Yize kungokwemvelo ukuthi umuntu afune ukuvula iveli lesikhathi esizayo, lesi sifiso asikaze sibe nzima nakakhulu kunesikhathi sokuthandana . Yilokho lapho sivame ukusebenzisa inhlanhla kumuntu othandekayo, kufaka phakathi nokugijima.
Izwi elithi i-runa ehunyushweni lisho ukuthi "imfihlakalo", kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo lezi zimpawu zazibhekwa njengezibonakaliso zemilingo, zaziqoshwe etsheni noma zinqunywe esihlahleni. Ama-runes ahlobisa izikhali nezinto zendlu, ngamunye wayenegama lakhe futhi ngamunye wayeboshelwe kunkulunkulu othize, into, noma nje into.
Kwakucatshangwa ukuthi yilowo nalowo ogijimayo uvela empilweni engcwele, ngakho-ke ungaxhuma nathi ngamandla aphezulu. Iqoqo lezingijimi lingasetshenziswa njengendlela yokubikezela kanye nokukhulunywa ngenhlanhla, kufaka phakathi uthando nobudlelwane.
Izindlela zokuqagela ku-runes ziningi. Futhi ukugijima okuningi okuhilelekile kulesi simo, incazelo ewusizo kakhulu. Kulesi sihloko, sichaza izindlela eziningana zokubikezela izinkinobho, kuye ngokuthi uhlobo lokubhula.
Ukuqagela ngokushesha kwi-runes - "Rune Odin"
Inqubo yokuqagela kwi-runes ebuhlotsheni iyashesha futhi ilula, kodwa inokwethenjelwa ngempela. Ungaqagela ngosizo lunye rune, ulususe (ngokungahleliwe) kusuka epakethe yesikhwama sokugcina isitoreji. Ngalesi sikhathi kubalulekile ukukhumbula engqondweni yombuzo noma isithombe somuntu othandekayo, bese u-rune uzokwazi ukuhumusha kahle ukuthi kwenzekani ebuhlotsheni nomuntu othandekayo, kusize ukuqonda ezinye izenzakalo bese uphendula imibuzo eyinhloko: uthando luhlangana phakathi kwakho, nokuthi yini engathandeki yalolu thando. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlela imibuzo yakho ngokunembile ngangokunokwenzeka njengoba umlingo we-runes uhambelana kakhulu, okusho ukuthi umuntu ongenalwazi angachaza ngokucacile impendulo.
Ukuqagela ngezingijima ezintathu - "Umbuzo"
Ngenxa yalokhu ukubhula, kufanele futhi uhlele umbuzo, futhi ugcine engqondweni yakho kuze kube yizigijimi eziphambi kwakho. Beka ama-runes ukusuka kwesokudla kuya kwesobunxele bese uwafunda ngendlela efanayo njengoba ayenayo. Uma ucabanga ngobuhlobo:
- i-rune yokuqala izokukhombisa isimo;
- Owesibili ukukhombisa isiqondiso sesenzo okudingekayo kuwe;
- I-rune yesithathu ukubikezelwa okuqondile kwesimo okufanele sizilandele esikhathini esizayo.
Ukuqagela ebuhlotsheni "Izigijimi eziyisithupha"
Izidingo eziyisisekelo zenkambiso zihlala zingashintshi: uthola inombolo edingekayo ye-runes, ugxile kokuthandayo. Uwasakaza kusukela kwesokudla kuya kwesobunxele bese ufunda:
- i-rune yokuqala yesikhathi esedlule, okungukuthi, bekuyini phakathi kwakho nabathandekayo bakho;
- okwesibili kuzosiza ukuqonda ukuthi ikubonani;
- owesithathu ubikezela ukuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo;
- okwesine kubonisa ukuthi kungani uphendukela ku-runes;
- owesihlanu uzokutshela lokho okudingeka ukwenze ukuze ugcine noma uvuselele uthando olufanayo ;
- owesithupha uzobonisa ikusasa elikulindele ngaphansi kwesimo sokuthi imiyalelo yesi-rune yesihlanu igcwaliseka.
Imithetho yokubhula ekugijimeni kothando
- konke esikhwameni sakho kufanele kube nezinkampani ezingamashumi amabili nambili noma amabili namashumi amabili nanhlanu, okungenani kufanele kube khona (noma kwimemori);
- vula izigijimi ukusuka kwesokudla kuya kwesobunxele bese uzifunda ngendlela efanayo;
- ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana ngenhlanhla, gcina engqondweni umbuzo noma umfanekiso womuntu osebenzisana naye ukubhula;
- Kukholelwa ukuthi akuyona indlela yokuziphatha yokuqagela ukufuna ukwazi (ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ngobuhlobo phakathi kwabanye abantu), futhi ukuqagela uthando kumgijimi uma kwenzeka omunye umuntu engasoli lutho ngemicabango yakho;
- kubalulekile futhi ukwakha imibuzo yakho ngokungavamile, ngenxa yokuthi i-rune ngayinye ayinayo incazelo eyodwa, futhi umuntu ongenalwazi angenza iziphetho ezingalungile.
Futhi khumbula: kugijimela kuphela, futhi ukuphela kusezandleni zakho njalo!