Njengoba kuboniswa yizinkumbulo zabesifazane ekubelethweni, ngisho nasezimo ezibucayi kakhulu, ngokuvamile ukuhleka kwemizwa okunempilo kuvame ukusiza. Akudingeki ukuthi, kuyasiza ukugcina ukumnika okuhle nokumamatheka ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ukubeletha, nangemva kokuzalwa kwengane. Mhlawumbe yingakho amaqhinga omama ahlale ethandwa kakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Isimo sengqondo sokuthi kwenzekani ngamahlaya kuzosiza ukuhlala uzolile, ngaphandle kwalokho ubuke isimo noma uxazulule ngobumnene impikiswano. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu uma ukuxabana kuvuthwa phambi kowesifazane okhulelwe, ngoba okuhlangenwe nakho kwemizwa ye-crane kuyingozi emgodini wengane.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngokuphathelene nezinguquko ze-hormone, omama abazayo bahlale behlushwa ukucindezeleka. Ukuphazamiseka okuncane nokumamatheka kuzokuvumela ukufunda izindaba ezahlukene ezivela esibhedlela. Phela, cishe wonke owesifazane obeletha unendaba ehlekile eshiywe esitokisini angaba nayo.
Omama omnandi bavame ukuhlotshaniswa:
- ngehlazo nokuziphatha kodokotela;
- ngokuziphatha komyeni ngesikhathi sokubeletha;
- ngezimo ezizelelwe.
Izindaba ezimnandi ezivela esibhedlela
Izindaba mayelana nokuhleka kwezokwelapha
- Ngemuva kwe-cearean ngithathwe emgodini. Indoda yabuza udokotela: "Kungani ethuthumela kangaka?" Udokotela uyamphendula: "Ngakho ama-frosts maduzane!"
- Lapho ekugcineni ngibeletha indodakazi, udokotela okhathele owabeletha kakhulu ngaphambi kwami, ngaya ekhaya. Nganquma ukumbuza: "Ngitshele, kanti okwesibini kuzofika nini?" Udokotela wayebukele iwashi lakhe wathi: "Ukuhamba kwami kuzoba ngoLwesithathu ..."
Izindaba zabesifazane ekubelethweni ngokuziphatha komyeni wakhe
- Phakathi nobusuku, intombi yaqala ukulwa. Wavusa umyeni wakhe wathi sekuyisikhathi sokuya esibhedlela. Umyeni washaywa futhi waqala ukuzama ukubiza itekisi, ebambe ithubhu phansi. Lapho ekugcineni bebizela imoto bangitshela ukuthi kufanele ngiye esibhedlela, umshayeli wetekisi wathi uzozama kanzima. Umyeni wakhe waphendula wathi: "Siyabonga, kodwa asiphuthumayo."
- Akukho okubi kakhulu kunokulinda. Umyeni wami naye wanikela ekushiseni: wayegijima njalo endlini ngendoda eyayithengiwe, futhi lapho emela embhedeni, wabuza: "Uphi ingane?".
Zijabulise esibhedlela, ezihambisana nezimo ezingalindelekile
- Ngaphakathi phakathi kokuzalwa kuzo zonke izibhedlela, ugesi uvaliwe. Njengoba ngisebumnyameni obumnyama esikhwameni sokubeletha, ngaqonda ukuthi kwakungaphezu kwamandla ami ukuyeka inqubo. Odokotela banquma ukuletha amafoni abo futhi baqondise ukukhanya kubo lapho kufanele kuhambe khona. Abantu abaningana bahamba bebhekene nezinyawo zami ngefoni, kodwa udokotela wathi akukho ukukhanya okwanele. Ngabe sengithi ngizothatha imayini, ngoba unesihenqo esikhulu ... Nazi ukuzalwa okujabulisayo.
Lawa ambalwa amacala amnandi avela esibhedlela. Kodwa ngaphezu kwezingozi ezihlekisayo nabantu, abesifazane besesimweni esithakazelisayo kukhona izingubo ezimnandi kakhulu kwabesifazane abakhulelwe. Kunezikhathi lapho owesifazane kufanele azifihle ukukhulelwa esikhathini esidlule. Namuhla, omama abazayo ngokuphambene nabo bagcizelela isimo sabo. Futhi abaklami kulokhu basiza kuphela. Ama-t-shirts ngamahlaya kwabesifazane abakhulelwe ahlukaniswa kuphela ngokusika okhethekile, kodwa futhi ngemifanekiso ehlekisayo nemibhalo ebhaliwe. Kuhle kakhulu, ngokwesibonelo, ubukeka njengeTekhthi ngemidwebo yamacandi nezinyawo ezincane. Ukubhalwa kwezingubo kungakuxwayisa ukuthi phambi komama ozayo akufanele ubheme.
Kungani kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuzijabulisa ngenkathi ubeletha ingane? Ukuhleka kuyindlela elula futhi engabizi kakhulu yokuqeda ukucindezeleka. Ngisho nososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi labo besifazane abahleka kakhulu ngesikhathi besakhulelwe, abatholakali kakhulu nezifo ze-catarrhal, futhi izingane zabo azikho izinkinga zamapheshana okuphefumula. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukufunda amahlaya abesifazane abakhulelwe kunokusongela izindaba ngazo zonke izinhlobo zezinkinga. Phakamisa.
Emva kwakho konke, uma uphatha okwenzekayo ngehlekisayo futhi uthande ingane yakho, ngakho-ke akukho zindaba ezesabekayo mayelana nokubeletha kuzonciphisa injabulo yobazali.