Ngokuqinisekile, ukubukeka yinto yokuqala abantu abanake ngayo. Kodwa wamthanda, wakumema ngosuku lokuqala, futhi kukhona into eyenza umkhwenyana ongakwazi ukulahlekelwa isifiso sokukubona futhi.
Ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ubuhle besifazane - akuwona obaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukisweni kokuqala kobuhlobo bomshado? Konke kuncike ekutheni usuku lokuqala ludlula. Ukulandela imiyalo elula, wena, ngisho nokuba yindlovukazi enhle, kalula futhi ukhululekile yenza kube okugcina. Nakhu okudingeka ukwenze.
1. Zizenzele emthini Wonyaka Omusha kanye nefektri ekukhiqizeni amafutha.
Uma uhlangana, uzoba neminithi elingu-1 ukudala umbono wokuqala. Okungenani, ngakho uthi izazi zengqondo. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukuzama ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Ngumuphi umfanekiso ongahlukanisa indoda? Kunezinketho ezimbili: izingubo ezivuthiwe nezingubo ezivulekile ezinezikhwama ezingaphezulu nezikhwama zama-boyish "ukunqwabelana" kuqedile nge-jeans. Esikhathini sokuqala, kunconywa ukugqoka i-ultra-short dress nge paillettes kanye ne-neckline ejulile, ukugqoka zonke izindandatho. Inketho yesibili ihlanganisa i jeans shabby kanye enkulu ubukhulu blouse. Ngokunambitheka, futhi, konke kulula: isigamu ibhodlela lanoma yiliphi iphunga noma iphunga lokujuluka lizokwenza umqondo oyingqayizivele.
2. Kuphelile nje ihora.
Ngokuvamile, kuvamile ukuba owesifazane aphuze imizuzu engu-10-15. Kodwa asifuni ukudala umbono wesifazane.
3. Dweba isisindo sobukhulu obungathí sina noma ukudabuka kwendawo yonke.
Uma umlindi okhuthazelayo ulinda futhi engaphunyuki emininini yokuqala yomhlangano (mhlawumbe unomsebenzi onombono, ukunambitheka noma iphunga, noma usenomdla), akusikho konke okulahlekile. Ithuba lokukhulisa lesi simo ithoni yebhizinisi, idluliselwe ebhuloho leshiya kanye nokudabuka okukhulu emehlweni. Konke lokhu kuzokwenza kucace kumuntu ukuthi awutholakali futhi uyangceka, futhi kungcono ukungathintani nawe.
4. Qala ukukhuluma ngenkuthalo mayelana nokuvuselela izijovo ze-hyaluronic acid noma izincwadi zeCoelho, uma i-interlocutor inesithakazelo kuye, isibonelo, i-motorsport iphinde ifunde uPelevin.
Ngisho noma ngabe ukwazi ukubuza ukuthi yini eyithandayo (kwakuyiphutha elikhulu nakakhulu!), Zama ukulungisa iphutha ngezindaba zakho ngokuthile okwehlukile.
5. Buza imibuzo eyikhulu mayelana nokuthi ngubani abazali bakhe, ukuthi ufunda kuphi nokuthi ufunde kanjani, ukuthi uthola kangakanani, ukuthi uyayithanda yini nokuthi kungani ehlukumeza.
Khumbula ukuthi abaphenyi baziphathe kanjani kumafilimu: babuza umbuzo ngombuzo, bangavumeli ummangali abe engqondweni yabo. Ukubuza imibuzo yakho ye-cavalier, ungakhohlwa ukugoqa ngokuphindaphindiwe futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe ubuze mayelana nomholo wakhe.
6. Yonke indlela yakho yokubonisa lokho okushiwo umlingani, awunaso sonke isithakazelo.
Zama ukuyiphazamisa emgqeni ngamunye, phakathi nomhlangano wonke ubheke efonini, uhambelane nomunye nomunye imizuzu engu-10 ubuke iwashi. Lena enye ingxoxo yengxoxo uma ngabe ingxoxo ingabe yengeze futhi umxhumanisi uvikela izimpendulo.
7. Yiba njengomuntu wegazi lobukhosi, ukhuliswe endlini yokuboleka yamantombazane ahloniphekile, engazi ukuthi iforki yesithathu isendlini.
Kungaba kuhle ukuqamba amanga kakhulu ngamakhono akho nempumelelo yakho, tshela indaba engakaze ibe khona kuwe. Ngelinye igama, zama ukubheka njengokungokwemvelo ngangokunokwenzeka.
8. Mhleka, ukuze umlingani akhombise inhliziyo yakho ngamathoni akho nawo wonke amafayili amazinyo.
Kungani lokhu kuhleka okumnandi ngehlaya elihle? Ukuhleka kakhulu futhi kaningi, ngisho noma le ndoda ithi ngamabomu. Akakwazi ukuhluleka ukuphawula izinga lokuqonda kwakho (noma ukungabi khona kwakhe).
9. Ungakhathali ukuhlonipha i-interlocutor, ukumncoma ngokuncoma.
Lapha konke okufana ncamashi ne-perfume - ukubethezeka okuningi, okungcono, futhi kusuka kulokho, futhi kusuka komunye kungaphumelela. Ungesabi ukwedlulela, uhlonipha izinwele zakhe, izingubo kanye nezwi njalo imizuzu emihlanu. Ingabe usuqalile ukuphawula lokho okwesabekayo? Qhubeka nomsebenzi omuhle!
10. Tshela indaba ende mayelana ne-ex yakho, ungakhohlwa ukukhuluma lokho elele embhedeni.
Lesi esinye sezimo ezibaluleke kakhulu somhlangano ohlulekile. Ngemuva kokuthi umuntu onjalo uzoqiniseka ukuthi kukhona khona ingxoxo efanayo yamakhono akhe nomnumzane wakho olandelayo. Akungabazeki ukuthi uzotshisa ngesifiso sokuthi uzoba yingxenye yalokho "ukuhlaziywa kwamathambo".
11. Nikeza incazelo yazo zonke izikhonzi endaweni yokudlela kanye nombhangqwana abahlezi etafuleni eliseduzane.
Lungisa isigaba sangaphambilini: zifakazele ukuthi ungakwazi ukuxoxa nokugxeka futhi ungathandi nje kuphela owokuqala, kodwa nanoma yimuphi omunye umuntu owela ngengozi emkhakheni wakho wombono.
12. Khuluma ngezinkinga zakho, wabelane ngezindaba ngezinkinga emsebenzini futhi ukhononde ngesimo sezimali.
Masizwe ukuthi ungajabule kanjani futhi unesihe, mhlawumbe uzokuzisola, kodwa kuphela manje. Ngeke kube khona amanye amathuba. Inkinga abesifazane abakho konke amadoda abawafunayo.
13. Vula imfihlo emndenini eyingozi.
Ungatshela futhi ngemvukuzane eyimfihlo ngakwesokudla kwangaphakathi kwethanga, tshela izindaba ezithokozisayo ukuthi kulezi zinyanga ezintathu ezedlule wakwazi ukulahlekelwa (futhi uthole inzuzo engcono) 15 kg wezisindo esiningi, ukunikeza ulwazi mayelana nokuthi izinwele zidaywe ngempumelelo kanjani ngesonto eledlule. Nweba wonke amakhadi ngesikhathi esisodwa, ukuze kungabi kwesigqila esincane kuwe - yilokho okudingekayo ukuba umuntu alahlekelwe isithakazelo kumuntu wesifazane.
14. Ukuqhubeka nomhlangano isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, ngaphandle kokunikeza umlingani ithuba lokubalekela.
Uqaphele ukuthi umhlangano uhlala emahoreni angaphezu kwama-amabili, futhi ama-fidgets akho e-interlocutor esihlalweni, ama-squints ngokusobala ekuphumeni futhi ebiza ukuthi umgcinisihlalo akhokhe? Sekuyisikhathi sokuhlelela elinye ibhodlela lewayini bese uthi ufuna ngempela ukuphuza naye ebuzalwane.
15. Qinisekisa ukucacisa ukuthi umhlangano olandelayo uzokwenzeka nini nokuthi kanjani.
Konke kwahamba ngokuvumelana nokuhlela futhi kungenzeka - umhlangano wehlulekile! Umnumzane okhohliwe ngokuziphatha uyajabula ngokukuhambisa ekutheni athathe itekisi elindile enethemba lokungahlangani futhi? Lawula ukudubula: qiniseka ukuthi ubuza nini, ngaluphi usuku lwesonto lapho ungahlangana khona futhi uphinde ubheke kusihlwa okungenakulibaleka namhlanje. Hhayi, manje ngokuqinisekile - akekho!