Uvame ukuzitshela ukuthi kungani ngedwa? Ngenzani manje? Izintombi zishadile futhi azibizi ukuthi uzophumula ngempelasonto! Kwanele ukuhlupheka, cabanga nje ukuthi kungani kwenzeka.
Iqiniso liwukuthi impilo enesizungu ayibonakali ngokuzumayo, izenzakalo eziningi ezincane ziholele kulokhu, kamuva okwaba yinkinga yakho. Lokhu kusabisa kakhulu, kuyabuhlungu futhi kuyalimala, uma kungekho muntu ozochitha usuku, akekho ozohamba eholidini. Abangane bakho abathandekayo nabangani bakho baqala ukukusola into embi kakhulu - isifiso sokususa indoda yabo. Ungacasuli kubo, kungokwemvelo ukuthi owesifazane anakekele ukuphepha kwemindeni yomndeni.
Bheka izimbangela ezivame kakhulu zesozungu, mhlawumbe phakathi kwazo uzothola inkinga yakho.
Inkinga yenombolo 1
Abesifazane abesaba ukukhetha abangane babo abasibo abantu bokuqala, bazolahlwa yedwa.
Ingabe uhle, uhlakaniphile, ubelokhu ukhona kukho konke kuqala? Khona-ke kufanele ube nendoda enhle kunazo zonke, enemikhuba emihle kanye nomsebenzi ophumelelayo! Yebo? Khohlwa! Qonda, umfana oqhuba ithelevishini yekhamera, naye, angaba ubaba okhathalelayo, umyeni onothando futhi ngokushesha uzofeza okuningi. Ungabheke izindlela ezilula - ungumuntu onqobayo! Bese uzama, bheka kancane kancane kwabanye. Ungesabi ukuthi abangane bakho bayokulahla noma omunye umuntu ozikhethele. Ziqhenye ngesigamu sakho sesibili! Zitshele: Angifuni ukuba ngedwa, angifuni ukuzwela!
Inkinga yenombolo 2
Nginabazali abaqinile kakhulu abangivumi ukuba ngihlangane nomfana, ungavumeli ukumema abangani abasha ukuthi bavakashele. Mhlawumbe, nginesizungu kakhulu ngenxa yalokhu ...
Kodwa lokhu akuyona neze inkinga uma uthola amandla okushintsha isimo kuwe. Wena - omdala nomuntu ozimele, kodwa owesifazane omuhle futhi ongashadile - ngakho akufanele uqhubeke! Umsebenzi wakho ukukhipha ukunakekelwa kwabazali bakho, ngoba ukwesaba abazali bakho ngekusasa lakho akuyona into kodwa ukwesaba isizungu sabo. Baqiniseke ukuthi uzobathanda futhi, lapho ushada, kodwa manje-ukuqasha indawo ngokuphuthumayo!
Inkinga # 3
Ngake ngishisa kakhulu, ngakho-ke nginesizungu kakhulu futhi ngingajabuli.
Inkinga enzima, kodwa impela iyatholakala. Uyazi, kunabantu abaningi abakhulu emhlabeni kunabantu ababi. Izwe liyathandeka futhi lihlukile. Bathethelela bonke abahlukumezayo, behluleka ukukhumbula izinkumbulo ezingathandeki. Isinyathelo sokuqala sisesikhungweni sokufaneleka! Lena akuyona iklabhu yebusuku lapho abantu befuna ukuphola okulula, lokhu kuyindawo yokuhlangana yabantu abanentshisekelo ejwayelekile. Thola ezinhlanganweni zakho zokuvakasha zedolobheni, zihlale ziqinile, zithembekile, zishisekayo. Kuyajabulisa, kuyathakazelisa - maduzane ngeke ube yedwa noma, ngoba uzohamba ekamu, hamba ekuseni ekuseni ngoMgqibelo nomuntu othandekayo.
Manje uqonda ukuthi kunzima kanjani ukuba nesizungu, ngakho-ke thola amandla ukuvula ubuhlobo obusha. Uma kukhona amaphutha, kuzoba amaphutha akho futhi akekho oyokugweba ngenxa yabo. Ukuphila ukunyakaza, hhayi ukuma amanzi, okuyinto, njengoba uyazi, ayidonseli muntu ukuba agijime kuyo ...