Igama elithi "Stockholm syndrome" ekuqaleni libhekisela kuphela esimweni sengqondo se-hostages, lapho baqala ukuzwelana nabahlaseli. Kamuva leli gama lithola uhlelo olubanzi futhi lusetshenziselwa ukukhomba ukukhangwa kwesisulu kummeli ngokujwayelekile.
Hostage Syndrome noma i-Stockholm Syndrome
I-Stockholm Syndrome yathola igama layo ku-Niels Bijerot, oyisigebengu, owayisebenzisa ekuhlaziyeni kwakhe isimo sokubamba inkunzi-e-Stockholm ngo-1973. Kwaba ngabambalwa abaphindaphindiwe ababesebamba owesilisa nabesifazane abathathu futhi izinsuku ezinhlanu bawagcina ebhange, besongela izimpilo zabo.
Lesi senzakalo sabonakala lapho kukhishwa ama-hostage. Ngokungazelelwe, izisulu zithatha uhlangothi lwabahlaseli futhi zazama nokuvimbela amaphoyisa afike ezokwenza umsebenzi wokukhulula. Ngemuva kokuba izigebengu ziboshwe ejele, izisulu zacela izikhalazo futhi zazisekela. Omunye wabantu abathunjiwe wahlukanisa umyeni wakhe futhi wathembisa ukwethembeka kummpi, owayesongela impilo yakhe ngalezo zinsuku ezinhlanu ezinde futhi ezimbi. Esikhathini esizayo, ama-hostage amabili azinikezela abahlaseli.
Kwakungenzeka ukuchaza imiphumela engavamile yalokho okwenzekile kubangaphambili. Izisulu kancane kancane zaqala ukuzibonakalisa zabahlaseli ngesikhathi sokuhlala isikhathi eside ensimini efanayo nabathumba. Okokuqala, le ndlela yindlela yokuvikela engqondweni evumela ukuthi ukholelwe ukuthi abahlaseli ngeke babangele.
Lapho umsebenzi wokukhulula uqala, isimo siphinde sibe yingozi: manje akusibo kuphela abahlaseli abangalimaza, kodwa futhi nabavuleli, ngisho noma bengenangqondo. Yingakho isisulu sithatha indawo ephephile kakhulu - ukubambisana nabahlaseli.
Lesi sigwebo saba nezinsuku eziyisihlanu - ngalesi sikhathi ngokuzibandakanya kukhona ukukhulumisana, isisulu sibheka isigebengu, izisusa zakhe zisondele kuso. Ngenxa yokucindezeleka, isimo singabonakala njengephupho, lapho konke kuguqulwa khona, futhi abahlengikazi kulo mbono kungabonakala kubangela zonke izinkinga.
Isifo se-Stockholm syndrome
Namuhla i-Stockholm syndrome ebuhlotsheni bomndeni ivame ukutholakala. Ngokuvamile emshadweni onjalo owesifazane uhlushwa udlame kumyeni wakhe, ahlole ukuzwelana okungajwayelekile kumuntu ohlukumezayo njengabathumba abahlaseli. Ubuhlobo obufanayo bungathuthuka phakathi kwabazali nezingane.
Njengomthetho, i-Stockholm syndrome ibonakala kubantu futhi icabangela "isisulu". Njengengane, abangenayo i-caress yomzali nokukhathalela, bayabona ukuthi ezinye izingane emndenini zithanda kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokhu, benza inkolelo yokuthi bangabantu abahamba phambili, njalo bakhangisa izinkinga ezingafaneleki lutho oluhle. Ukuziphatha kwabo kusekelwe kulo mqondo: kancane kancane ukhuluma nomuntu ohlukumezayo, ukuthukuthela okuncane kokuthukuthela kwakhe. Njengomthetho, isisulu asikho esimweni sokungathetheleli umashiqela, futhi
Usizo nge-Stockholm syndrome
Uma sicabanga nge-Stockholm syndrome ngaphakathi kohlaka lobudlelwane bomndeni (lokhu kuyinkinga evame kakhulu), khona-ke owesifazane, njengombuso, ufihle izinkinga zakhe kwabanye, futhi ufuna isizathu sokuhlukunyezwa komyeni wakhe. Uma bezama ukumsiza, uthatha ohlangothini lomhlukumezi - umyeni wakhe.
Ngeshwa, cishe akunakwenzeka ukuphoqelela umuntu onjalo ukuba asize. Kuphela uma owesifazane ebona umonakalo wangempela emshadweni wakhe, uyaqaphela ukungabi nalutho kwezenzo zakhe nokungazi lutho kwamathemba akhe, uzokwazi ukushiya indima yalowo ohlukumezekile. Kodwa-ke, ngaphandle kosizo lochwepheshe, ukufeza impumelelo kuyoba nzima, ngakho kubalulekile ukubonisana nochwepheshe, kanti ngaphambili, kungcono.