Izibonakaliso abantu baphathwa ngokuhlukile. Omunye uthi lokhu kuyingqayizivele futhi akukho nhlobo kulokhu, kanti abanye baqinisekisa ukuthi izinkolelo-ze kukhona ulwazi lwabazali, okuphambene nalokho, bebelokhu beqinisekisa amandla abo iminyaka eminingi. Ngokuvamile, wonke umuntu unelungelo lombono wakhe, kodwa ulwazi mayelana nezibonakaliso zokuchaza ukuthi kungani indlebe yesokunxele ibethayo kuyoba, okungenani, ezithakazelisayo.
Okokuqala, ngingathanda ukusho ukuthi uma ukuhlaselwa kungaqhubeki isikhathi eside, kubalulekile ukubona udokotela, njengoba imbangela ingase ibe ukuthuthukiswa kwesinye isifo. Ngokuvamile lokhu kungumphumela wokuba nesamba esikhulu sesulfure noma kungase kube uphawu lwe-otitis.
Indlebe engakwesokunxele iyayishaya ini?
Ngokuvamile isibonakaliso esinjalo sisho ukuthi kuvele ukuphikisana okukhulu, futhi iphutha lizoba yilokho kuphela. Futhi ukugwema lokhu ngeke kusebenze. Kunezincazelo eziningi ezihlukene zale nkolelo-ze:
- Ukubheka kwendlebe engakwesokunxele kungaba yinto ephathekayo yezindaba ezimbi, okuzoba okungenani noma okuncane okuhlobene nendawo yomuntu siqu nomsebenzi. Enye incazelo - inkolelo-ze ingathinta wena kuphela, kodwa nezihlobo eziseduze.
- Isibonakaliso, uma sigxila ngaphakathi endlebeni, yisixwayiso ukuthi esikhathini esizayo uzodinga ukuzwa ukulahlwa esiqondisweni sakho. Kubalulekile ukuthi amagama angajwayelekile azokwaziswa ngabantu abangabazi.
- Ngokweminye imibono evamile, isibonakaliso sokuthi sishaya endlebeni yesokunxele sixwayisa ngengozi yokuba yisisulu sokuhleba nokuhleka. Kunconywa ukuba uhlolisise abantu abakuzungezile.
- Kukhona nolwazi lokuthi isibonakaliso, uma sisitshela i-lobe senzendlebe yesokunxele, sisho ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze omunye umuntu ovela kubangani kulindeleke ukuba azalise emndenini.
- Phakathi kwabantu, kukholelwa kakhulu ukuthi indlebe yesokunxele izwa ukulwa. Ukuthungwa okukhulu kungagwenywa, kodwa kuzoba khona ukuhlazeka okukhulu.
- Ezikhathini zasendulo, abantu basebenzisa isibonakaliso sokuthi i-earlobe ihlungiwe ukuze inqume ukushintsha kwesimo sezulu. Ngokuvame ukwedlula ukushaywa kwakufanekisela ukufika kwemvula yezivunguvungu. Uma indlebe inzima kumuntu ozelwe entwasahlobo noma ehlobo, khona-ke ukukhuphuka kokushisa kulindeleke. Ukuvuthwa kwavela kubantu abazalwa ngenkathi ebandayo, ngakho maduze kuzoshisa.
Kukhona nencazelo echazayo, hhayi ukuthi kungani indlebe ihlungiwe ngaphakathi, nokuthi kungani kubonakala sengathi iyashisa. Kulokhu, lokhu kusho ukuthi okwamanje omunye ukhuluma ngawe, futhi lokhu kungase kube okude noma okungekho ngaphandle. Uma indlebe yesokunxele ivutha, kusho ukuthi basho amanga, ukuze bawuveze ekukhanyeni okungathandeki.
Ezinye izimpawu ezihambisana nezindlebe
Abantu abaningi babhekene neqiniso lokuthi bezwa ukukhala ezindlebeni zabo. Okhokho bethu bakholelwa ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi izingelosi zitshela uNkulunkulu, ngesono esenziwe. Kubalulekile ukwenza isifiso bese ucela omunye umuntu ukuqagela ukuthi yikuphi ukukhala okuzwakalayo. Uma impendulo ilungile futhi umsindo usuka, khona-ke inselele izogcwaliseka ngokuqinisekile. Ezikhathini zasendulo, abantu basebenzise isibonakaliso sokukhala ezindlebeni zokuthola isimo sezulu. Uma lokhu kwenzeka ebusika, ulinde ukufudumala, futhi uma ehlobo, isimo sezulu sizoqhubeka sibi kakhulu.
Mayelana nomuntu ongafunda okuningi ngokuma kwezindlebe zakho:
- Uma zikhulu, umnikazi wazo angakwazi ukufeza okuningi ekuphileni.
- Izinzwa zesayizi encane zibonisa ukulinganiselwa komuntu.
- Ifomu elicacile libonisa ukuthi kukhona ukuhlukumezeka nenkani.
- Long lobe ukhuluma ngokuhlakanipha nangokomoya.
- Uma lobe igobile, umnikazi wayo unenhlanhla empilweni.
- Abanikazi bezindlebe, lapho ingxenye engenhla ingaphezulu kwezinga le-eyebrow, ingqondo.
- Uma ingxenye engenhla ingafinyeleli ezingeni leso, khona-ke lowo muntu uhlalisana.