Ingane eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala

Abazali abasha bayaqaphela ngokucophelela zonke izinguquko ezenzeka nengane yabo esanda kuzalwa. Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa, cishe zonke izikhathi zokulala, kodwa esikhathini esizayo umbuso wabo wokuphila uzishintsha kakhulu. Ukubaluleka kwesikhathi sokulala komntwana kunciphisa ngenyanga ngayinye, futhi isikhathi sokuvuka, ngokulandelana, ukwanda.

Ngaphansi kwethonya lesithakazelo semvelo kubantu abakuzungezile kanye nezihloko uhlale enolwazi olusha namakhono, futhi amakhono awaziwa ngaphambilini athuthukiswa. Izinguquko ezinjalo ezisheshayo zibaluleke kakhulu ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwengane. Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi kwenzekani kumntwana oneminyaka engu-11 ubudala, nokuthi uyayithuthukisa kanjani kahle ukuhambisana neontanga.

Yini ingane engayithola ezinyangeni ezingu-11?

Yiqiniso, umzimba womntwana ngamunye ungumuntu ngamunye futhi ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kuncike ezintweni eziningi. Isibonelo, amantombazane ezimweni eziningi ahamba phambili kubafana ekukhulumeni inkulumo namanye amakhono, kanti izinsana ezizalwa ezinyangeni eziningana kusengaphambili zigcwele ngokugcwele ngemuva kweontanga futhi zikwazi amakhono athile ngemuva kwesikhathi esingaphansi kwabanye.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kunezimo ezikhethekile ukuthi odokotela nabazali bangazihlola ngokuphikisana kangakanani izinga lokuthuthukiswa kwemvuthu. Ngakho-ke, ingane eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala inamakhono alandelayo:

• uyakwazi ukubiza amagama amaningi awaziyo, isibonelo, "ubaba", "umama", "owesifazane" futhi "unike". Isikhathi esiningi esebenzisa inhlanganisela enjengokuthi "av-av", "co-ko", "bi-bi", esekude namagama asetshenziswa abantu abadala, noma kunjalo, ingane nezihlobo zakhe sebeziqonde ngokuphelele ukuthi nguye ufuna ukuveza inkulumo yakhe;
• uqonda inkulumo yabantu abadala, angenza imisebenzi elula;
• ihamba kahle, ihamba kalula ehamba ngezinyawo, ihamba, ibambe isandla somuntu omdala noma isigcawu;
• ngokungazelelwe inquma izinhloso zezinto ezilula zendlu;
• ephendula ngokwanele ukudumisa nokuvunywa, ukumamatheka ngokuphendula isikhuthazo;
• ukuphakamisa isibambo esithi "Sawubona!" nethi "Bye!", usebenzisa ezinye izenzo, isibonelo, ugoqa ikhanda lakhe ngezindlela ezihlukile njengophawu lokungavumelani.

Umbuso wengane yengane ezinyangeni ezingu-11

Ukuthi ingane enanoma iyiphi indala ingakhula ngokugcwele, idinga umbuso ohleliwe kahle wosuku. Okokuqala, iningi labesifazane banesithakazelo embuzweni wokuthi ingane kufanele ilale kangakanani ezinyangeni ezingu-11. Yiqiniso, ayikho impendulo engacacile kulo mbuzo, ngoba umntwana ngamunye unesidingo sakhe siqu, kodwa ngokwesilinganiso, ubuthongo obusuku zonke bendodana eneminyaka eyishumi nanye ubudala lunamahora angu-13.

Kulawa mahora angu-9-10 umntwana kufanele alale ebusuku, kanti isikhathi esisele sihlukaniswe ngamahora amabili okuphumula amahora angu-1,5-2 ngamunye.

Qaphela ukuthi izikhathi zokuvuka kwakho azihlali ngaphezu kwamahora angu-3.5-4. Ingane kulesi sikhathi ayisaqapheli ukuthi ufuna ukulala, futhi ayihambisani naye, ngakho-ke kufanele umsize kulokhu. Uma ulahlekelwa umzuzu ofanele, ukubeka ingane ukulala kuyoba nzima nakakhulu.

Ukuthuthukisa imidlalo yezingane izinyanga ezingu-11

Ngomntwana oneminyaka engu-11, zonke izinto ezizungezile yizinto zokudlala ezimele zithinteke, zihlolwe kuzo zonke izinhlangothi futhi kufanele zihlolwe "ngezinyo". Kulokhu akukho lutho olwesabekayo, ngoba ngaleyondlela i-kid iqonda umhlaba futhi ijwayele isikhala esiseduze.

Akufanele uvimbele imvuthu ukuba idonsa lapho ifuna khona, futhi uthathe lezo zinto ezithandayo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, udinga ukuqinisekisa ukuphepha okuphezulu kwengane yakho. Futhi, qiniseka ukuthenga indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho yamathoyizi ezemfundo-amaphiramidi kanye nabasollywood. Lezi zinto ezikhanyayo ngokuqinisekile zizobheka ukunqwabelana kwemvuthuluka futhi, ngaphandle kwalokho, kuyoba nomthelela ekwakhiweni kwamakhono amakhono amakhono ezandla.

Ekugcineni, nengane ezinyangeni ezingu-11 ungadlala imidlalo elandelayo:

1. "Ubani oshilo lokho?" Bonisa imifanekiso ecacile ebonisa izilwane ezidumile bese ubonisa ukuthi lezi zilwane ezincane "zikhuluma" kanjani. Ngokushesha ingane iqala ukuphinda ngemuva kwakho umsindo ohlekisayo olingisa inkulumo yezilwane.
2. "Amanzi-Vodichka." Lo mdlalo udlalwa kakhulu ngesikhathi sokugeza. Tshala ingane yakho ekugezeni, uthele amanzi esikhwameni sakhe bese unikeza izimbiza ezimbalwa noma amabhodlela enomphimbo omkhulu. I-kid izojabula ukushayela emanzini bese ithululela kusuka kwesitsha esisodwa kuya kwesinye.