakazi yakho kumgogeni wezinzwa noma ukuthembela esikoleni somzimba. Kubalulekile ukuqala ukunakekelwa kwezempilo ohlelweni lokuzala lwezingane kusukela ekuzalweni.
Impilo yokuzala yentombazane, okokuqala, ukuhlanzeka okunempilo kwezitho zocansi. Nokho, lokhu kusebenza kubafana. Uma kukhona ukusola kokuvuvukala, kufanele uxhumane ngokushesha nochwepheshe - udokotela ohlinzayo nodokotela wezifo zezingane.
Lapho inzalo efanayo yamantombazane enyanga yokuqala, kufanele ilungele lokhu. Zama ukufundisa izingane zakho ukuze zinganqikazi ukuxhumana nawe kunoma iyiphi inkinga. Ngoba kuphawula ukuthi cishe zonke izintombi ezintathu kusukela ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa zihambisana nokuya esikhathini ngokungavamile nezinye izinkinga ezihambisana nazo. Kodwa ngenxa yokwenza amahloni, akakhulumi ngalokhu ngunina futhi udonsela le nkinga enganeni, bese efika esikhathini esikudala sempilo yakhe. Futhi kuba isizathu sokubunzima okuhlukahlukene kwezinkinga, kuze kube yilapho kungabi nabantwana lapho beba khona.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubheka izingane zabo emthelela wokubhema nokuphuza utshwala ekunakekeni kwezempilo. Sidinga ukuchaza ngendlela efinyelelekayo futhi ngaphandle kokucindezela indodana noma indodakazi yethu ukuthi ugwayi nobungozi obuyingozi kangakanani, yeka indlela ezilimaza ngayo lezi zimkhuba ezilimazayo ezithinta impilo yezocansi nokuzalwa kwezingane ezinempilo.
Yiqiniso, ekukhuleni kunzima kakhulu ukugcina igunya lakho njengomzali, kodwa kuzomele uzame, ngoba abazukulu bakho basengozini.