Mhlawumbe, wonke umama wesikhathi esizayo, ehlala endaweni ethakazelisayo, amaphupho ukuthi emva kokuzalwa kwengane ngokuqinisekile kuzomondla ngesifuba. Ngempela, isifiso esinjalo somama siphakamisa isizathu. Ngempela, okokuqala, ukubaluleka nokubaluleka kobisi lwebele ngesilwane esincane akukwazi ukugcizelela kakhulu, okwesibili, kuyinto elula kakhulu, futhi okwesithathu, akusho ukushaya isabelomali semindeni, njengokuthi, ukuthengwa kwemikhiqizo ebiza ngokudla okunomsoco. Yiqiniso, ezimweni eziningi, isimo sengqondo sokuncelisa emva kokubeletha senza umsebenzi wakhe, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ayiphuzi kahle noma ekugcineni iyayenqaba ngokuphelele. Umngane osanda kumama uqala ukulahlekelwa ithemba lokuthi "amathuba" akhe. Wabe esebenzisa ezinye izindlela zokudla imvuthuluka, ngisho nangaphandle kokuqaphela ukuthi ngaleyo ndlela wayenqabela ukudla okuhle. Ukuze ulungise lesi simo esinzima ngenzuzo yomntwana, udinga nje ukuthola amandla nokubekezela. Futhi indlela yokufundisa ingane ukuba isifuba, sizokutshela esihlokweni sethu.
Kungani ingane ingafuni ukuncelisa?
Izizathu zokuthi umntwana olambile olambile uqala ukuncelisa, futhi ngokushesha uphonsa isifuba kungaba:
- ukunganaki ngokomzimba (okumanzi, okushisayo, njll);
- impilo embi (izinga eliphezulu lomkhuhlane, stomatitis (thrush), njll);
- i-colic;
- ukusetshenziswa kabi, okuholela ekutheni kungabonakali;
- ukuguqulwa kokunambitheka ubisi lwebele ngenxa yokudla okudliwa ngumama nge ukunambitheka "okukhazimulayo" (izinongo, u-garlic, anyanisi, i-lemon) noma mayelana nokuqala kokuya esikhathini (ngalesi sikhathi, ukunambitheka nokubunjwa ubisi kushintshe ngaphansi kwethonya lamahomoni);
- izici ze-anatomical ze-crumb (i-frenum emfishane) noma umama oncelisayo (amancane amakhulu, amancane noma aphethwe ama-nipples);
- shintsha iphunga lomzimba womama ngokusebenzisa i-perfume noma i-deodorant (ingane ayikwazi "ukuhogela" iphunga lomdabu futhi ivuse ngenxa yalokhu);
- Ukuzijwayeza kwasekuseni nebhodlela (ngokwesibonelo, ngenxa yokugula komntwana noma umama, ingane isondliwe ngenhlanganisela ebhodleleni.) Ukususa kuye kulula kakhulu kunalokho kusuka ebileni, ngakho isikhathi esiningi ingane iqala ubuvila futhi iyakwenqaba ngokuyinhloko);
- inzalo ezweni elibazungezile (lokhu kuvame ukukwenzeka uma ingane ineminyaka engu-3-4 ubudala Uma unikeza ingane ithuba lokubheka okwenzekayo, ngaphambi kokulala uzojabulela "ukunambitheka" kwayo. Ukudla kulokhu kungathatha imizuzu engu-20-40).
Uma zonke lezi zizathu ziqedwa noma zingabanjwanga, imizamo yokondla ingane elele noma ephumelekile ayiphumelelanga, i-whims futhi ihlanganisa "ngaphansi kwesifuba" iyaqhubeka, cishe, umbuzo wokuba "isimo sokuvalwa". Ngakho i-crumb inikeza izibonakaliso ukuthi udinga ukushintsha okuthile empilweni yakhe. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi yini engafaneleki nokuthi ingane ifundiswa kanjani ukubeletha, kubalulekile ukuhlaziya ukuziphatha kwakhe ngokuhlanganyela nonina emini.
Yisebenzelana nezimbungulu noma ukuthi ungamthola kanjani ingane ukuze uncelise isifuba?
Kunconywa, isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuba ungene esitheni sokuncelisa - ibhodlela. Ukondla ingane ngokuboniswa ubisi lwebele noma isithako (ingxube) kungcono kusuka ku-spoon, indebe, isirinji. Uma kungenjalo, ukulula ukuthola "ukudla" ebhodleleni kunganciphisa kabi amathuba okubuyela ebelethweni.
Uma usebenzisa i-soother ukuzola, kuze kube yilapho kujwayelekile ukubeletha, kancane kancane kudinga ukususwa empilweni yomntwana. Ukunciphisa kuyadingeka ngezinye izindlela (ukugqoka izingalo (ku-sling), ukugwedla kwi-fitball). Kudingekile ukuzama, ukuthi ngemuva kokuba ingane ithule kancane kancane, impela ifake isifuba sayo emlonyeni. Kubalulekile, ukuba ube nesineke, hhayi ukumphoqa ukuba adle ngamandla.
Ngokushesha ukujwayela isifuba kusiza umama nengane egcwele nxazonke. Ngemuva kokulahla wonke amacala, umama kufanele asebenze kuphela nezingane izinsuku ezimbalwa. Ukuba khona kwezinye izihlobo akuvumelekile. Ukuthintana "isikhumba ukukhumba," ukulala okuhlangene, ukusabela kuzo zonke izivunguvungu ephusheni ngesiphakamiso sesifuba, iphunga lomzimba womama - konke lokhu kuzokwenza maduzane kusize ingane ukuba iqonde ukuthi umama uyamthanda, futhi amabele "amnandi" alula futhi athembeke kalula.
Khumbula ukuthi ukubekezela kanye nomsebenzi kuzokwenza wonke peretrut, futhi ngomsebenzi wabo maduzane uzothola umvuzo onomntwana ozolile, ophethwe kahle futhi onempilo, ethanda ngokuzondla ngaphansi kwesifuba sakho.