Usizo lwezokwelapha lokucindezeleka

Ngokuvamile ukucindezeleka kuba yindlela yokuphila komuntu okwamanje futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kosizo lwengqondo, ngemva kwakho konke, ngaphandle kokukhipha lesi simo somqondo wengqondo, uzozihudulela ngokwengeziwe ekulahleni kwalabo abathintekayo.

Siza isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ngokucindezeleka

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi usizo ngokucindezeleka luhlanganisa kokubili iseluleko sochwepheshe kanye nesithakazelo kule siguli. Phela, izinguquko ezingcono akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kwesifiso sesiguli sokubuyisela injabulo empilweni yakhe.

Kodwa, ngaphambi kokuba uqhubekele esenzweni, kubalulekile ukuqonda imbangela yokuqala kombuso ocindezelekile. Futhi ngemva kwalokho lokho kwenza okuthile:

1. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo kungabangela umonakalo omkhulu esimweni sengqondo somuntu. Kodwa lokhu kuyiphutha, hhayi isenzakalo sangaphandle (ukufa komuntu othandekayo, ukulahlekelwa isikhundla esifisa, isikhundla somphakathi, njll), kodwa ubuntu ngokwalo, noma kunalokho, ukuthi ubona kanjani inkinga. Ukucindezeleka kuvela ekucindezelekeni okuye kunqobe phezu kwakho, futhi umzabalazo wakho wangaphakathi nawo usulele, futhi kukhona usizo olulodwa kuphela kulokhu: ushintshe isimo. Zama ukususa inkinga yakho ngengqondo. Khumbuza ukuthi ngokulahlekelwa kuyadingeka ukubuyisana, uqhubeke uphila.
2. Izinga eliphezulu lokuphila . Ingabe isimiso sakho senziwe ngomzuzu futhi sinezixazululo eziningi, izinkinga nezenzakalo? Ingabe kufanele ukhulume nenani elikhulu labantu nsuku zonke? Khona-ke kulesi simo kufanelekile okungenani okwesikhashana ukubuyela emuva ezweni lakho elijwayelekile, okwesikhashana ujabulele umzuzu lapho kungekho sidingo sokugijima endaweni ethile. Umthelela omuhle uzoba nokuxhumana nemvelo.
3. Ukuhamba okungekho ngaphansi kokuphila kuyinto ehluke ngokucacile iphuzu langaphambilini, futhi kulokhu, umuntu kufanele athole umuntu ongakhuluma naye ngenhliziyo enhliziyweni (ake kube ngumuntu ongezihambi esitimeleni noma entanyeni otshalwe ngaphansi komnyango wakho). Zama ukushintsha izwe elikuzungezile, ngaleyo ndlela uzishintshe wena.

Ungazisiza kanjani ngokucindezeleka?

Uma ukwazi ukunquma ukuthi isimo sakho sithathwe ukucindezeleka, khona-ke kuqala Umthetho oyinhloko wokuwususa uyenqaba ukuphuza utshwala nezinye izinto ezikhuthazayo. Uma uhlala ekhaya isikhathi esiningi, usendlini elinde kahle. Ukukhanya okungcono, kungcono kuwe.

Isigaba esilandelayo esibalulekile? Thatha ipeni kanye nephepha. Manje umsebenzi wakho ukuphonsa konke okushicilelwe ephepheni, konke okubuhlungu, okwenziwe engqondweni. Ngemuva kwalokho, qiniseka ukuthi uzozizwa kangcono kakhulu.