Yebo, lokhu kuhlolwa okufanayo uPenny noSheldon abahamba ngayo!
I-columnist efundeka kakhulu "I-New Yorks Time", uCarrie Bradshaw wezinsuku zethu - uMandy Len Katron ngenkathi ebhala inkulumo ethi "uthando lomunye umuntu, yenzeni manje" wayenesithakazelo ekuvivinyeni okuyingqayizivele kukaDkt. Arthur Aron, udokotela wezokwelapha, owawubanjwe eminyakeni engu-20 eyedlule. Khona-ke usosayensi, ozinikezele umsebenzi wakhe ekutadisheni ubudlelwane obusondelene nabangamazi amabili, wabonisa ukuthi ukuthandana nomuntu (ngisho kuze kube manje ongajwayelekile) noma ukuvusa imizwa ephilile, ungaphendula imibuzo engu-36 kuphela, emva kwalokho kufanele ubheke amehlo omlingani wakho imizuzu engu-4!
Imiphumela ekuhlolweni kokuqala kwebhulariki yayinempumelelo engakaze ibe khona, futhi iya kubantu. Eqinisweni, "izingulube" zokuqala, azizange zihlangane ngalolu suku, emva kwezinyanga ezingu-6 zamema abasebenzi be-laboratory emcimbini womshado! Futhi ngisho nangokwengeziwe - izindaba zothando zothando zomshado eziye zabhekana nalolu daba olunzima olubizwa ngokuthi "Ukuhlukunyezwa komunye nomuntu kuyasondelana" kwakwanele ukubhala yonke incwadi! Njengoba uqagele, u-Miss Katron hhayi kuphela ngenxa yezizathu zomsebenzi wanquma ukubuyela ekulalelweni lemibuzo ebalulekile - impilo yakhe yabuye yaxazulula ngendlela emangalisayo ...
Ulungele ushintsho oluhle? Bese ulungele ukuphendula amaqembu amathathu emibuzo, phakathi kokuthi ungayeka nini, bese-lungisa imibono yakho hhayi ku-3 noma ku-5, kodwa impela imizuzu engu-4!
- Ungamema noma yimuphi umuntu emhlabeni ukuba adle nawe, ngakho-ke ubani ozoyikhetha?
- Ingabe ufuna ukuduma? Uma kunjalo, kunjani?
- Uma uhlose ukwenza ucingo, upheqa ekhanda lakho mayelana nokuthi uzokhuluma ngani?
- Usuku lwakho olungcono / oluhle kufanele luhambe kanjani?
- Khumbula isikhathi sokugcina owacula uqobo? Futhi enkampanini?
- Uma usuzalwa ngosuku lwama-30 ufunde ukuthi uzophila ube neminyaka engu-90 ubudala, kodwa ungagcina ingqondo noma umzimba iminyaka engama-60 ezayo, ke ungathanda ukuthini?
- Futhi ngokujulile enhliziyweni yakho, ingabe ucabanga ukuthi uzoshiya kanjani ukuphila kwakho?
- Futhi yiziphi izinto ezintathu noma izimfanelo ezihlanganisa nawe nomlingani? (noma kungenzeka).
- Kulokho, kwenzekeni empilweni, ungasho amazwi ayishumi okubonga?
- Iziphi izinguquko ozenze ekukhuliseni kwakho?
- Unemizuzwana engama-240 kuphela, okumele utshele umlingani wakho ngempilo yakho ngemininingwane encane kakhulu. Isikhathi siphelile ...
- Futhi kuthiwani uma ekuseni ngosuku olulandelayo ungakwazi ukuthola ikhwalithi noma ikhono elisha? Ukhetha ukuthini?
- Ngaphambi kwakho i-crystal ball enokwethenjelwa kakhulu, engeyona iphutha ekubikezeleni impilo yesikhathi esizayo futhi izotshela iqiniso lonke. Ulungele ukuthola?
- Yini oye waphupha ngayo isikhathi eside? Yiziphi izizathu zokuthi kungani ungazange uqaphele amaphupho akho?
- Futhi yimiphi impumelelo yakho yomhlaba wonke empilweni?
- Yiziphi izimfanelo zabangane ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe?
- Sitshele ngezinkumbulo ezivela enhliziyweni kakhulu?
- Futhi yiyiphi inkumbulo eyingozi kunazo zonke?
- Kuthiwani uma impilo yakho iphetha kulo nyaka? Yini oyishintsha kuyo manje futhi ngani?
- Yini ongayisho ngobungane?
- Uthando nokuthandana - yini ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe?
- Nika umlingani ithuba lokushintshanisa okunye futhi ohlwini lwamakheli ama-positive ayisihlanu omunye nomunye.
- Futhi ubuntwana bakho bubonakala bujabule kakhulu kunabanye?
- Futhi ungasitshela ngani ngobuhlobo bakho nomama wakho?
- Yenza izitatimende ezintathu ezihlangene ezikuhlanganisayo ngalesi sikhathi, njengokuthi "Manje sesizwa ..."
- Futhi ugcwalisa kanjani inkulumo - "Ngiyaphupha ngokuba nomuntu engingabelana naye ..."?
- Uma ukubambisana kubalulekile kuwe, ngabe umlingani kumele azi ngowe ...?
- Tshela lo mlingani ngalokho okuthandayo kuye, kodwa thatha amagama ongawasho kumfokazi.
- Futhi yimuphi umzuzu onzima ongatshela umlingani wakho ngakho?
- Izinyembezi zibona abanye futhi zodwa - uke wazizwa nini le mizwelo ngesikhathi sokugcina?
- Futhi uthanda ngani ngomlingani wakho manje?
- Futhi kuthiwani ngawe ngeke ube yisizathu samahlaya?
- Uma impilo yakho iphela kulobu busuku, yimaphi amagama abalulekile futhi ungenayo isikhathi sokuthi ungubani?
- Ekhaya lakho umlilo, kodwa wakwazi ukusindisa abathandekayo bakho nezilwane ezifuywayo. Ukuze ulondoloze yini ozoyigijimela ekugcineni ukuphepha okuphephile?
- Ukulahlekelwa yimuphi ilungu lomndeni kukukhathaza kakhulu?
- Tshela umngane wakho mayelana nenkinga yakho bese ucela iseluleko. Kufanele futhi uthole ukuthi ucabangani ngokubaluleka kwenkinga yakho?
Futhi ungakhohlwa ngeminwe engu-4-iso!