Eminyakeni yamuva nje, abazali abacishe bebancane bacabanga ngokuhlanganyela esontweni yengane yabo, kodwa abaningi bayazi ukuthi bazobhapathiza nini usana, futhi yimiphi imithetho eyisisekelo okufanele ibonwe. Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuthi lokhu kuyintando engcwele, futhi akuhloswe nje ekuvikeleni umntwana, kodwa futhi kuhloswe ekubandakanyeni ingane esontweni, i-Orthodoxy. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthatha ngokujulile futhi ulungiselele kusengaphambili isakramente.
Ukulungiselela
Uma usuqumile ethempelini, khuluma nompristi wendawo kusengaphambili ngamaphuzu aphambili esenzo esingcwele. Uzokutshela uma kungcono ukubhapathiza usana olusha, ukuthi yini ongayigqoka nokuthi yini ongayiletha naye, uzokutshela mayelana nenqubo uqobo kanye nemibandela yayo. Njengomthetho, abefundisi bayelulekwa ukuba benze lo mkhosi ngosuku lwama-40 emva kokuzalwa komntwana, ngoba emva kwalesi sikhathi unina angakwazi ukuvakashela ithempeli: ngaphambi kwakhe kubhekwa njengokungcola, futhi uvunyelwe ukuhlanganyela ezinsizeni zikaNkulunkulu. Isakramente sokubhapathizwa ingasetshenziswa kamuva, kodwa kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ingane encane, kuyoba lula ukudlulisela umkhosi wesonto: okokuqala, kuyoba lula kakhulu ukuthi umuntu angabambeki ngezandla ngenxa yesisindo esiphansi, futhi, okwesibini, izinsana, njengomthetho , ulale futhi uhambe ngokuzithandela kubantu "abangajwayelekile" ezandleni zabo. Abazali abaningi bazibuza: kungenzeka yini ukubhapathiza ingane ngoBhapathizo noma uKhisimusi? Ngokuvamile abapristi benza lo mkhosi ngamaholide, kodwa kufanele kuphawulwe ngesikhathi esisodwa ukuthi kuyoba khona abantu abaningi ethempelini ngalolu suku, ngakho cabangela lesi sinqumo kahle. Futhi uma ingane yakho iphinde iphumule futhi ivame ukukhala, kungcono ukukhetha olunye usuku.
Amaphuzu abalulekile
Ngosuku lokubhapathizwa ethempelini kudingeka uvele kusengaphambili ukuthi udlulisele emadokhumenti wengane, ukhokhela abefundisi, futhi uthenge amakhandlela. Izingane kufanele zigqoke izingubo ezintsha ezintsha, ngoba amantombazane angakhohlwa ukuthatha isikhwama. Izinsana ezisanda kuzalwa ngokuvamile zigcinwa esithombeni esifanayo, kodwa uma umntwana ebhapathizwa ebusika, ungambunga ingane endizeni noma ithawula. Nakuba amakholwa eqiniso egcina ukuthi ethempelini ingane ivikelwe kuyo yonke into ngamandla aphezulu, kubandakanya amakhaza nabanda. Abantu abadala kufanele baphinde bagqoke ngokufanelekile: abesifazane besigqoko kanye nemigqomo, nabesilisa abangenayo i-headdress.
Ngokubalulekile udinga ukuthatha kuphela usuku lokuzikhethela ngalo lapho udinga ukubhapathiza usana olusanda kuzalwa, kodwa futhi nokuqokwa kwama-godparents for the baby. Laba bantu bayothwala umthwalo omkhulu wokukhuliswa kwengane ngokomoya. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi omazi bomama kufanele babe neminyaka engaphezu kwengu-12 ubudala, futhi kungenjalo kungashadile. Laba bantu, manje abaseduze nomntwana, bathengele isiphambano neshembe kuye, okusho ukuthi, ngemuva komkhosi, kugcinwa kahle ekhaya futhi, uma kwenzeka isifo sezinhlanzi, kusetshenziswe kuye, ukuze kunciphise ukuhlupheka kwakhe.
Lapho ebhapathiziwe, umntwana unikezwa igama loNgcwele, ogama lakhe ligujwa, futhi uba ngumvikeli wasezulwini wengane. Kodwa kaningi umfundisi ukhetha enyangeni yenyanga inkumbulo yalowo oNgcwele, ogama lakhe egqoka igama elifanayo elinikezwa abazali. Uma igama, elibizwa ngokuthi ingane, lingekho kwabangcwele, khona-ke lapho ubhapathizwa umpristi ukhetha igama eliseduze nomsindo. Ngakho-ke, kubhekwa njengezinhle zokubhapathizwa kwengane kanye nezinsuku zengelosi.
Amasiko namasiko
Ngaphezu kwemithetho yesonto eyisisekelo, kunamasiko asekelwa abantu iminyaka eminingi. Ngosuku lokubhapathizwa kwengane, abazali bavame ukuhlela isidlo sakusihlwa, lapho abantu abasondelene kuphela abamenywa khona. Enye yezimfanelo zabantu abalungile uma ingane ikhala ngesikhathi sokubhapathizwa, futhi kubi - uma ithulula. Kodwa ngokujwayelekile abefundisi abasikeli i-aura yenkolelo-ze futhi bayayamukela, eyenziwe ngabantu abaseduze nalesi sakramente. Ngakho inkolelo yokuthi akunakwenzeka ukubhapathiza ingane ngonyaka we-leap uye wabashiya ngempumelelo. Abantu base-Orthodox abakhona izinkolelo-ze.
Okokugcina, ngifuna ukukukhumbuza ukubaluleka kwalesi senzakalo empilweni yomntwana nabazali bakhe, ngakho-ke udinga ukuwuthatha ngokungathí sina kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo.