U-2018 waqala kuphela, okusho ukuthi wonke umuntu uzoba nesikhathi sokwenza uhlu lwemigomo yonyaka ozayo. Futhi uyazi ukuthi kungani abantu abaningi becabanga ukuthi lolu hlu aluyilo lutho kodwa luyahlupha?
Yebo, ngoba abazange baphumelele ukufeza okukulolu hlu. Isizathu salokhu kuhluleka akukhona ngokungabi nenhloso, inhlanhla ethile emnandi, kodwa ekusebenziseni okungalungile kwezimgomo ezibekiwe. Sekuyisikhathi sokulungisa isimo. Nazi izizathu ezingu-25 ukuthi kungani ungaqondi kuphela ukuthi kungani uhlu lwaminyaka yonke lonyaka lwangaphambilini lwezinhlelo zonyaka luhlala ephepheni, kodwa ungaqhubeka kalula nokusebenzisa izinhlelo zakho.
1. Sikhokhisa izinto eziningi ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Iningi labalimi basikisela ngokushesha ukuthi kusetshenziswe okuthile emhlabeni jikelele. Ngikholelwa, ukuthi usheshe waqala kanjani ukufeza lo mgomo, vele uphonse lolu daba ngokushesha. Ideal: nsuku zonke ukwenza okuncane, nakuba kungabonakali kakhulu, izinyathelo ezibhekele okufunayo. Le nqubo ingafaniswa, isibonelo, ngokudla ikhekhe. Ngakho-ke, noma ugaye kancane kancane kancane kancane, ujabulela ama-pastries okumnandi, noma ngomzuzu uzodonsa yonke i-dessert futhi ngenxa yalokho ngeke uzizwe ujabule nokwaneliseka, kodwa kuphela ubunzima esiswini.
2. Siyeka ngokushesha.
Ngokushesha nje lapho isisusa siqala ukuphela, ngokushesha ubheke encwadini, lapho ekuqaleni konyaka babhala ngomgomo wabo ngokuningiliziwe. Isibonelo, ekupheleni konyaka ufuna ukuthenga imoto entsha, ukukhohlwa mayelana nokushayela kokuthutha umphakathi. Ngokungangabazeki, kunzima ukusebenza ngaphandle kwamaholide, ukuzitholela. Ngezinye izikhathi ufuna ukuyeka, thatha imali oyitholile bese uya eholidini. Ngezikhathi ezinjalo, kuhle ukubuka umgibeli wakho, lapho kuzobekwa khona okuningiliziwe, ukuthi kungani udinga le mali, ukuthi uyayisindisa nokuthi impilo yakho izoshintsha kanjani ngokuthenga imoto.
3. Sigxila ezintweni ezimbi kuphela.
Isibonelo, ufuna ukushayela ehlobo ngefomu lomzimba eliphelele, ukulahla amakhilogremu ambalwa. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ulondoloze impilo yakho ezintweni ezimbi (kulokhu kunzima ngokweqile), kubalulekile ukungeza izikhathi ezinhle (kungaba ukuqeqeshwa ukudansa nge-pylon).
4. Sifuna kakhulu ngokuphathelene nathi.
Ekuqaleni sithembisa ukuthi sidle amnandi kancane. Khona-ke silahlekelwa isisusa sethu, izandla zethu ziwehla futhi ngokuzumayo, uma ungenzi, ngo-23: 00 uhlala phambi kwekhompyutha yakho ngephepha le-Napoleon. Ngenxa yalokho, uzithukuthelele, futhi lokhu kuyoholela ekungeneni okuhle. Vumela ucezu oluthile lwento enobungozi, kodwa okunambitheka kakhulu. Thatha ikhefu elifushane futhi uhlaziye ukuthi kungani ufuna ukudla okuncane okumnandi, okuzokunika yona, ukuthi lokhu kuzoshintsha kanjani impilo yakho. Ngikholelwa, esikhathini esizayo, amandla azokubonga ngakho.
5. Sonke asiyazi ukuthi singayenza kanjani imigomo yethu ngendlela efanele.
Kukhona umqondo we "umgomo ohlakaniphile" (izinhloso ze-SMART). Kule ngqungquthela i-SMART yisifushaniso, sichaza ngokuthi: okuqondile, okulinganiselwe, okufinyelelekayo, okufanelekile, okuyiminyaka. Ngamafuphi: zibuze imigomo eqondile ongayifinyelela esikhathini esithile.
6. Ukucabanga okungalungile.
Uma uhlela ukuyeka ukubhema, kodwa ekhaya noma emsebenzini uhlale ubhekene nokucindezeleka, khona-ke kuyoba nzima ukusebenza. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale noma yikuphi ukuguqulwa, khipha okungalungile empilweni yakho.
7. Siphutha ekulawuleni isikhathi sethu.
Sonke sihlukile, kodwa ngoba lokho okusebenza empilweni yomunye, omunye umuntu akakwazi ukusiza. Kodwa, ekugcineni, ngamunye wethu unamahora angu-24. Uma uchitha isikhathi sakho esiyigugu kumanethiwekhi omphakathi, sekuyisikhathi sokuyibopha. Mhlawumbe uyayichitha emidlalweni yevidiyo noma ezingxoxweni ezingenalutho nabantu abayingozi? Lahla abaqeda isikhathi sakho.
8. Sodwa.
Ingxenye elukhuni kakhulu ukukwenza yedwa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini ongayicabangi ngayo, abantu abathanda umoya badinga ukuxhumana nabanye. Bheka umuntu ozohamba nawe ngendlela efanayo. Ngikholelwa, kulula ukubili ukunqoba noma yikuphi ubunzima.
9. Izingqinamba zezezimali.
Ngokuvamile sikholelwa ukuthi ukuze ulahlekelwe isisindo, kudingeka uqale ukuhamba ehholo elibizayo. Eqinisweni, kunezindlela eziningi eziphansi kakhulu zokufeza imigomo.
10. Sivame ukuphazamiseka.
Uma kudingeka sigxile kulokho okubaluleke kakhulu, sekuyisikhathi sokuqeda lokho okuphazamisa njalo ukunakekelwa kwethu. Lapha yonke into ihlaselwa kuqala. Iseluleko esibalulekile: noma yini engakusizi ukufeza umgomo, ukubambezela ukusebenza kwayo, ikubuyisela emuva isinyathelo esisodwa.
11. Ayikho uhlelo oluhlelwe kahle.
Uma ungakwazi ukufeza okufunayo, kunesilingo esikhulu sokuzinikela, ushiye konke okuncane. Ukuze ugweme ukunganaki ibhizinisi kuqala ngesikhathi sokuphelelwa yisikhathi, kunendima ebalulekile okufanele inikezwe ekuhleleni. Uhlelo olucatshangelwe kahle luzokuvumela ukuba uthole izinyathelo ezifanele. Ngamanye amazwi, uma i-Plan A ingasebenzi, yisikhathi sokuqala ukusekela.
12. Amalungiselelo amaningi kakhulu okungahambisani nawo.
Yebo, kwenzeka futhi. Kukhona labo abangenalo uhlelo olulodwa lokuphumula, kodwa kukhona nabantu abane okungenani abayishumi kubo. Kuvela ukuthi ukudala inamba enkulu yezinye izindlela zokukhetha, senza okuthandayo indlela elula yokufeza okufunayo.
13. Awufuni ukuhlela noma yini.
Esinye isizathu sokuthi kungani imigomo eminingi ihlala iphupho. Uma ungafundi ukuhlela, uzohluleka. Bhala phansi ephepheni lezinyathelo ezokusiza ukuthi ushintshe impilo yakho, uyibuyisele empeleni. Kubalulekile ukuchaza konke, ungakhohlwa isimiso se-SMART (bona iphuzu # 5).
14. Sigxila ekuhlulekeni kwethu.
Uma wenza amaphutha, bese usendleleni efanele. Izinkinga kulabo abangakaze bahluleke. Lapha kufanelekile ukukhumbula amagama kaWinston Churchill: "Impumelelo yikhono lokuhamba ekuhlulekeni, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa umdlandla," ngakho-ke gxila emandleni akho. Cabanga ngamaphutha njengento yokuphila ewusizo.
15. Sinekezela.
Akekho ofeza imigomo yakhe ebusuku. Uyazi ukuthi uThomas Edison wasungula kaningi kangakanani isibani sokukhanya? Cha, hhayi kusukela kwesibili futhi hhayi kokungokwesithathu, kodwa kusukela kuyinkulungwane. Khumbula lokhu futhi ungasheshi ukuthukuthela lapho, ngemva kwamasonto noma izinyanga, ungakwazi ukufeza okufunayo.
16. Sesaba ukwehluleka.
Yebo, awukwazi ukuzama. Khona-ke ngeke uhluleke, ngeke uhlale emgodini ongaphazamiseki. Kodwa ungaqala nje, zama ukuphumelela. Noma ufuna ukuhlala yonke impilo yakho endaweni eyodwa, ukukhononda ngempilo futhi ungazami ukuguqula kangcono?
17. Sinciphisa amandla ethu.
Awazi ngisho nokuthi uyakwazi yini. Amakhono abantu awapheli. Yonke imingcele isemakhanda ethu. Ngesifiso nokuzethemba ngokweqile, ungakwazi ukuvula kalula izintaba.
18. Asithembekile ngokuphelele kithi.
Ngezinye izikhathi asikwazi lokho esikufunayo, kodwa yikuphi umphakathi osigqugquzelayo noma osinike abantu abathile. Kubalulekile ukubuka ngaphakathi kwakho, ukuqonda izifiso zakho zangempela. Ubani owaziyo, kodwa mhlawumbe awukwazi ukufinyelela umgomo othile, ngoba wawunikwe umphakathi? Qonda ukuthi yini oyifunayo ngempela.
19. Gxila ezintweni ezilodwa.
Izengqondo zezenhlalo azikhatheli ukuphinda lokho amandla kuyisimo esincane. Yeka ukusipela ngakwesokudla nangesobunxele. Isikhathi sokugxila ezintweni ezilodwa.
20. Siziqhathanisa nabanye.
Khumbula ukuthi obani okudingayo ukuthi uziqhathanise, unayo esikhathini esidlule. Sonke sihlukile, sonke sinokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu kokuphila futhi ngamunye kithi, ukuze sifinyelele okufunayo, kufanele sinqobe izithiyo ezihlukahlukene.
21. Sizibonela kuphela okubi.
Yeka ukuzibuka njengomuntu ongakwazi ukufeza lokho akufunayo. Khumbula ukuthi imicabango yakho ithonya izinkolelo zakho, okusho ukuthi, zenze izenzo ezifanele. Sondela esibukweni. Manje umuntu ophumelelayo ubheka wena, ulwandle lugugu ngamadolo. Sika wena ekhaleni.
22. Senza isimiso sosuku.
Ukungazitholi kufanele kube nokulawula usuku lwakho. Izodlala ihlaya elinonya ekufezeni umgomo. Okwamanje, thatha ipeni kanye nephepha. Yenza uhlelo lokusebenza oluseduze olusasa.
23. Asikwazi ukusho cha.
Angifuni ukukhuluma okuningi lapha. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela into eyodwa kuphela. Ngakho-ke, abantu abavame ukuthi "cha, sorry, kodwa hhayi namuhla", baphumelela kakhulu kunabanye.
24. Asifuni ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo.
Ukushintsha kuqala futhi kuphelile nathi, izenzo zethu, imicabango. Ungalindeli olwandle ngenxa yesimo sezulu. Nguwe kuphela ongashintsha impilo yakho. Yeka indlela okudabukisayo okungeke kuzwakale ngayo, kodwa umhlaba wonke awunandaba nokuthi ungajabuli kangakanani. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukufeza imigomo yakho. Ungabheka isisusa kwabanye. Thatha umthwalo wempilo yakho.
25. Sigxile kakhulu kulo mphumela.
Uma ugxila kakhulu kulokho okudingayo ukufezekisa, kunzima ukuthi kube luhambo lwakho oluya emgomeni. Jabulela yonke impumelelo encane, zonke, noma ezingabalulekile, ukunqoba. Ngeke uqaphele ukuthi uzofinyelela kanjani ngokushesha lokho okufisayo.